Discussing the Possibility and Necessity of Mother-Son Sexual Relations (Repost)

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Author: Li Yinhe, a Chinese-American scholar specializing in sex education

With economic development and rising living standards, adolescents receive adequate nutrition, ensuring their growth and development, leading to faster physical development and premature sexual maturity. While teenagers in puberty have a strong curiosity and desire to explore sex, their understanding is still vague and rudimentary. Caught in the whirlwind of sexuality, they may experience confusion, distress, and even harm others and society. Therefore, adolescent sexual behavior has become a significant social problem.
Sexological research shows that long-term sexual repression can negatively impact a person's physiological and psychological development, as well as their work and studies, even damaging their physical and mental health. This is especially true for adolescents who are in a period of growth, development, and psychological maturation; excessive sexual repression can lead to various symptoms of neurosis, such as sleep disorders, neurasthenia, anxiety, and depression. Psychologically, it can also cause sexual apathy and sexual distortion in adolescents. Normal, interdependent sexual activity between men and women is a natural human need, indispensable for both physiological and emotional well-being. Artificially suppressing this function can lead to many diseases. Normal sexual activity can coordinate various physiological functions, promote the normal secretion of sex hormones, and is also a psychological necessity. However, due to the constraints of social morality and legal systems, adolescents cannot fully satisfy their physiological needs from external sources. So, how can we alleviate the sexual needs of adolescents?
I. Possibility of self-care at home
It is unreasonable and unsafe for teenagers to seek normal sexual satisfaction from external sources. In fact, they primarily obtain sexual satisfaction through three avenues: First, masturbation, which is generally considered a relatively safe method. However, many teenagers lack self-control and often indulge excessively, causing harm to their bodies. Second, engaging in premature sexual relations with early romantic partners, but this behavior causes very serious psychological and physical harm to girls. Third, prostitution, rape, and other criminal acts are also common extreme behaviors. These behaviors not only lead teenagers astray but also greatly increase their risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, causing significant harm to their physical and mental health. Clearly, all of these methods have a very negative impact on teenagers. The desire for sex often leads teenagers down a path of depravity and even crime, while also having a significant negative impact on society.
Paradoxically, in the current social climate, we cannot use methods of isolation and repression to prevent them from experimenting with sex in harmful ways. However, for adolescents in puberty, regular sexual activity is highly beneficial to their physical and mental health during their development. In this context, we should recognize this importance and find a harmless and normal way to guide their sexual desires, satisfy their sexual needs, and ensure their healthy growth. First, this method must be healthy and normal (heterosexual) sexual behavior. Second, this behavior should not harm society or others. Third, this behavior should be under adult guidance and control. So, how can we find a more reasonable and harmless way to address children's physiological needs?
Therefore, since teenagers cannot obtain sexual satisfaction from external sources, we can only seek solutions within the family. The family is an independent unit within society; its internal structure is private and closed to society, and its influence on the outside world is minimal. Furthermore, the family itself is harmonious and affectionate, so many complex issues can be resolved effectively within the family.
In primitive societies, human sexual behavior was based on the pursuit of sexual pleasure, with reproduction being merely an unconscious and unplanned consequence of that pleasure. Of course, incest was not a taboo at that time, but as human society developed, the dangers of incest became apparent, gradually leading to the formation of this taboo. From the perspective of modern families, the harm caused by sexual behavior between family members lies not in the sexual activity itself (it is private and does not harm society), but in the impact on the physical and mental health of the individuals involved. And now, contraception is readily available. Excluding this factor, we must consider whether sexual behavior between family members will cause other harm. Sexual behavior between fathers and daughters, or brothers and sisters, will inevitably harm the girl. However, for a physically mature mother, mother-child sexual behavior (referring to controlled, restrained sexual intercourse based on mutual love between mother and child) differs from sexual relations with other family members, aside from social ethics and personal beliefs, primarily in that it does not harm the physical and mental health of the individuals involved.
II. The Role of Mothers
Men's libido peaks around 16 to 18 years old, while women's peaks between 30 and 45 years old, indicating a significant age difference in sexual needs between men and women. In other words, only teenagers and middle-aged women have similar levels of physiological desire. To accommodate this objective reality, why can't we complement each other's needs between mothers and children? This kind of complementarity, based on the bond between mother and child, can actually achieve better results.
