Reprinted: The most practical 3P culture (advice for beginners)

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I deeply understand the saying: a smart man or woman can still be very happy even in the mundane world! That's why I joined the ranks of threesomes and encountered problems! I won't deny that in this worldly environment, we are all very cautious. As a single man, I'm fortunate; it's much safer than being a couple. Therefore, in dating, a single person must consider the other person's perspective. For both to be open, you must first give the other person a reason to be open. Once they are open, I will be open too! However, many times, perhaps the other person hasn't experienced this before, or is still conflicted, so it ends up unresolved! It's like a beautiful apple; everyone wants to eat it, but everyone is afraid it's poisonous. In the end, the apple spoils, and we still don't have the courage to open our mouths! It's a real pity! How to choose a partner: I personally believe there are the following methods to solve this: 1. Age selection: For first-time encounters, choosing someone in a similar age group is very important, because people of the same age tend to have similar problems and desires, and are more likely to have similar thoughts! From my experience, I think a slightly suitable age range is better! 2. Geographical selection: I think there are two types: those in the surrounding area and those in the same city. Secondly, it's not acceptable to meet someone from the same region or industry. Based on the above criteria, I believe the best scenario is meeting someone from a different area within the same city, whose work doesn't overlap. This makes dating easier and avoids the chance of future encounters. 3. Taste and Choice: While 3P is exciting, in traditional society, we should be smart and avoid unnecessary trouble. Therefore, we need to raise our standards to mitigate risks. Materially: The best way to weed out scoundrels is to check if they own a house and a car (sorry, I don't mean to belittle anyone). People with stable family income and material wealth are generally not scammers. A few dates will reveal this. Behaviorally: Communicate more, but not too much: Frequent communication allows you to understand the other person's thoughts and tastes through conversation. Frankly, the other person can sense whether someone calls when they're happy or unhappy. This is the purpose of communication. More communication isn't just about verifying identity, but also about understanding interests and hobbies. Our goal isn't just sex; the body is just a vehicle, but about obtaining pleasure! However, I don't recommend too much communication. If two strangers communicate too much, especially only on QQ, it will gradually become boring and they'll lose interest, deviating from our true pursuit of happiness! Rules for a 3P meeting: 1. Ask about their profession. This avoids the possibility of future chance encounters. It's troublesome if people in the same industry live in the same city. 2. Ask about their age. The body is the vessel of pleasure. People have different preferences; some like demure women, some like mature women. Age may not be the same as appearance, but it can be a reference point for similarity. 3. Ask about their schedules. Even if two people have the same need, different schedules may prevent them from meeting. For example, I have plenty of time during the day, but not at night. If we talk for a long time and finally agree, but find that our schedules don't overlap, it's a problem! 4. Ask about their preferences. Some people are germaphobic, some don't like oral sex, and some don't like anal sex. Don't let these minor preferences affect our pleasure. You can ask some things, but some you shouldn't, such as their home address, name, or family members. Giving the other person enough security is giving yourself the opportunity to fulfill your desires! For beginners, I suggest starting by getting to know each other as friends. There's no need to have a "must-do" attitude on the first meeting. Get to know each other better, go for a walk in a park together to relax. If you're both satisfied and have no reservations, then you can go to a hotel. Regarding splitting the bill, honestly, I agree with splitting the bill, but sometimes being too strict can ruin the atmosphere. So, my suggestion is for couples to pay for the meal (it's just the two of you eating), and the single person should book the hotel room. This avoids the couple leaving their information! It's more appropriate for the single person to leave their information. Also, it's best not to book the room in advance. This prevents cancellations and unnecessary losses, and also effectively avoids the possibility of malicious people taking photos beforehand! It's best to book the room together, with the other person choosing a few room numbers. Once in the room, both of you should turn off your phones. Turning off your phones prevents criminals from finding you, haha. It's best not to leave the room during the night (you're both naked, and someone with nothing to hide won't leave). If the woman is shy, she can wear a blindfold at the beginning. This helps her get into the mood and makes it harder for her to distinguish between her husband and the other person! The prelude is fine; women can remove their blindfolds and enjoy themselves to the fullest, depending on their needs! As for my role as a male singles player: firstly, I'm a substitute. Even if I participate fully, I need to consider my partner's feelings so they'll be satisfied, and in turn, satisfied with you! My advice is to be brave and wise; being too timid is foolish! Have confidence in yourself, and let's all cheer each other on! Also, don't be too picky about appearances; anything acceptable is fine, because everyone has their own positive energy, and we don't even know if it can inspire or motivate us! I work in Guangdong; friends from surrounding areas are welcome to add me as a QQ friend or a friend on this site. Remember to include "69.com + ID" in your verification message, thank you! We can exchange experiences or even go on dates!

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