I was bored today and searched for 3P and swapping on the forum. Suddenly I felt like saying something, which is also a summary of some of my thoughts.

Today, out of boredom, I searched for "3P" and "swapping" on forums and suddenly felt like saying something, which is also a summary of some of my thoughts. I'm 31 years old this year, and my wife is 27. We were born into a very simple and traditional family. I remember when I was a child, people weren't as open-minded as they are now. Back then, seeing a girl I liked was just pure affection, and the thought of holding her hand made my heart race, let alone thinking about sleeping with her. It wasn't until I accidentally saw an adult book in junior high school that I truly understood what sex and sex were. It wasn't until I was a junior in college that I had a girlfriend in the real sense, because we lived together. That's when I learned what sex was and how to have sex. I remember being young then, and even after ejaculating, I would stay hard and endure the discomfort to continue. Youth is crazy. At that time, I didn't have any thoughts about swapping or 3P; I just felt that my girlfriend was my private property, sacred and inviolable. After graduation, we broke up, then I worked, got married, and had children. Life remained as mundane as before, except for the occasional urge to have sex with other women.

Actually, after starting work, I've visited prostitutes and had affairs, but my thinking was just for fun. I always felt my wife should only belong to me, and no one else should be allowed to touch her. However, over the years, through various experiences and family changes, I've suddenly started having thoughts about swapping and threesomes. These thoughts have only started in recent years. Initially, I just read some books and watched some videos on the subject, finding them particularly exciting, so I had these ideas. But to say whether I've really thought about it deeply, the answer is no. But especially in the last two years, after experiencing certain things, I've thought about these matters more deeply, so I'll explain why I think about them.

Over the years, looking at my wife, I feel that women really have it tough. She gave me her virginity (actually, I don't have a virginity complex or anything like that), then we got married, and now, looking at my wife, she works during the day, and when she comes home at night, she has to cook, do housework, and take care of the elderly. I think most families are like this. Sometimes when I'm alone, I think about how a woman marries you and has to take care of four elderly parents; she has a child to raise. At first, I couldn't cook, so she did all the cooking and housework herself. During the day, she works, busy all day long, so busy she doesn't even have any friends. It's just home-work-home. I used to be carefree and didn't pay attention, but these past few years, when I look at her at night, she's so exhausted after bed that she has no energy left. Sometimes I feel that my wife has really suffered. These past few years, I've learned to cook and do housework to help her out. I often tell her that if she wants to go out with her colleagues, she can go, just be careful, as long as she can relax. Our family is stable now, and our relationship is great. One day, I saw a post on a forum where someone said that it's not just men who have desires and curiosity; women do too. If your wife is a round woman, she'll definitely want to know what a square one is like; if she's a short woman, she'll definitely want to know what a long one is like. Suddenly, I realized my wife has been with me since she started working, we haven't had many romantic relationships. After all these years of hard work, thinking about it carefully, besides the children, I haven't really gained much. Life is so short, and I want my wife to enjoy life to the fullest, to have some beautiful encounters and memories. Thinking about all the women I've been with over the years, they are all wonderful memories.

Most of the time, men are the most selfish. Seeing people on forums bragging about how many women they've had, how many "good women" they've dated, when it comes to their own wives, they're incredibly unwilling. Sometimes I wonder, when you sleep with a "good woman," what does that "good woman's" husband think? When you're bragging about other people's wives, isn't your wife being braggarted too? When a man is out there deceiving his family and indulging in a life of debauchery, why can he still have the audacity to demand that his wife stay with him for life? On the other hand, when you spend money, time, and energy on extramarital affairs, you inevitably spend less on these things at home. If your wife receives less of these things, can't she try to make up for it outside the home?

I've rambled on a lot, maybe it's just a way of venting. Actually, whether it's a threesome or a swapping, if it's based on love, then it's love; if it's based on sex, then it's sex. Whether your wife belongs to you doesn't depend on law, morality, your male chauvinism, threesomes, swapping, infidelity, or lifestyle. People break up, cohabitate, get married, and divorce every day. Who truly belongs to whom? What truly belongs to you is love and time. Regardless of whether threesomes or swapping are right or wrong, whether you like it or not, try to deceive less and love your wife and family more. These are the most important treasures in your life.

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