My spa experience

I've been wanting to write something to describe my thoughts and feelings, but I didn't know how to organize my words. It's been almost three years since I first started meeting with couples. At first, I would just meet up as long as we had a decent conversation, with no experience whatsoever, and I experienced a lot of awkward moments. I was so nervous that I couldn't get an erection, or I would ejaculate prematurely, or I would move my fingers for almost an hour without the woman reaching orgasm and being satisfied while I was covered in sweat. Later, my spa techniques improved, and I gradually found the woman's erogenous zones and developed my own unique style. I remember at the beginning, I struggled for a long time about whether to massage her buttocks or breasts first. Initially, my techniques were just learned online and practiced on my own. Later, I even met with several professional beauty massage therapists who pointed out my shortcomings and taught me how to massage, making my techniques more and more refined. Now, when facing different women, I can quickly find their sensitive spots. In the gradual massage process, it's also a process of helping her relax and find her sensitive spots. Don't expect me to use professional pressure, time, or so-called "finding the right acupoints." What my hands can do is provide just the right amount of pressure, be gentle, and make the woman feel very comfortable. Some women often go to professional oil massages, but they feel that my massage is the most comfortable.
Let me talk about how to get along with couples. Initially, I was relatively casual with my appointments. I felt incredibly lucky whenever a couple showed up. I was simply polite and courteous, aiming to leave a good impression. I did experience some awkward moments with couples, but the few times I failed were enough to serve as lessons and lessons for me. Once, I had an appointment with a couple. They came to my hotel, and I was too casual, greeting them in just shorts. After chatting for a while, they excused themselves and left. They told me on QQ that they had a good chat with me and had a good impression of me, but since it was our first meeting, I felt too casual in that outfit. A chance encounter was missed. Another time, a couple introduced by a friend wanted to enjoy a spa treatment. As a result, I was too tired those few days, so I just gave them a perfunctory massage and went straight to sex. Afterwards, they had a very bad experience. There were also some experiences due to a lack of necessary communication. For example, the lady had sensitive skin and had an allergic reaction to the essential oil. So now I always ask her in advance if she has any allergies. If she has allergies, she can only use olive oil. Also, I know that some ladies don't like having their private parts touched with fingers, don't accept kissing, don't give oral sex, or have any other taboos. Now I will communicate these things properly before the appointment to avoid embarrassment during the process. People only see my glamorous side now, not only do I not have to worry about dating, but I also have several long-term friends and am praised by many couples. But they don't know that I have also grown by constantly learning from my mistakes, summarizing, and improving. Learning to summarize and correct mistakes is the only way to become a better person!
Finally, let me talk about my level of understanding and criteria for making friends. Initially, I entered this circle because of some novels and the influence of certain erotic groups. I felt incredibly excited whenever I could hook up. However, as I gained more experience, my mindset changed. I found that I now value a spiritual enjoyment more than physical stimulation. Purely physical sex no longer appeals to me. I enjoy the process of going from stranger to acquaintance, the gentle caressing of a woman's body, the gradual exploration, making her moan beautifully in your hands, making her involuntarily engage in a passionate kiss, grasping your penis, even putting it in her mouth. When you make a woman feel good, she will also make you feel pleasure. Everything feels natural, from the initial shyness and bashfulness to the natural union of body and soul. She will cooperate with you in various positions, responding with beautiful moans. A woman's expression is truly beautiful when she enjoys pleasure, her demeanor is incredibly captivating. Before leaving, she will kiss you tenderly, reluctant to part. This beautiful memory will be indelible in her heart.
The more loving the couple, the more exciting it is. My current principle is: better to have none than a bad one. I like to meet couples with truly stable and loving relationships, who have the patience to carefully read my posts and understand me, and who genuinely feel that I am suitable for them. If you're just looking for excitement, or just want to find a muscular man to have sex with, or just want to find someone for a massage, that's not right for me.
Maybe it's fate, or maybe I'm just good at it. I have indeed met many beautiful women, all with top-notch figures, looks, and temperament. Moreover, I value spiritual compatibility and resonance even more. So my criteria for choosing friends are different from others. Even if a woman is incredibly beautiful, if we don't feel anything for each other, she won't attract me at all. I can even remain unmoved by a beautiful, naked young woman in bed. That's a kind of state of mind, I guess. Several times, people have asked me out and sent me photos of very beautiful women, but I refused because I didn't think it was right. Unlike some single men in the group who get an erection just from seeing a photo, let alone actually doing anything with me, I'm looking for sex that combines the physical and the spiritual, the most wonderful, intoxicating kind of feeling. I hope to make friends with people who, like me, want women to experience pleasure and enjoyment, prioritizing their feelings rather than my own arousal. My purpose in doing spa treatments isn't to take advantage of anyone. Frankly, comforting women is second nature to me; I'm completely at ease with it. What I care about is a woman's reaction during my caresses, and it's not for sex. Sex should happen naturally. If I don't make a woman comfortable initially, she won't want to continue. It should be a natural progression, not something forced or mutually unpleasant, and we can stop at any time if things don't go well!
I hope to truly connect with women whose wives possess a certain charm and elegance, appreciating my character, experience, qualities, and overall qualities, not just because I offer massages. We both need to be clear about what type of person we're looking for and what suits us best. With me, you don't need to worry about safety, privacy, or the woman's feelings; I'll care more about these things and be more considerate. My principle is: better to have none than a bad one!

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