How to get a pretty girl to sleep with you (even pretty girls say: this is the right way)

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I. What kind of first impression should you leave on a girl? (Time: When you first meet her)
1. I think the most crucial thing is to let her see your ambition. A man's greatest charm lies in his success. Young people haven't been working long enough to be considered "successful," so you need to make her feel that you are an ambitious person. You can talk nonsense about other things, but this issue cannot be ambiguous. You must tell her that you are full of confidence in the future, that you are not satisfied with the status quo, and that you already have long-term plans. In short, your future is not just a dream.
2. Appear confident and responsible. Don't act like a child. Girls are often lazy and hope to find someone to rely on. You need to show your confidence and responsibility. A wrong choice is always better than no choice at all.
3. Don't be too serious, but don't be too casual either. Be serious when you need to be, and joke around when you need to. Girls like men who are a little bit cynical, so don't seem to care too much about everything; that's too rigid.
4. Appear mature. A man who is calm and composed in the face of adversity has a fatal attraction for girls.
II. How to Further Contact with a Girl (Time: The Initial Pursuit Stage)
1. The most crucial point at this stage is not to rush things. Don't make things too obvious, letting her immediately realize you're pursuing her. Think about it: most people won't fall for you at first sight, but they also won't dislike you instantly. We're all just ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat, Andy Lau, or Kevin Costner). Attraction develops gradually with increased understanding. Therefore, the key is to secure opportunities for further development. Put yourself in the girl's shoes: if you're so direct and eager to start a relationship, she'll definitely feel pressured. What if she gets to know you and then realizes she doesn't like you? Wouldn't that be like playing with her feelings? So, if you start off with an overbearing attitude, you'll likely be immediately rejected.
2. Start with a low profile. First, define the relationship as "friends." Begin as "ordinary friends," then aspire to "good friends," or even, if you're sophisticated, aspire to be "confidantes." In short, never say "I'm pursuing you." Think about it, if you don't even mention "pursuing," then the girl has even less chance to "reject" you—how can she reject you if you haven't pursued her?! This can reduce the girl's psychological pressure and allow you to continue your relationship smoothly. Don't fantasize about her agreeing to marry you after knowing you for three days; you need sufficient time to get to know each other. Feelings don't arise out of thin air.
3. Don't be too impatient during the process of getting to know each other; be flexible and don't cling to her all the time. If someone did that to you, you'd get tired of it too. A good friend of mine told me that the key to pursuing a girl is eight words—"play hot and cold, and feign indifference" (this is the culmination of my classmate's years of experience). If you cling to her all the time, she won't appreciate you. If you appropriately give her the cold shoulder for a day or two, she'll remember the good things about you. Also, don't act like you're determined to marry her; it's too cheap and not good. Sometimes, you can use a little trickery.
4. Create opportunities appropriately. As mentioned before, don't make things immediately appear that "you're pursuing someone else," but you still need opportunities to get close to the girl. This is where your creativity comes in. You can gather information and find a way to turn waiting for someone into a chance encounter; or you can casually find the most convincing reason to invite them to do something with you. In short, this is the most technically demanding part; if you really can't figure it out, you can ask a more experienced person for advice.
5. **Important:** Giving gifts casually is impolite. Some people are eager to pursue girls and like to frequently buy them things, unaware that this is the biggest taboo when pursuing a girl. As the saying goes, "One should not accept gifts without merit." Giving gifts like this puts pressure on the girl; she will feel indebted to you and will try to repay you. If she can't repay you, she will try to avoid dating you to avoid constantly owing you favors. If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite the girl to spend money together, such as going to a nice restaurant or an expensive place to go. The girl will naturally see that you spent a lot of money, but ultimately, the money was spent together, not turned into gifts to take home.
III. What exactly is a "girlfriend"?
1. "Girlfriend" is a fact, not a promise. When you and a girl start dating, from "ordinary friends" to "good friends," and then to "very, very good friends who can talk about anything," one sunny afternoon, you "accidentally" hold her hand; under the moonlight, you suddenly kiss her. At that moment, she is already your girlfriend, whether she admits it or not, she already considers you her boyfriend. I know the most skillful guys never ask "Will you be my girlfriend?" until they've slept together, and in the end, the girl gets impatient: "Why haven't you asked me to be your girlfriend yet!" So, never rush to break the ice; the more ambiguous the situation, the better for you. 2. What is "confessing your feelings"? As mentioned before, confessing your feelings is actually just a formality. The correct order should be: you should already be her girlfriend in fact before you confess your feelings; it should happen naturally. Many people don't understand this and always think that she should agree to be their girlfriend first, and then... I can only say that this is very, very "naive" and very, very "foolish."
3. Are there times when you "have no choice but to confess your feelings"? Yes, for example, a third party might appear, or your relationship with the girl might not be mature enough, but you might be separated for a while. Confessing your feelings at this time is premature and extremely risky. It's like a desperate move in a game of Go, where the losing side is forced to make a crucial decision. If you win, you win; if you lose, you can only say "bad luck."
4. Don't easily utter the word "love." I often see "bold confessions" on forums, and frankly, I think this is a very immature behavior. "Love" is a sacred word; it signifies pursuit, commitment, and even responsibility. Men who casually say "I love you" are irresponsible.
IV. Civilized Dating, No Forcing
1. Not every girl can be won over. Good girls always have many suitors, and it's impossible to fulfill everyone's wishes; there will always be losers. For example, even if you diligently study and master the most advanced principles of pursuing girls, you still won't be able to win over either member of TWINS. Looking at it from another angle, even if a rural nanny who hasn't finished elementary school treats you incredibly well, spending 700 yuan a month on gifts for you on her 600 yuan monthly salary (going into debt), and is willing to be your "slave," you still wouldn't fall in love with her. If she were constantly crying and clinging to you, you'd definitely find it annoying. Therefore, love needs a material foundation, or at least a balance.

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