A man born in the 1980s reflects on his past and looks forward to the future... (This is a long post, please be patient.)

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A man born in the 1980s reflecting on and anticipating this

newcomer... Let me introduce myself first. I was born in 1982, from Tianjin, 178cm tall, and weigh 130kg. I used to be a soldier, retired many years ago, and now run a small business to make a living. As for looks and temperament, without being immodest, I'm considered handsome. This isn't self-praise; it's the consistent assessment from friends I've met. Of course, everyone's aesthetic is different, and whether you find someone attractive will be decided by the ladies after meeting them. Let

me briefly review my experience. I've been involved in the couples' community for some years. Initially, I only heard about this avant-garde activity abroad and didn't realize it was springing up like mushrooms in China. I was overjoyed. To be honest, it wasn't because I thought it was a chance to pick up girls, but because I believed that Chinese people's sexual attitudes and sexual rights had finally progressed. More and more people, regardless of gender, can fully enjoy the endless pleasure that comes to themselves and their lives without harming anyone. Of course, this includes myself and my girlfriend.

I remember it took me almost a year to convince my girlfriend to give it a try. Oh, and I forgot to mention, she's much younger than me, a 90s baby, and an absolute beauty. We got together in high school, so it's been about seven years now. We've been through so much, including family opposition, but thankfully, true love conquers all, and we've been living together for four years now. Both our families get along very well, and apart from the marriage certificate, we're practically married.

Over these years, we've tried swapping, single men and women, doing it in separate rooms, together, and solo. Don't think it's been that many times; it's almost always been one time in various forms. Soloing is more common because we both prefer the fantasy element. For example, she'd go to a hotel with a single man and tell me about the progress on WeChat, then come home and describe the process and details to me. The single man would also tell me afterwards. We find this more exciting because we can enjoy the waiting, the exploration, the fantasy, and the "inquiry"—it's more novel than a direct threesome. Of course, everyone has their own preferences, and you can't force anyone.

Let me share one of my most representative and cherished memories. It was with her college classmate, a girl from Beijing. Because she lived on campus, she spent almost all of her four years there, except for holidays, in Tianjin. One day, on a whim, I used my girlfriend's QQ account to talk to her about dating. To my surprise, she already knew, which surprised me. She said there were many, many like that in Beijing. So, I tentatively shared my thoughts and our past experiences. Without any hesitation, the girl agreed; let's call her CC.

From then on, our relationship became less formal. We often ate together, and she would come to my house. The three of us went shopping, watched movies, went swimming, and went to the zoo together—so many wonderful memories. Later, we slept together very frequently, mostly at my house. My girlfriend would go downstairs to avoid us, or play on the computer in the living room, while CC and I indulged in passionate moments in the bedroom.

I remember one weekend, we decided to go to a farmhouse in Panshan. My girlfriend drove, and CC and I sat in the back. The whole way, we were constantly making lewd noises, our hands were covered in sticky fluid, and we used up several tissues. When we arrived at the farmhouse, we stayed in the same room. CC told my girlfriend, "It's not easy for your husband to spend the night with me, don't try to steal me, you're sleeping with me." So we slept in one bed, and my girlfriend slept in the bed next to us. That night, in the dark, CC and I were frantically thrusting, while my girlfriend pretended to be asleep silently. The feeling was incredibly stimulating...

Having said all that, let me briefly recount the experience, as there are too many to detail. Now, let me talk about my personal insights and expectations regarding dating. To be honest, our current situation is that my girlfriend is obsessed with looks. If the initial encounters were out of curiosity and novelty, now she's lost interest because she can't find any handsome men. At first, with my encouragement, she thought looks didn't matter, age didn't matter, nothing mattered. However, her current philosophy is that she must find someone prettier than me, so there isn't one yet. Please allow me to boast a little, haha. The reality is, she's not into casual relationships, but she still longs for a woman to date me, just like CC did. If CC hadn't moved abroad, we'd still be dating now. The reason I don't say I'm single and am telling the truth is that I don't want any deception. This circle is already quite niche; if there's so much backstabbing, it loses its meaning and is disrespectful to everyone.

So, we're now looking for a single woman, or a couple, or someone whose partner supports their sister-in-law or brother's wife enjoying their single life. I'm confident I can give you the greatest happiness. Perhaps some guys won't understand after I've said this, thinking I'm subtly implying I'm single. I won't explain that. I look forward to the next CC appearing, and our principle is stability and long-term commitment. Once we find a like-minded friend, we won't look for more. Because finding a true friend is very, very difficult, as I'm sure everyone understands.

So, whether you're a single woman, a sister-in-law, or a brother's wife, we eagerly look forward to meeting you! (Tianjin locals only)

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