[Dedicated to Single Men] How to be the kind of single man that 69 couples like.

I've been on 69 Paradise for over two months and have met several couples. Some friends suspect I'm fabricating stories, saying many of them have become members but haven't found many partners. I won't argue too much here. Below, I'll share my understanding and insights about the vast majority of couples on 69, and how a single man can get a couple to open up to him. After reading this, I believe you'll change your mind about whether I'm fabricating stories.

Honesty, mutual trust, mutual respect, and mutual pleasure are key. The word "mutual" appears most frequently here. In my opinion, in a threesome, whether it's a couple or a single man, neither party can create a complete or even perfect relationship.

As a single man, you must be honest in making friends. If a couple wants to get to know you, you can't directly ask for their information or photos, and you shouldn't use vulgar language. Some couples will naturally talk about these topics after getting to know you. You must take the initiative to introduce yourself, including your photos and information, and after you've truthfully introduced yourself, ask the couple if they like you (of course, this doesn't mean that if a couple rejects you, it means you're not good enough; everyone has different tastes). Then, depending on the situation, you can ask them for some information. Of course, some couples are still resistant to photos. In this case, you can usually choose to ask them to provide some photos where their faces are not shown. Or, if a couple is particularly kind and gentle, and after introducing their basic information, they say that due to special circumstances they cannot provide photos, you should express your understanding and not press them. Here, based on the principle of friendship and mutual trust, if you truthfully provide them with your information, and the couple expresses interest in you but still refuses to provide any of their information, personally, I don't like this kind of couple. Respect must be mutual, whether you are a single man or a couple, you should be respected.

This next point is very important; please be frank. For example, if you are a single man and want to find an open and mature couple, and don't want to find a novice or shy couple, or if a couple wants a service-oriented single man with good skills, etc., don't be shy, please express your requirements completely. Some single men might be afraid to express their true feelings. For example, if you're looking for a couple with unusual tastes, you might be afraid of scaring them away. So, you avoid directly answering questions, skirting the line. Even setting aside the potential impact of a meeting, this kind of suggestive answering in casual conversation will cause many couples to distance themselves from you. In that case, I can only congratulate you; you've already ended things before they even begin. While directly expressing your preferences will certainly draw some rejections, remember that you will definitely meet and be liked by couples who share your tastes. If you simply avoid and pretend, you'll only cause both types of couples to distance themselves.

Another point for couples: being a couple might naturally give you a sense of superiority, which isn't wrong, but please don't generalize. On platforms like 69, most couples prefer single men who offer services. Having this desire is fine, but you can't stop single men from seeking such partners, can you? I've read many couples' blog posts expressing their disappointment or lack of satisfaction. Most of them talk about wanting a single man with various skills, only to find out he lacks them, leading them to vent online about the single man's poor character. When novice couples see these posts, they don't understand what "character" means, and it might inadvertently condemn some innocent single men.
Finally, I think everyone, whether single or married, should understand the meaning of "you can't have everything." I'll give an example from my own experience; other couples are welcome to share their opinions. My aim is to encourage rational discussion, as nothing is absolute. Many couples like to find young, single college students. For example, I'm a college student myself. I met a couple on 69 (I'm not complaining about them, just stating the facts). We didn't chat much, but we lived very far apart—they were in the south and I was in the north. After a video call, they expressed their liking for a northern boy and wanted me to come to their city. I then made a condition: I hoped they could provide basic food and lodging in their city. Then they disagreed, and I said I understood, and that friendship comes first. Then they said some rather unpleasant things to me, which I won't go into detail about here. Here, I want to ask many couples a few questions: If you want to find a single college student, especially one from out of town, what do you think the chances are that they're from a wealthy family? For a college student to travel to another city, including their own food and accommodation, is no less than a trip. How many college students do you think can afford that? And of those who can barely afford it, how many are experienced single men? I'm not saying this to sell or defend myself. Of course, some couples might ask, "Since you're single, you should accept this. My wife has already let you have your way, what more do you want?" My point is that since you've set such a condition, you should understand the consequences. If you're not satisfied with the consequences, then I can only say you're thinking too simply. This situation doesn't necessarily refer to this one instance. I'm using my own experience as an example, and many friends might think I'm being subjective. Let me give another example: if you want to find someone wealthy, tasteful, and cultured, you might be prepared for the possibility that he's older and his sexual ability might be declining, right? If you think a young person is tasteful, wealthy, and cultured, what kind of high-class family would they come from? They wouldn't come here, right?

In 69, I hope that whether you are single or married, you will maintain a good attitude. As a single man, you must respect married couples so they won't find you annoying.

Again, I understand and accept everyone's opinions, and I will not favor any side, so please discuss rationally.

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