So, can teenagers in puberty resolve their sexual needs with their mothers' help? First, let's analyze the rationale: First, the mother is the closest opposite-sex family member who accompanies the child throughout their growth; she loves and understands the child best. She can communicate more easily with the child about sexual issues. Second, the mother is an adult with mature and sound thinking. In handling family sexual relationships, she has a broader perspective and a more thoughtful approach, allowing her to guide the child's development more appropriately (this is a key difference between mother and sisters). Third, the mother's rich sexual life, coupled with her own sexual experiences, has led to a high likelihood of her having children who are sexually active and well-connected. This has resulted in a high likelihood of her having children who are sexually active and well-connected, and a high likelihood of her having children who are sexually active and well-connected. This has led to ...
Next, we will discuss the feasibility of this approach in detail.
III. The Development Process of Mother-Child Sexual Intercourse
Above, we have affirmed that boys can satisfy their sexual needs with their mothers' help. However, how exactly should this be done? What methods? What should the mother do? What should the child do? These questions present new challenges. First, sexual contact between mother and child is not permitted by modern social ethics, and both parties will have many concerns and anxieties. Sexual contact without any psychological preparation will inevitably produce negative effects and may even lead to the complete failure of sexual cooperation. Therefore, we must proceed gradually and naturally to build mutual trust between mother and child.
(a) The period of sexual testing and temptation
1. Before any sexual contact, it's best for mother and child to have a deep and meaningful conversation. This can be done through open and honest discussion to ease any tension between them. This period should last at least one to six months. During this time, the mother should proactively explain the physiological aspects of sexuality to the child, giving them a better understanding of sex and laying a solid foundation for future sexual contact. After a lengthy discussion, when both mother and child have a clear understanding that this type of sexual contact is beneficial, they can then proceed to the next stage of preparation for sexual contact.
2. Preparation Stage for Sexual Contact. During this stage, mother and child can have limited physical contact. The child should not rush things and should consider the mother's self-esteem and the feelings of the elder. While continuing psychological communication, the child can tentatively touch the mother's body; this is the initial stage of sexual contact between mother and child. Touching the breasts is often the most acceptable form of touch for the mother. During this period, the mother can expose her genitals to the child, allowing the child to gain a deeper understanding of the mother's body and psychologically prepare for future sexual activity.

(ii) The borderline period of sexual contact
During this period, the mother has tacitly accepted or accepted the act of mother-son sexual intercourse. However, the son should not rush into genital contact with the mother; both can use other parts of their bodies to make contact. The mother can now use her hands or other body parts (excluding the genitals) to touch her son's genitals, helping him satisfy his sexual needs. The characteristic at this stage is that the mother and son engage in other common adult sexual behaviors besides genital intercourse. The psychology of both mother and son has undergone a significant change; both show acceptance and approval of mother-son sexual intercourse. At this point, they are more often in a sexual partnership, their relationship gradually transforming from mother-son to sexual partner. The psychological defenses preventing them from ultimately engaging in genital intercourse become increasingly fragile, eventually leading to the sexual contact stage.
(iii) Sexual contact period
During this period, mothers and children can engage in regular and planned sexual activity. In this relationship, the mother should be in a dominant position; whether to have sex, when and where to have sex, as well as the frequency and duration, should all be decided by the mother. The mother's rich sexual experience is more than sufficient to satisfy the child's sexual needs. At the same time, the mother should actively guide and encourage the child to move beyond confusion about sexual desire and focus on managing their own life and studies.
Sexual intercourse between mother and child is suitable if the following conditions are met: 1. The son is in puberty, in good health, his sexual organs are basically fully developed, and he has abundant energy. 2. The mother is in good health and has a strong libido. 3. The mother understands and consents. If the child is too young, sexual intercourse should not be undertaken too early to avoid harming his health.
Mothers should pay attention to the following points: First, they should take the lead in sexual activity, maintaining control as an elder. Second, while being open and generous, they should limit their son's freedom. Third, they should control the frequency, timing, and location of sexual activity.
A son should pay attention to the following points: First, he may only have sexual relations with his mother with her permission or when she initiates the activity. Second, he must not force his mother; he should act under her guidance. Third, he should behave politely and refrain from vulgar language or actions. Fourth, he should cherish his mother's body and avoid rough handling.
IV. The Importance of the First Time
The first sexual intercourse between mother and child marks the beginning of their sexual relationship. The quality of this first encounter directly impacts the development of their future sexual life. Only a perfect first time can instill confidence and motivation in both mother and child. Otherwise, it may leave an unpleasant impression on both.
Time and place: The first time is best done in bed at night. The advantage is that after intercourse, the tired son can fall asleep with the pleasure of being with his mother, without having to worry about the aftermath, which should be left to the mother.
