Benefits of Happy Couples Making Friends

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The benefits of sex swapping are:
1. It allows both partners to have more sexual intimacy openly.
2. By swapping, sex between two people becomes sex between four, providing novelty, intensifying sexual stimulation, and igniting passion.
3. It helps maintain the marriage and prevents divorce due to extramarital affairs. 4.
It provides equal opportunities for both partners.
5. The possibility of losing a spouse can stimulate emotional communication, mutual attraction, and a desire for shared ownership.

Participants' thoughts and feelings:
1. Men's thoughts and feelings
: ● Sex swapping is not new in Europe and America. Although most people find this behavior absurd, those involved have their own explanations. They believe that couples inevitably grow tired of each other after a long time together, and to avoid extramarital affairs, it's better to "relieve" this through sex with mutual understanding. Many participants consider themselves "open-minded," believing in the weakness of human nature. Rather than escaping reality and suppressing their feelings, they choose to participate in swapping programs with other like-minded couples. They are not infringing on anyone else's rights, therefore, outsiders have no reason to interfere with their freedom.
● It has a significant positive effect on our married life. My husband and I have a great relationship and a harmonious family. When asked if "spouse swapping" would negatively impact our family life, a man answered very affirmatively that it's just a way to add variety to our marriage. He confirmed that our married life has indeed become fresher and more exciting after the swap, improving its quality and strengthening our bond.
● When choosing a swap partner for himself and his wife, the man emphasized the compatibility of the other person's psychological qualities and temperament with his own.
● It was after having children for three or four years that the couple experienced a lack of passion in their relationship, leading them to seriously consider this bold idea. "I want my wife to experience a different kind of joy. We absolutely cannot discuss our feelings with each other. In fact, other people are unwilling to swap with couples who have relationship problems."
● It's simply a physical game; it's not that complicated.
● If you're married but find it's not your ideal marriage, and love requires compromise, then swapping is just a lifestyle choice.
● First and foremost, it's crucial to avoid having acquaintances as partners. If, in the end, the partners turn out to be acquaintances from the same workplace or company, that would be disastrous.
● Initially, the wife was afraid of being embarrassed and taken advantage of, and refused. Later, after attending several colleague gatherings, she felt these friends weren't scoundrels, were friendly, and respected women, so she agreed to give it a try. That evening, a singing competition was arranged, and she won first place, receiving a beauty voucher from a client. In subsequent visits, seeing the diverse activities everyone enjoyed, and that they never gossiped behind each other's backs, didn't use drugs, and didn't engage in perverse activities like multiple partners, she completely opened up.
● In fact, many people think swapping is wonderful.
● Some people believe that sex is a new experience, more novel and exciting, and there's no need for payment. If each person had a lover, it would be more difficult to control the emotions, so several couples swap, satisfying their need for unfamiliar stimulation emotionally and physically, while also achieving a shared goal.
● It's not about morality. I don't want to be judged by moral standards; I have the right to enjoy my own body. Li said things started to change at this point. He persuaded his wife to browse the forum together, and then the two exchanged their feelings. His wife was initially resistant, but gradually accepted it. One day, he sent an email to a like-minded person in Beijing, expressing his idea: partner swapping. What followed was a natural progression. Li said he doesn't regret it now: "Because I've enjoyed things I've never enjoyed before." "Of course, I sometimes feel guilty, but it's fleeting. It's like a drug addict; they feel morally condemned, but they just can't control themselves."

2. Women's Thoughts and Feelings
● Participating in sex games is just for seeking excitement; it's not about being enthusiastic.
● She believes that men are actually not that different, and occasionally swapping partners isn't out of dissatisfaction with her husband. Sometimes, marital life needs it.
● To add variety, playing in a fixed circle of people of similar age is better than "randomly," costing at most a few hundred yuan for accommodation.
● Although it's called playing sex games, from the first time, the feeling upon entering the room wasn't lewd.
● One woman said that the people in this circle are actually few and far between, and some are of very good character. Over time, even those who aren't colleagues become familiar with each other's personalities and interests. Therefore, every time we're alone together, we chat about work, life, current events, and happy things. Sometimes, when the conversation gets lively, we continue drinking wine or tea. When we get sleepy, we go to bed and shake hands to say goodbye at dawn.
● Gaming couples uphold family boundaries. Most people in our circle have returned from studying in Europe and America; they are familiar with and don't resist gaming. The key is that the couples share a common understanding. My husband and I are very loving and consider each other soulmates. We both believe that marriage and family are the most important things, the bottom line; everything else is secondary. ● One woman said, "
My husband and I cherish our time together, but that doesn't mean we have physical intimacy every night, or that every caress is necessarily the start of an orgasm. Similarly, this little circle has lasted for so many years, and the most important thing isn't the occasional partner-swapping 'sex games.' Although everyone seems excited at these 'parties,' creating an atmosphere of mystery because they don't know who their intimate partner will be in a few minutes, ultimately no one is forced. Also, I've never encountered a 'drug-using' 'daredevil.'
● I'm not worried that my husband will have an affair while playing this game, because I don't have that intention. Besides, everyone is a colleague; we go out to relax, and we maintain boundaries and considerations. No one in this circle has divorced, or had any fights or arguments due to jealousy.
● Later, we did it separately in two different rooms, and it felt unfamiliar. Because of different habits or other reasons, my pleasure didn't come as expected…
● Some women believe that self-protection is very important in sex swapping. They believe that both physical self-protection and emotional consideration are necessary.
● White-collar workers are obsessed with sex parties: just having sex, not loving each other."
● Her husband's deliberate deception led her to unknowingly join a so-called "sexual harassment club," where she became hopelessly addicted to passion, anticipation, excitement, and anxiety.
● Sex and love are separated. Sex is a more external experience, but love is an inner resonance.
● But he's my second man. Honestly, I find it very tender and exciting... Although it sounds shameless, it's my true feeling.
● After a period of dormancy, sexual harassment activities in the United States have suddenly resurfaced, becoming more active and open than ever before, with an increasing number of participants. According to an active member of a sexual harassment association, at least 700,000 to 800,000 couples in the United States are currently actively involved in sexual harassment activities, the highest number ever recorded.

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