Be a self-aware, married single man—sunny, refined, but not subservient.

I've been on QQ for many years now, so many that I can't even remember them all. I can't remember the username and password for my first account; it was when I was still with my older female friend. Now, everything has changed.

As a married single man, many people are concerned about my wife, why we can't go out together, and whether long-distance relationships with children will lead to separation. Actually, my wife and I have a good relationship. Everyone's personality is different; some can be changed through guidance, but others are unchangeable. Because of certain things, I've never mentioned going out to enjoy happiness with her again.

There aren't many couples from Neijiang, Sichuan in the amusement park. I added many of them but didn't get to know them much. In comparison, there are many more open-minded people
in Chengdu. During my two years working in Chengdu from 2017 to 2018, we went out twice. We both felt pretty good about it, but we lost contact after a job change. We met on QQ. Since returning to Neijiang, I've only kept in touch with one local couple. I also get along well with another couple in Neijiang, who recently went to Guanghan.

Recently, having some free time, I revisited the amusement park and found that many things haven't changed. The fake remains fake, and those with genuine character are still quietly searching. I chatted with a few couples online, and I've noticed that couples these days have high standards and expectations. I also reflect on myself; I realize I don't meet some of those criteria. However, I firmly believe that the right encounter and destiny will surely favor the sincere.

One must be self-aware. Personally, I'm average-looking, not bad-looking, with a slightly overweight but muscular build, and not very tall. My only advantage is that my job is decent, allowing me to afford entertainment and giving me ample free time. Furthermore, through continuous learning online, I believe I have some skills in flirting and sex. Therefore, my requirements for a partner are not high. Good health is paramount, followed by mutual attraction; as long as we feel compatible, that's enough. It's normal for young, beautiful, and fit couples to have high standards; there will definitely be single men who meet their criteria. However, there's no need to use hurtful language during interactions. You can politely decline. If someone is persistent and clingy, then it's not too late. I believe many single men wouldn't do that. After all, in this age where sex isn't lacking, seeking new "feelings" should be done within one's means, and one shouldn't be overly subservient.

Love that's begged for won't last, and subservient behavior is not a sustainable path. Be a self-aware single man. I'm not strong, I don't have abs, and I'm not handsome, but I'm sunny and passionate, and I'm usually refined and cultured. Talk to your married friends and acquaintances.

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