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Seeing some guys say their wives can't get high no matter how they try, I thought of writing this post. This is just my personal experience. Although I've only given my wife oral sex, she's not easy to get high. It usually takes me about half an hour to get her to orgasm. She's a slow burner, but I believe that as long as you guys are patient and take it slow, you can do it. It's more practical than things like squirting because I personally prefer to be gentle, haha!

1. When using your mouth, you don't need to worry about how wet she is, but please make sure your mouth is relatively moist. Don't have dry skin on your mouth, as it will hurt your wife (imagine your wife sucking your penis with a mouth full of dry skin, would you feel good?). So please brush your teeth first to make sure your mouth is clean, because your wife's genitals are quite delicate.

2. After brushing your teeth, kiss your wife and caress her for a while, just like foreplay. The purpose is not to make your wife wet, but to make her clitoris sensitive and slightly erect, making it easier for the guy giving your wife oral sex to find the exact spot.

3. 4. Gently kiss downwards, paying attention to the chest and navel area. This will make your wife comfortable, as oral sex takes time, and these areas help make it easier for your mouth.

5. After kissing your wife's genitals, don't immediately kiss the clitoris. Kiss the area around it for a while; sometimes letting her wait a little is more pleasurable (imagine your wife sucking on your penis from the side first, then taking it into her mouth – wouldn't that be more enjoyable?).

6. When kissing the vulva, don't be as aggressive as in porn movies, making noises. Making noise isn't necessary to make her feel good; it's just part of foreplay. Initially, noise can distract her from getting into the mood and finding the right feeling.

7. Give the vulva about two minutes of kissing. Too long and she'll get bored; too short and it won't be as effective.

8. Slowly move your tongue from the opening to the clitoris. Some guys might ask where the clitoris is. The clitoris is near the very top of the vulva, about one and a half finger joints from the opening. It's a small, bean-shaped thing, and its structure is basically the same as the penis, but the size varies from person to person. Anyway, if you've done the previous work, it should be easy to find. Just gently separate the vulva with your hand and you'll see it.

8. Don't rush to suck it all the way in. Gently lick the clitoris with your tongue for a while. This is when your oral skills are tested. Remember, the gentler you lick, the more comfortable your wife will feel, and the more you'll get later.

9. Sucking it all the way in, actually, it's not sucking, just kissing it like a kiss. Then start licking the clitoris up and down or in circles with your tongue. At this point, please note that you can change the direction of your tongue at the beginning. Listen carefully to your wife's sounds and observe her reactions. You can place your hands on your wife's thighs and pay attention to her slight reactions to your tongue changes. This will help you find out her favorite tongue movements. Don't keep looking up and asking her if she's comfortable, as it will disrupt the mood. Asking questions is something you do after you've finished and are holding your wife in your new sexual experience.

After finding your wife's favorite tongue position, you don't have to stick to it. You can change positions, but the change shouldn't last more than two minutes. Just like during intercourse, constantly changing positions doesn't easily bring your wife to orgasm. The same applies to oral sex. Frequent changes aren't the time to showcase your tongue skills; that's already done. Now it's time to test your patience.

Oral sex isn't the easiest way to bring a woman to orgasm, but it will make her very comfortable. Just like it's difficult for a man to orgasm with oral sex without the help of hands, you need to be patient. Don't think that using your hands will bring her to orgasm faster. A woman's anatomy is different from a man's; inserting your hand will distract her, causing oral sex to last longer.

10. After about ten minutes, you might feel that she still hasn't reached orgasm. Don't rush her or lose patience; let her enjoy it a little longer. Imagine if she was sucking your penis and saw you taking so long to ejaculate and looked impatient—wouldn't that be very discouraging? Again, the better your patience and the more you understand the importance of making her enjoy herself, the more comfortable she will make you feel.

11. Continuously stimulate the clitoris with your tongue. Be very careful not to use too much force; porn isn't reality. Gentle kisses and licking of the clitoris are key. Also, sometimes when you're engrossed in the act, your lips might press too hard against hers, even though your teeth are inside your lips. Slowly move your mouth away slightly to avoid distracting her.

