The Art of Cheating: Lessons from a Cunning Man's Discovery of Infidelity Through a Toothpaste Cap (Part 1)

The Art of Cheating: Lessons from the Toothpaste Cap Case of a Cunning Man
There's a strange phenomenon in China: people are often unaware of their own talents until they become national heroes (usually posthumously) or commit crimes because of them, only then realizing, "Damn, I never knew I had such talent! Why didn't I plan my career properly?" Recently, this cunning man, who discovered his wife's infidelity through a toothpaste cap, leading to the death of her lover, has given us many lessons. Let's call him Toothpaste Brother for now. God gives you tinder, but not fire, because He's fair; you need to put in the effort to ignite it. If Toothpaste Brother had been as kind and compassionate as some forum members, perhaps he could have had a beautiful threesome. Or perhaps this man had calmly studied Chinese laws and regulations, and some murder methods like those in Jason Statham's "The Mechanic," and things wouldn't have ended this way. In short, "Love is risky; cheating requires caution."
The infamous Wang Po once told Ximen Qing, "A wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as a stolen affair, and a stolen affair is not as good as one that cannot be stolen." Adultery is simply about satisfying an inner need. Of course, there's no such thing as a free lunch; if you don't do your homework, even if you succeed, many problems will remain. Adultery is a highly complex entertainment activity that integrates emotional intelligence, intellectual intelligence, financial intelligence, physical strength, mental strength, investigative and counter-investigative abilities, and various skills, encompassing physiology, psychology, sports science, and combat theory. My philosophy is to improve one's own qualities, comprehensive abilities, and various survival skills through adultery. I will now summarize my experiences since entering the WTO and discuss them with everyone. Since this is a case analysis, let's start with the toothpaste incident.
(I) Adhering to Principles. In fact, the principle of adultery is very simple and the easiest to implement: "Don't shed tears until you see the coffin." To put it more simply, even if the evidence is overwhelming, you must refuse to admit it, even if it means being threatened with death. However, most people are prone to acting on emotion. In the case of "Toothpaste Sister," she failed to uphold her principles, revealing all the details of her affair and even arranging for her lover to meet her husband. The irrationality of her actions is self-evident. A friend once told me that he was caught cheating but stubbornly refused to admit it. His wife couldn't do anything about it, and crucially, his lover was equally cooperative and unyielding. Ultimately, the matter was dropped, but since then, my friend has devoted himself to studying infidelity and has achieved some success. As I've said before, opportunity favors the prepared. For a period, this friend even studied psychology books like "Women's Psychology" and "Mind Reading," and read most of the novels on the subject of infidelity, summarizing a set of effective methods.
In short, denial is the bottom line for infidelity and should never be crossed. Because once crossed, the nature of the affair changes. It's like someone who commits murder; when arrested, they are a suspect, but after evidence is collected, they confess in court and become a criminal. So it's a matter of quality, a dialectic of quantitative and qualitative change. Denial at most means suspected infidelity, at most a matter of contradiction.
(II) Planning, Planning, and More Planning. Project management clearly states that project quality is planned, not executed. In the case study, the two rivals of "Toothpaste Guy"—his wife and his mistress—were too weak to realize that infidelity is a silent battlefield, let alone carefully study infidelity strategies. "Toothpaste Guy," however, found clues in the unlocked drawers, wallet, ID card, and food at home, ultimately confirming his wife's infidelity through the tightly closed toothpaste cap. Spouses know each other's habits best; even subtle changes can be detected.
The planning I'm referring to here includes strategy, that is, meticulous planning. As mentioned at the beginning, infidelity is not simple; it requires a combination of skills. You might know someone who has had a few affairs and then flaunts it to others, boasting about their good looks or ability to pick up women. In fact, these kinds of people have saved the real masters of infidelity because they create a misconception, making people think that all cheaters are like this—incompetent, foul-mouthed, and tasteless—with negative impressions. The real masters of infidelity, however, are playing a game: a game with their partner, a game with their lover, a game with morality, a game with societal norms, and a game with themselves. Actually, there are many such masters in the industry and online forums. Although they sometimes post superficial comments, they are actually industry elites and pioneers. They might be using forums to share a different side of themselves, or perhaps to conceal their true abilities.
Therefore, the advice for those preparing for or currently having an affair is: be cautious, be cautious, and be extremely cautious. Experienced individuals, of course, don't need this advice. Think of infidelity as a project. A project is different from an operation. An operation means treating infidelity as your mission, continuing it indefinitely. I believe none of you here would have such a crazy idea. A project, on the other hand, is short-term and one-off. You all surely understand the point. Stealing is a habit, but the targets should be diverse. If you target the same person for decades, your only fate is to become a corrupt official—at best, you'll end up in Qinchi Prison; at worst, you might face unpredictable consequences. Therefore, whatever you do, you must have a professional spirit.
Of course, many factors limit our thinking. Especially our generation, our minds aren't as open, and we're quite naive when we encounter things. However, we are much better off than North Koreans today, much freer. Sometimes we feel that stealing is evil. In fact, our ancestors approved of stealing, for example, the story of "carving a hole in the wall to steal light." During the Western Han Dynasty, there was a farmer's son named Kuang Heng. His family's circumstances need no further explanation; otherwise, he wouldn't have needed to steal even light. Historically, no civilization or nation has ever taxed light. Kuang Heng, through "stealing," studied diligently and later became a very learned man. The principle is simple: through infidelity, I dare not say anything else, but at least you can become a very happy and accomplished person.
To summarize, a good infidelity project isn't discovered, but planned. The deeper meaning of this will not be elaborated here. Interested colleagues can consult project management books, which explain PDCA very clearly. However, remember to buy the original version!
(III) Cultivating Strong Psychological Qualities. (To be continued...)

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