My Views on Couples' Friendships

Recent chats have revealed that some couples have mentioned trying 69 (sex swapping) for a long time without finding a genuine, suitable partner, leading to a loss of faith. Here's my personal opinion: this might be due to a lack of patience or encountering couples with differing perspectives. Ultimately, those who come to 69 hope to satisfy their curiosity, sexual fantasies, and possessiveness through swapping or threesomes. Some couples want to swap quickly, while others are more cautious and hesitant. Furthermore, each couple has different tolerance levels, making it truly difficult to find a suitable partner. Therefore, I believe that couples genuinely seeking friendship shouldn't expect to find a suitable partner quickly; higher hopes lead to greater disappointment. It requires all four parties to be interested, with the woman's feelings being the most crucial. However, I believe that as long as we are sincere, we will definitely reap unexpected rewards.
From what I understand, many couples use swapping and threesome talk during intimacy to flirt, increasing fantasy and libido, leading to greater excitement and improved sex life. However, I've also noticed that those hoping their wives will agree to swap don't necessarily intend to actually swap with them. A wife's agreement at this point doesn't necessarily mean she truly agrees. Therefore, couples genuinely considering swapping must calmly communicate and prepare themselves psychologically. This is especially true for couples meeting for the first time; both are often cautious and reluctant to take that step easily. This stems from safety concerns and a sense of responsibility towards the family, which is perfectly normal.
Some couples share our perspective: they can start as friends, meeting in person after getting to know each other, having meals, tea, karaoke, movies, traveling together, etc., without immediately engaging in swapping. Once they fully understand each other and both feel a connection, they can gradually progress. A relaxed and pleasant atmosphere makes it easier to deepen feelings for each other, leading to more natural developments. Wives who agree to swapping out of consideration for their husbands won't feel as much pressure and are more likely to accept it.
Sincerity and trust are the primary and most important prerequisites for couples swapping partners. After a period of getting to know each other, both should be honest about their own situations and the level of acceptance they can tolerate; this is also a manifestation of sincerity. Otherwise, if things don't go smoothly when you actually meet, it could end badly, which wouldn't be good for anyone. We can't accept those who immediately propose a relationship upon meeting, no matter how good their online chats were.
We hope that sincere couples with similar ideas can communicate more. Location isn't a barrier, age isn't a threshold, and we shouldn't be exchanging partners for the sake of exchanging. In our free time, we can discuss our views on dating and life together. Everything should be based on strengthening our marital bond and rekindling our initial passion.

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