Discussing wife-swapping and wife-swapping

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It seems that cuckoldry is becoming increasingly common, a difficult fetish to explain and incomprehensible to many. Basically, if you understand it, you understand it; if not, you're assumed to have ulterior motives. In contrast, cuckoldry is much easier to understand.

The main difference between cuckoldry and being a cuckold lies in whether the husband seeks humiliation. Some cuckolds enjoy peeping and watching for pleasure, some even offering services like licking and cleaning, clearly seeking pleasure from being humiliated by a single man. Cuckolds, on the other hand, mostly derive pleasure from their wife's pleasure, often participating in threesomes. Those who don't participate often do so because their wives dislike threesomes and prefer the freedom of being alone with their partners.

A passage from Junichi Watanabe's *Paradise Lost* is very helpful in understanding cuckoldry: "Compared to females, males inherently experience less sexual pleasure. Therefore, for males, it's more satisfying to witness the other's gradual descent into orgasm than to immerse themselves in pleasure themselves." The difference between cuckolds and non-cuckolds is simply whether the other's orgasm is necessarily derived from them. Therefore, most true cuckolds are devoted husbands who, even when their partners are already very satisfied, will still think: "Maybe she could have enjoyed it even more?"

There are two types of cuckoldry. One is the simplest and most direct: the male partner has little interest in other women, or even if he is interested, he finds it troublesome. After all, men need an erection to engage in sex, and they need to last longer, which is much more troublesome than a passively receiving woman. The other is manifested in the form of swapping or as a compromise when swapping fails. Speaking of this, we need to talk about swapping.

There isn't a good Chinese translation for "swing" and "swinger" because the context of "swing" includes partner swapping as well as single men and women joining in. So, let's just use the English. In adult forums, especially swinger forums, men often ask how to persuade their wives to swing. To this question, experienced people on Western forums often answer: "There's no way around it. You're born either a swinger or not; it's not something you can change."

First of all, why is it usually men who ask this question? Because men and women naturally feel differently about sex and love, there are definitely more male swingers than female swingers. If a woman in a couple wants to swing, her husband will most likely accept it readily, so she won't be troubled to the point of seeking help on forums.

Now, let's discuss whether the Western perspective is correct. Many Chinese who have become swingers might disagree, saying they successfully persuaded their wives. This might actually be an illusion. Both partners are swingers to begin with, but Eastern women tend to be more reserved, emphasizing a degree of reluctance during sex. Swinging is something that can't be brought up first, and

even if the other person does, they might have to refuse several times before accepting it. The Western perspective refers to a true swinger. What is a true swinger? It's someone who can experience pleasure or enjoyment from their partner having sex with others, or at least can accept it without hesitation. Of course, many people who participate in swinging aren't true swingers; it's based on mutual exchange. The partners exchange the other's consent to their sexual relations with others. Such people feel jealous and heartbroken when watching their partners have sex with others, but they simply feel it's more advantageous for them to openly have sex with others as well.

Often in a couple, one partner is a true swinger while the other isn't. In such cases, the swinger's attempts to persuade the non-swinger to "swing" are usually futile. In most situations, the man is the swinger while the woman isn't, so the woman who doesn't object to having sex with others might become a cuckold. Don't forget, the true swinger man experiences pleasure and even ecstasy when his partner has sex with others, so he's not at a disadvantage. As for the argument that if the woman enjoys it so much, why can't her husband have sex with others? No, because she's a non-swinger, she'll be jealous when she sees her husband having sex with others, and that's something she can't change. A cuckold, who's a doting husband, wouldn't accept that.

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