Experience Sharing (Couple's Part 1)

It's been a long time since I've been on the forum. I'm returning recently and plan to share some advice based on my 10 years in the community. First, let me introduce myself. I'm a single man, 28 years old this year. When I was 18, I met a couple online by chance, and that started my journey as a single man in group sex. I discovered this forum in 2014 and have been here for 3-4 years. Over the years, I've had relationships with many couples through various means, some long-term and some one-night stands. I've discovered many issues, and I'd like to share them with everyone for discussion. If you have any similar experiences

, please correct them; if not, please take this as encouragement. If you have any different opinions, please feel free to discuss them in the comments section. First, I want to give some advice to couples. It's not because I'm single that I think couples have more problems, but because the couple plays a dominant role in the relationship. Your attitude and your methods determine whether the sexual encounter will end perfectly. I generally divide couples into several types:
1. The "Wishful Thinking" Type.
These couples usually have one thing in common: they want to find a tall, handsome, physically strong, and wealthy partner. Frankly speaking, this kind of person, let alone a single man, is considered top-tier even outside the entertainment industry. There are very few like them in everyday life, and even fewer within this circle. Even if there are, they likely already have established circles and partners, and it's hard to say whether they'd be interested in you. It's not that having good aspirations is bad, but finding someone suitable is most important. For example, if you were Huang Xiaoming or Feng Shaofeng, you could marry Yang Ying and Zhao Liying, but if you were Huang Bo, that's a different story. It's not that anyone is bad, but finding someone suitable is paramount. What age is suitable for your wife? What level of couple are you at? What level of single man should you look for? Finding friends of the same level makes it more comfortable to hang out together, facilitates better communication, and reduces awkwardness while increasing passion. 2. The "Sex-Driven" Type
: Many might say that "sex-driven" types are mostly single men. That's true, many are single men, but many couples are the same. They spend too much time reading literature, watching movies, or desperately seeking an outlet in their mundane sex lives. Suddenly discovering the world of 3P or 3P and jumping in headfirst, wanting to find a single man for the perfect sex experience to rescue their boring sex life. This idea is flawed from the start. On a smaller scale, 3P can be seen as a spice or a new position, but what will you get if you treat it like a god? Definitely disappointment. Let alone 3P, who can achieve the perfection of Japanese adult films in ordinary sex? Remember, your wife isn't an actress, you're not a male actor, and you're not the director.
3. The condescending type:
This is more common in 3P circles and less so in 3P. The reasons for this unhealthy mindset are well-founded. Many husbands in couples believe, "I found a single man to have sex with my wife, so she should obey me." I think you should find a submissive, not a single man. There are generally two types of couples like this, but these couples rarely enjoy the pleasure of 3P. The first type is the domineering husband. His wife loves him very much, and he's also thoroughly "trained" her. Initially, she might have fantasies about threesomes, or perhaps she has a cuckolding fetish. She meticulously selects a single man online and orders him to do this and that to please her. During the act, she still bosses him around. The wife isn't particularly willing, but she doesn't refuse because of your expectations. While the act is going on, seeing her giving the man oral sex or doing other things makes you uncomfortable. The end result is that everyone is unhappy, and you don't achieve your goal. Both your wife and the man are awkward and uncomfortable being bossed around. My advice is that if you've decided to enter this circle, you must maintain a balanced mindset. You're looking for a sexual partner, much like dating a woman—it's all about making you happy. Everyone has their own rhythm, and if you interfere, it disrupts the rhythm, making it difficult to achieve your desired effect. Many experienced single men have their own methods. If you are an experienced couple, you can discuss and plan ahead. If you are a novice couple, you can definitely refer to the methods of single men. This approach is always much more effective than making your own decisions. The second type of couple is where the husband is usually honest and unassuming, but finds he can't satisfy his wife, who has a strong sex drive. After weighing the pros and cons, they decide to seek a breakthrough with a single man. However, because the wife is quite dominant in their daily sex life, almost everything is different; they may not even have tried more than three positions. The husband, on the other hand, has grand ambitions and hopes the single man will serve his wife well and give him a completely new experience. But here's the problem: a threesome is a feast for three people, and the husband plays the most important role. You are almost just the seasoning; if your seasoning is problematic, you can imagine what the dish will taste like. I have two suggestions for couples like this. First, both of you should communicate well. The woman shouldn't be too domineering, and you shouldn't interfere too much. Try to let the single man and your wife communicate and get to know each other better. If you find that your wife is reserved, give them both some space. After all, how many women can be so open and flirtatious with others in front of their wives? Your attitude at this point will be crucial.
These are just some suggestions from me. I don't intend to say too much at once to avoid overwhelming everyone, so I will update this in installments. If you're interested, please leave comments and discuss. I hope everyone can have a rational discussion and learn together.

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