Why do men usually have the final say?

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A common phenomenon is that men generally decide who their online friends will be. Whether the person is single or married, the husband typically handles this crucial step, from posting information or looking for suitable matches, to adding each other as friends, chatting, and finally deciding whether to meet.

There are several practical reasons why men decide on online friends:

First, many women don't use the internet often, their limited energy tied up with work, family, and children, so everything is left to their husbands.

Second, many women aren't as enthusiastic about online dating as their husbands, so even if they understand this concept, they rarely invest their energy, often maintaining a casual, half-hearted attitude.

Third, women are more easily trusting online, lacking discernment and defensiveness, and husbands generally don't trust their wives' judgment and fear they might be deceived, as not everyone is well-intentioned.

Fourth, men also worry that women are too emotional and might not be careful in choosing online friends, or might get caught up in emotional turmoil, betraying their initial shared values. The reasons for this include: 1) the initial intention of making friends;

2) men believe their chosen partners are safer and less likely to lead to emotional deviation, seemingly providing a sense of security and protection for their women;

3) men may have more direct requirements regarding appearance and physique when choosing partners, allowing for more open conversations and avoiding unnecessary entanglements later;

4) men can maintain a psychological advantage by choosing their partners. Although there is gender equality in sex, if a man makes the final decision based on respect for his wife, it can be a form of compensation and rebuttal for the temporary loss of "exclusivity over his wife." In his mind, his wife is still entirely under his control, under his promise and his safe and gentle gaze…

This situation exists in a significant proportion of my interactions with friends. Although almost all husbands show their wives photos or personal information about potential partners and say it's up to them to decide… how much can one really glean from just one or two photos, numbers, and symbols… so ultimately, the husband still holds the reins.

Personally, I think it's a blessing for overly emotional women to be under their husbands' protection.

However, I also believe that friendships involve several levels of interaction. If half of the people involved can't get to know each other face-to-face, misunderstandings are bound to arise. Therefore, I suggest the husband take the lead initially, and later, men and women can communicate separately. The couple can then periodically share their experiences. This might make things more perfect. If the woman really doesn't like being online, the wife can accompany her during crucial communication moments, or the husband can show her the communication history afterward.

Personally, I personally assess and manage all friendships, regardless of their nature. While I trust my husband's rationality and wisdom, I also value my intuition… After all, what woman doesn't want a little romance? Even in friendships, romance can be beautiful. It's not necessary to completely surrender oneself to the husband and have him act as a middleman. Sometimes, the process of communication can add color to life.

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