A complete guide to male techniques for controlling female orgasm

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A woman's libido is strongest almost always within two days before and seven days after menstruation, especially before menstruation. While a man can achieve an erection or sexual arousal through mere imagination, a woman's sexual desire is more tangible, requiring visual, auditory, or tactile stimulation. Therefore, the atmosphere during intercourse must be carefully cultivated. So, what is the way to achieve this? It is to maintain a calm and peaceful mind, a harmonious spirit, stable emotions, and harmony between body and mind.
Following this principle of health preservation—avoiding extreme heat or cold, overeating or hunger, having a clear mind and upright conduct—will naturally lead to a relaxed and carefree temperament. During initial intercourse, slow and gentle thrusting is key; avoid any taboos, and the woman will be happy, and the man will not experience premature ejaculation. Most people, with focused attention, can also achieve some degree of control. The key is to avoid being too tense or excited during intercourse, maintaining composure. Although ejaculation is a reflex, with proper control and training of the autonomic nervous system, premature ejaculation can be avoided.
To help women reach orgasm quickly and avoid wasting the man's energy, the techniques of foreplay are highly emphasized. During intercourse, the frequency of friction should not be too high, and movements should be slow to avoid excessive excitement and premature ejaculation. The vulva should be gently stroked before the clitoris is stroked upwards. Erogenous zones can be roughly divided into external and internal erogenous zones. It is a mistake to think that since the ultimate goal is intercourse, external stimulation is unnecessary.
This kind of hasty and impatient approach inevitably leads to women failing to reach orgasm and men being prone to premature ejaculation. Simultaneously, absorbing the woman's saliva replenishes the man's depleted energy, and inhaling plenty of air ensures sufficient oxygenation, which is beneficial for the body. Foreplay is an art form; experienced and passionate wives usually achieve an erection before their husbands even begin to stroke them. However, less experienced wives require skillful stimulation to achieve an erection.
When this pea-sized organ is gently stroked by the husband, it will immediately become erect, causing the foreskin to retract and expose the most sensitive part of the clitoral glans. If the husband is unsure or touches the wrong spot, the wife should guide his fingers to the correct location. She can use subtle hints to suggest whether the current position is correct or which direction to move or correct. Through experience and hands-on observation of his wife's genitals, the husband will gradually develop the art and skill of stroking; he will fully appreciate the effects of stroking the clitoris, labia minora, urethral opening, vaginal opening, and inside the vagina.
Simultaneously, this finger stimulation should be accompanied by kisses or caresses of the wife's lips or breasts, interspersed with tender and affectionate words to enhance the romantic atmosphere. The wife should gently rub the base of the husband's penis with her palms or fingers, or allow only the glans to rub against her clitoris. In short, all methods of stimulation are primarily aimed at arousing the wife's sexual desire. This stimulation should continue until the wife is fully aroused and desires intercourse. At this point, she can remove her husband's hand. Generally speaking, after sufficient stimulation, the wife's labia and vaginal walls will be completely wet with lubricating fluid secreted by the glands in the vagina, even flowing out onto the outside of the labia.
In this situation, the wife has a strong desire for intercourse, so the husband usually doesn't need to check how her genitals react to stimulation. Although caressing is an important means of urging a woman to prepare for intercourse, there are many things to pay attention to. This is because a woman's acceptance of caressing also involves psychological steps. If a husband, when wanting to have sex with his wife, first touches her genitals with his hand, this is very likely to cause the wife to feel disgusted, especially if his fingers are inserted deep into the vagina.
Therefore, during caressing, whether it is stroking with the hands, cuddling the face, kissing the lips, exchanging breaths, touching the genitals, or even embracing and intertwining the body, these are all things that women desire. The intensity of caressing progresses from top to bottom, from light to heavy, from loose to tight, from outside to inside, and from gentle to wild. Before intercourse, the man first calms the woman, making her lie flat with her legs bent and open. The man then lies between her legs, kissing her lips and teasing her tongue. He flicks his penis against her vulva and sides, engaging in foreplay for a while before slowly inserting it into her vagina.
The penis is inserted about an inch, without moving, and slowly withdrawn before re-inserting; this is believed to eliminate various ailments. During ejaculation, it should not spill outside the vulva. After insertion, the penis will naturally generate heat and arousal, leading to ejaculation. At this point, the woman will involuntarily sway her body, coordinating with the man's rhythm. The man then inserts deeply, which is believed to eliminate various ailments for both partners.
He then lightly touches the clitoris, inserting about three and a half inches deeper. At the moment of contraction within the vulva, he counts from one to nine, then inserts the penis as deeply as possible, ideally reaching the vestibular glands. During this in-and-out motion, the man kisses the woman's lips, performing the "nine-nine" method. This is the correct order for intercourse. A woman's orgasm gradually builds, reaches its peak, and then slowly declines back to its original state. Therefore, she needs the man to engage in various foreplay acts before intercourse, and to continue intercourse after ejaculation to allow her to gradually return to a state of calm. The lips are a channel for stimulating the parasympathetic nervous system.

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