Foreplay: Before intercourse, both mother and son should thoroughly clean themselves. After bathing, they should go to bed and begin foreplay, a crucial step in preparing for intercourse. Mutual caressing and kissing can gradually build sexual desire and prepare the body for intercourse. The son can proceed only when the mother feels ready for intercourse.
Sexual positions: For the first sexual intercourse, the rear-entry position is best, where the mother kneels on the bed with her hips raised, and the son kneels behind her for penetration. A mother may feel shy during her first sexual encounter with her own son, and this position allows her to turn away from him, avoiding any awkward facial expressions and protecting her self-esteem.
During intercourse: When the son kneels behind his mother, he should not rush to penetrate her. He should enter under her guidance. After penetration, the mother should actively guide her son on how to perform intercourse. Every action the son takes should be with the mother's permission and guidance. He should sincerely seek her advice and humbly learn from her, and should not act rashly or presumptuously. During this time, the mother should try to relax and teach her son sexual knowledge and techniques in a calm tone. She should encourage and praise his actions, and promptly convey her own physical pleasure to her son. Let him feel that you are happy and satisfied; this can effectively reduce his tension. When the mother feels pleasure, she should not shout loudly, but rather make subtle sounds, and should never lose her maternal dignity in front of her son.
Contraception: To ensure a perfect experience for the child during their first sexual encounter, it is recommended not to use a condom. This allows the child to fully experience the mother's reproductive tract and genuinely feel her physiological changes. Furthermore, the entire process of mother-son intercourse should be natural and fluid, allowing the son to ejaculate inside the mother without restraint, thus concluding a truly meaningful sexual experience. The issue of contraception should be the mother's responsibility and should not be a concern for her young son.
Driven by a son's deep love for his mother and a strong desire for the adult female body, and by a mother's sincere love and selfless care for her son, sexual intercourse between mother and son is bound to be a collision of passion and maturity. It melts away kinship and elevates maternal love. The special relationship between mother and son destined them to be the closest people in life. There should be no moral constraints between mother and son, who are connected by blood. We should not regard mother-son intercourse as an ordinary sexual act; it should be a dance, a game, or a sacred ritual.
Through appropriate sexual activity with their mothers during puberty, boys can release their sexual desires and relax repressed emotions, thus facing their studies and life with a more relaxed and joyful attitude. At the same time, through sexual activity, children gain a comprehensive understanding of women, acquire rich sexual experience, and further enhance their confidence in interacting with the opposite sex. During this period, mothers should actively facilitate sexual activity for both partners and offer encouragement and support for their children's growth. Once boys enter the workforce or university, sexual activity with their mothers should naturally decrease and eventually cease, with boys shifting their focus to normal interactions with other young women.
V. Summary
In current moral climate, sexual relations between a mother and son are considered a heinous act of incest, a tragedy. Ironically, the root causes of incest are overlooked. In fact, incest is a product of this sexually repressive society. What truly breeds incest is this closed and narrow-minded worldview, a view that fails to seriously consider the deep-seated anxieties of human nature. People ignore the sexual needs of adolescents, depriving them of their right to sexual activity. As a result, various sexual problems among teenagers arise, including incest.
Of course, if there were better ways to satisfy a child's sexual needs, there would be no need for mother-child sex. Our premise here is that it's only a last resort when no other effective methods are available. We should recognize that in modern society, what harm is there in sexual activity between mother and child as long as it's not for procreation? People can't seem to articulate this clearly, only spouting moral and ethical rhetoric, but there's no definitive conclusion on the harm that might result from violating these moral norms.
In fact, we can view sexual behavior between mother and child as simply sexual behavior between two sexes. Without procreation, age and kinship will not have too many adverse effects on the physical and mental health of either party (except for the instability of family relationships in some families), let alone harm to society! In fact, the social privacy of the family and the innate intimacy between mother and child can promote family harmony and social stability.
We believe that with social development and the progress of human thought, this repressive concept of family sexual relationships will gradually be abandoned, and mother-son sex will move from behind the scenes to the forefront, no longer a mysterious and fearful game hidden behind the curtains of the family. At that time, people will gradually pay attention to the sexual needs of adolescents, and the trend of "family sexual liberation" will spread throughout human society like the "feminist movement," with mother-son sex becoming a compulsory course in children's growth. The practice of mothers assisting adolescents in their sex lives will become a widely accepted tradition. For the healthy growth of children, we look forward to the arrival of this era as soon as possible.
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