Using a condom before having sex is a basic principle.

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My girlfriend bumps into a former colleague she's had a crush on for a long time while traveling.
Guess what? They had sat back-to-back in the same office for two years without incident, but this time, just two hours after their encounter, sparks flew: they went to bed together without condoms.
My girlfriend regretted her haste for a long time afterward: not because she slept with me too quickly, but because she couldn't be sure if the sex she had was safe.
She abandoned her principle of "wearing a condom before having sex" simply because this person had worked with her.
But is this person really so trustworthy? Does he also have his own private life?
Is his decision to have sex without a condom based on a kind of inexplicable trust, like hers, or does he simply lack the concept of "safe sex"?
My girlfriend lived in fear for six months. As soon as the breakup period was over, she rushed to an expensive private hospital for a checkup: there you can express all your worries without fear of the doctor's reaction.
Thank goodness, she did not contract any diseases.
There was clearly a condom in her bag, so why was my girlfriend afraid to take it out and wear it?
In fact, in our existing cultural reading materials, the Western import "condom" has always been used as a "contraceptive" rather than a "safety condom".
The condom we are familiar with, often found between couples or spouses, is one of the methods of contraception and is considered—especially by men—to kill the pleasure of sexual intercourse.
Despite the efforts of our advertisers, the erotic connotations of condoms have not yet taken root in people's minds.
In temporary relationships where security is urgently needed, such as "one-night stands," it is almost covert, and no one considers where it should be obtained or how it should be revealed.
Women may clean their teeth and body, apply perfume, and wear sexy lingerie hours before a planned sexual encounter, but almost no one specifically prepares condoms.
It's as if they're trying to give themselves a little encouragement through this self-deceptive act: "Hey, I have no idea what I'm going to do, I'm just following my feelings."
This contrasts sharply with Hong Kong girls who refuse to have sex without condoms, and Australian girls who bring their own condoms.
Ultimately, the girlfriend's inner struggle is related to the social roles of men and women in sex.
Our society has developed to the point where women can take the initiative in initiating sexual advances, enjoy sexual pleasure without burden, and don't even have to worry about "what will happen in the future"—as long as she is independent in life and emotionally. Haven't men already started doing this a long time ago?
Whether it's a relationship between an older woman and a younger man, or the rise of mature women, men are no longer rejecting women who can guide them, because such stories are gradually appearing around us. Their relationships are simply a reversal of the original "male-strong, female-weak" model.
But taking a condom out of a bag is different; it goes beyond the scope of our existing erotic culture and exceeds men's sexual expectations.
If a man hasn't even evolved to the point of proactively taking out a condom, are you expecting a woman to use the one in her bag to show off?

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