I have to vent: Some harassment and strange behavior I've recently encountered from single men.

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Because of my previous articles, I've received many friend requests lately. While I'm happy to add married couples, I also selectively add single men with a friendly attitude, chatting occasionally to discuss things and share experiences.
Several couples have sincerely invited me to meet, but unfortunately, due to scheduling conflicts and other reasons, I couldn't make it. With some couples, I sensed differences in our views during our conversations, and I politely said, "I'm sorry, perhaps we're not suited for a deeper relationship. I wish you happiness!" And that's how we parted ways.
So, to be honest, since meeting that single woman, I've been busy with work and haven't dated or met anyone else. I treat friendships as a diversion, not my whole life. Although I have a relatively strong sex drive, I don't consider myself a stud who can sleep with anyone. I only hope to meet friends I can connect with, and an occasional passionate night is enough for me.
I consider myself a gentleman, and my previous articles have never attacked or hurt anyone, much less hindered anyone's path to friendship. However, there are always some idle and psychologically twisted individuals who seem determined to make things difficult for me.
One type is single men pretending to be married to get close to me, but their focus isn't on communication or understanding my personal situation. Instead, they subtly try to get me to introduce them to other couples or single women, or directly ask for their contact information. Of course, I don't rule out the possibility that the other person is indeed a couple. However, my principle is that I will absolutely not offer any referrals without my complete familiarity with the person or without both parties' consent. I cherish every friend I know. To put it bluntly, if I rashly make a referral and you don't have a good conversation, who can guarantee it won't affect me? I only offer referrals to friends I've already developed a deep understanding of and met in person, because I already know both parties well and know if we can get along. I trust such referrals.
The second type, still single men posing as couples, this time focused specifically on me. After learning about my personal information (out of politeness, I would proactively introduce myself, such as age, height, weight, occupation, etc., and also provide photos of myself), they began to belittle and even verbally insult me. I've never considered myself a universally admired handsome man, but I often stroll on the street at night without scaring any children, so I'm not particularly unsightly. Besides, beauty is in the eye of the beholder; there are plenty of people who don't like me. Since I'm not their type, they could simply say, "You're not the one we're looking for," or "We're not compatible," and then go their separate ways. Every couple I've encountered has reacted this way. So, the first time I was subjected to such intense belittling, I was stunned. Before I could even react, their profile picture was already grayed out—they had blocked me. If it happened once or twice, I might just smile wryly—there are all sorts of birds in a big forest. But if it happens three or five times, it's hard to believe it's purely coincidental.
The world is vast, and naturally, there are all kinds of people. For those with unusual tastes, while I may not be able to accept it, I'm still willing to offer kind tolerance and understanding. However, for those who find pleasure in teasing or even harming others, no matter which hospital you go to or which doctor you see, the conclusion will be the same—they are psychopaths. I believe few women would want to encounter such a psychopath, let alone what might happen afterward.
To single men, I want to reiterate my advice: this kind of thing should only be a diversion from life, not the entirety of it; it's something you can't force. If you don't have a girlfriend or wife and hope to satisfy your sexual desires through this means, it's unrealistic and wishful thinking. Couples or single women are not prostitutes, much less your slaves; they're not people you can just sleep with as you please. You only need a brief release of sexual desire, seeking only momentary stimulation and satisfaction, but they have many other considerations; they're not people you can summon and dismiss at will. If you were required to ejaculate three times a day for a month, are you sure you'd still be able to get an erection then? If you can't meet all of someone's demands, you can't expect them to meet all of yours.
In short, it's the same old saying: Making friends requires a good mindset and character. Go with the flow, let things take their course, and if you get along, part ways amicably. Don't force things.

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