Some thoughts on couples making friends

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First, regarding couples' friendships. This can be more directly termed family friendships or extended family relationships between spouses. It can involve mentors and friends, or business partners, not just limited to sexual relationships. Generally speaking, couples' friendships are indeed a complementary exchange of emotions and sexuality, born out of the pursuit of a better married life.
Couples' friendships are one of the symbols of social civilization and a part of human spiritual life. I've found that most couples who engage in friendships are well-mannered and outstanding individuals; the higher their cultural level, the higher the proportion. It seems to be a civilized lifestyle and a high-level source of spiritual nourishment.
Second, regarding love and sexuality. There have been many discussions about love and sexuality in the past, but I feel none of them are entirely appropriate. Is sexuality solely based on love, or is it unrelated to love? We can examine them separately.
1. Generally speaking, love is the foundation of sexuality; affection is the basis for everything else, and without love, sexuality is difficult to achieve. This is the majority view. When you see someone and immediately think it's impossible, you can clearly and accurately judge your psychological bottom line. That is to say, without liking or loving, there's no possibility of anything else. Here, love and affection refer to simple perception; without even basic liking or acceptance, how can anything else be discussed? It seems that the idea of affection preceding desire holds true; this viewpoint is correct.
2. Sometimes desire is unrelated to love. For example, when we watch models perform on TV, we are easily impulsive. If you were given almost any of those beautiful women, you could probably immediately have desire, even if you know nothing about them, just liking their figure and appearance. Similarly, when you see a beautiful Western woman, you immediately have the desire to possess her. This isn't anyone's fault; there might even be language barriers and a lack of understanding. This means that sometimes desire and affection are separate, and desire is unrelated to love. It seems this viewpoint is also correct or valid. There's no need to hide this fact.
3. Desire. What kind of desire is better? This depends on the specific situation. Generally, it's best for couples to have a basic understanding before making friends. Written or verbal communication can help everyone get to know each other well. Communication can cultivate feelings between two people, increase mutual trust, and enhance mutual attraction and desire, allowing feelings to take precedence. Having some emotional foundation may bring better quality to the relationship or create a good basis for communication.
III. Human Social and Natural Abilities.
Humans have dual attributes: social and natural. The former requires people to be regulated, such as responsibility, a good image, reputation, a good social environment for survival, a certain degree of hypocrisy and concealment, good manners, and many other aspects. Here we will talk about human natural attributes, which are human instincts, the need to eat, drink, and engage in sexual activity, etc.
While you can fully express or demonstrate and exercise your natural attributes, you still need to maintain many elements of your social attributes, such as manners, kindness, and a dialectical view of issues, all of which are indispensable. At this time, you must remember that you are exercising things that should belong to the realm of natural attributes under the premise of social attributes.
However, at this time, you are free, relaxed, and unrestrained. You can be instinctive, but definitely not completely instinctive
. Between spouses:
1. Couples who can form a close friendship must be harmonious and understanding, a truly happy and fulfilling couple. Harmony here doesn't necessarily mean absolute harmony. They share similar or common life philosophies and can understand, accept, and tolerate each other. Let's look at tolerance. Tolerance can be interpreted as forbearance, acquiescence, or acceptance. But it's important to note that tolerance alone is not enough. The philosophy of couples forming a close friendship includes tolerance, but not exclusively. We hope that the husband or wife is happy, fulfilled, joyful, and satisfied. This selfless spirit is a crucial part of this approach. Simply demanding complete equality and fairness is insufficient; it still contains a selfish element. The husband's happiness is my happiness, and the wife's satisfaction is my joy. Having this mindset is correct. Because everyone in a small circle shares similar philosophies and mental states, it's unacceptable to only consider oneself or to drag one's partner on adventures or in pursuit of pleasure for one's own satisfaction.
2. Couples should enhance their trust through interactions with the outside world, rather than through constraints or supervision. For example, it's rare for couples to truly appreciate or be compatible with each other. What if the wife likes the other person, but the husband doesn't accept their partner? He should let go and let his wife be satisfied; he wishes her happiness. He should give his partner some space.
V. Outside the Family.
1. Fully respect and protect the other person's privacy. Don't proactively ask too many specific questions. There's no need to go to each other's homes for socializing; of course, home is the safest and most ideal place unless invited.
2. Don't focus too much on material consumption during socializing. Couples' friendships are a high-quality form of spiritual nourishment; appropriate and reasonable is sufficient. Don't flaunt your wealth; wealth doesn't necessarily indicate a high level of sophistication.
3. Follow everyone's opinions regarding behavior; don't force it. I approve of taking risks and being adventurous. But since this is a matter for everyone, a consensus should be reached beforehand.
4. Correct any psychological barriers to understanding. Many people believe that couples' relationships violate traditional morality and ethics. Although they may not act on it, they feel psychologically repressed, like premarital masturbation, which is always considered a crime. Please correct this misconception. What exists is reasonable; philosophers have long since concluded. Your behavior is undeniably noble, a lifestyle choice, and you should simply enjoy yourself. Everyone has the right to be grateful for the life bestowed upon them by nature. Your happiness also brings joy to others.
5. Indulge yourself, ignite your own passion, and illuminate others. You can choose to live the way you like, as long as you have like-minded supporters. If your partner enjoys having you participate in their lover's battles to give their wife greater satisfaction and excitement, why not give it a try?
6. Savor life. This doesn't mean that doing anything doesn't constitute savoring life.
7. Engage in ample emotional exchange. Having thorough intellectual and emotional exchanges with close friends is extremely beneficial to your relationship. You can learn what's taboo for them and what they enjoy.

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