"The Three of Us—A Tribute to Love That Transcends Family Ties"

【X. Freedom and Responsibility】

The users of Nightclub all crave a wild life, hoping to unleash their true nature someday.
The difference is, my life is the opposite. I had unbridled sexual freedom immediately after graduating from university, but gradually restrained myself after marriage.
I'm not saying my lifestyle is right or wrong, but rather hoping that everyone recognizes their own environment and future expectations. Therefore, I leave two concepts: "freedom" and "responsibility."

Freedom—Sex is about satisfying one's own and one's spouse's most basic desires. One can be unrestrained.
Responsibility—The two ends of sex are family and love. There are also wife, children, relatives, and friends to consider, as well as work and mortgage payments to take into account.

For Nightclub users, emphasizing freedom is understandable, but on the other hand, one must still consider the feelings of their partner. Coming from a chaotic family, I seem to have no right to criticize others, but it is precisely because of this unique family experience that I have come to a deeper understanding—only with the freedom of love can there be liberation of body and mind; only with the commitment of responsibility can love endure.

I often read online posts from netizens who dream of having multiple partners while remaining faithful. It's clearly unrealistic to expect others to bear the responsibility while you enjoy freedom. If you choose freedom, don't be unable to shoulder the responsibility.

Don't think everything is insignificant; I'm currently trapped in this quagmire—even developing psychological problems. Our past life as a trio was too free. Having my own family feels like having a thorn planted in my heart. I can't let my wife know about my past, and I can't tolerate any indication of incest in my daughter. All I can do is endure and let go.

This is my pain. It's also the fundamental reason why I want to have godparents.

[Freedom is a poison!]
I'm poisoned, and breaking free is a difficult process. I even have to rely on godparents. Before or after entering this circle, I hope you can do a good job of "cutting off" and "isolating."

Cutting off—separate time. Indulge regularly each month, and then get back to normal.
Isolating—be independent in life. Other relatives and friends, especially children, have no idea.
But that's life.

Some netizens always ask about my son and me. I'm making this public here so please don't ask anymore. I really don't want to talk about these details.
My mother has gone through menopause. It's not just a physical cessation, but she's also psychologically unaffected. We haven't had sexual contact for a long time, and she doesn't have any male friends. Her exact words were, "Just thinking about the days I spent with your dad makes me happy!"
My wife (hh) wouldn't accept that I have an incestuous past, and it would be difficult for us to have marital relations in the future. Mainly, I'm about to enter middle age, and "responsibility" has become a necessity of life.

We look forward to the approval of our godparents and to the revival of our story. WeChat ID: microleak.
If you are not an elderly couple in Beijing or don't have friends in Beijing, please don't pry into our privacy. Our story is all here. I will proactively post other in-depth questions at the beginning of each month if necessary.
Sorry! And we look forward to the appearance of our godparents.

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