12. After gently licking for a while, apply a little more pressure with your tongue, then continue gently licking. Like when your wife gives you oral sex, applying pressure at appropriate times followed by gentle licking will make the sensation more comfortable and pronounced.

13. You can gently stroke her groin and lower abdomen with your hands, very gently, without pressure. Just use your fingertips to lightly scratch like you're scratching. Too much pressure will distract her.

14. After about 10 minutes, you can gradually increase the volume slightly. Don't overdo it; too much noise becomes disruptive, not flirting. A little noise will actually excite her more.

15. While maintaining patience, remember that a woman's vaginal fluid and a man's semen should taste very similar—both are salty. So, if you're giving your wife a serious blowjob, don't feel uncomfortable after swallowing the fluid. Think about how you want your wife to swallow your semen or give you oral sex. If you can't swallow it, don't expect your wife to give you oral sex.

16. After continuously stimulating the clitoris and stimulating the vagina, everyone's orgasm time is different, but with oral sex, it should take about 15 to 25 minutes. If you feel your wife suddenly pull her legs back, don't rush to speed up, because suddenly speeding up the tongue can sometimes have the opposite effect. Her body movement means you're close to her orgasm. Continue with the same intensity, or even slow down slightly.

17. Slowing down slightly is to make her orgasm more comfortable and to induce an orgasm faster. Don't slow down too much, about 10 seconds is enough, then resume the speed. At this time, you can gently place one finger on the perineum. The perineum is between the vagina and the anus; simply put, it's the skin between the two openings. Place your fingers on her perineum because you need to feel the frequency of her vaginal contractions.

18. The frequency of vaginal contractions is closely related to orgasm; the faster and more pronounced the contractions, the closer she is to orgasm. This method is not very effective in the first 10 minutes. It works well when she is close to orgasm. When you can feel her contractions with each light lick, please note that you need to guide her to orgasm.

19. Don't use force with your fingers; continue to place them on her perineum. Then pause your tongue for a second or two. At this point, start licking her clitoris very slowly, using a little force, once per second, counting in your mind. You should be able to clearly feel that when you move your tongue, her vagina will contract. That's it.

20. One contraction per second takes about 15 seconds, meaning about 10 to 15 licks are enough. Continuing for too long will cause the feeling of orgasm to fade. The slowing down was to adjust the frequency of her vaginal contractions. Now, slowly, very slowly, increase the frequency. Remember to feel with your fingers; the frequency of vaginal contractions should be the same as your tongue's. The reason for gradually increasing the speed is probably obvious: very fast vaginal thrusting can induce orgasm, which is why we're doing this.

21. Don't increase the frequency too much, or it will be overdone and all the previous actions will be ineffective. Just increase it to about the same speed as when you normally lick her, because at this point the vagina can keep up with the speed of your tongue. Maintain this speed, and within two minutes you'll suddenly stop hearing your wife's breathing. Then her whole body will tighten. At this point, increase the speed, licking her clitoris with a little force. The key points are the same as before: don't stop stimulating the clitoris with your tongue, but don't use too much force, just a little faster than before. Then, your wife will have a pleasant orgasm.

When your wife orgasms, don't immediately withdraw your tongue and mouth. Continue to gently lick her clitoris to prolong her orgasm for a few more seconds. Just lick gently, because the clitoris is very sensitive during orgasm. Then, when your wife feels itchy, you can withdraw. Hehe.

Everyone's girlfriend's sensitivity is different, so the timing will vary. But remember to be patient and take it slow. After she climaxes, you'll feel great too. Your efforts won't be wasted; you might even get double the reward, haha.

If any of you ladies reading this post think there's anything wrong, feel free to add to it, haha, because I've only ever given my wife oral sex, so my experience is limited. Haha!

I've typed so much, everyone, good luck! Haha, don't think of oral sex as just one part of foreplay. Oral sex can give her a comfortable climax just as well. Also, porn isn't reality; don't bring porn into real life. It's like trying to bring a movie into reality—it's the most unrealistic thing to do. Okay, good luck!

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