Incest Episode 4

After the third episode was released, it was met with strong criticism from a woman . It wasn't that she objected to me writing about incest, but rather that what I posted yesterday was too simplistic. Because for most couples, finding a stranger , a single man is a psychological burden, difficult to overcome . Let alone a mother and son having sexual relations—such things are rarely easy ; the psychological struggle can be very long. I'll explain this further here.
Yesterday's post only briefly described the process. The second episode is from the son's perspective, depicting a secret and timid act of intimacy . The third episode is from the mother's perspective, showing her feigning sleep when her son invades , allowing the act to occur smoothly. The following fourth episode will explain the first reason for incest :
More than half of children have witnessed their parents having sex as children . However, almost 100% of parents fail to guide or encourage this behavior. The stimulation of such a live broadcast far surpasses that of adult films. Ladies and gentlemen, I don't believe you agree that your child has watched adult films from a young age. Because experts say that watching adult films can have psychological effects. The vast majority of parents can only choose to avoid it:
First, no watching porn. Second, separate rooms for the child . But in reality, when you're having sex at night, your child can easily find out if they wake up in the middle of the night. They'll peek if they can in the dark, and if they can't see, they'll eavesdrop.
Furthermore, almost all of these children have watched pornographic films. While watching lessons, pop-up windows would display images of those films. Some parents, seeing their children eavesdropping or watching them have sex, would scold them. Others, seeing the pop-up images, would walk over and immediately close it without explanation. This results in most families raising children who, aside from decent grades, know almost nothing and have extremely low emotional intelligence . This is also the root cause of their children's divorces 20 years later.
Yesterday I chatted with an online friend. That friend said life was unsatisfactory, his elderly parents were in poor health, and sex was the last thing on his mind . I can say with certainty that this is an extremely foolish and wrong choice. Let's start from the beginning:
Without sex, where would you be ?
If you don't have a sex life, who will marry you ?
If you don't have a sex life, who will marry you ?
Without sex life, how can you talk about education if you don't have children ?
Without sex, how can there be harmony ?
Without sex, how can there be pleasure ?
Do you understand sex? There's a saying: " A person who isn't interested in the private parts of the opposite sex is already ruined ." If a couple has to beg for sex, the family is doomed. Even military-themed TV dramas can't do without romantic scenes of embracing .
Some say that men are kites, and women are the string. And that string is a woman's vagina . A wise woman always knows how to use her vagina.
If you are a man :
Dare you say you don't want your wife to be naked every day?
You dare say you don't want to be able to touch someone's genitals anytime?
Dare you say you don't want your wife to touch your penis?
Dare you say you don't want your wife to touch your penis as you leave the house?
If you are a woman :
You can touch your husband's penis anytime, so why worry about him forgetting to come home?
What husband wouldn't like it if his wife could touch his vagina anytime?
But ask yourself, how many couples can actually do that ? Life is like a hanging basket , filled with the mundane details of daily life. Sex is the hook. You focus on the trivialities of life every day, but never pay attention to the most fundamental element—the hook. Is this kind of bland, unfulfilling life anything but happy?
Many families, even those married for over 20 years, still end in divorce . A couple who know nothing about sex demand that their child not watch porn, let alone witness them having sex. They also don't show any signs of affection in their daily lives . So, is your child a genius? Does he automatically understand sex and guarantee a happy marriage in the future? Neglecting sex, not understanding sex, and failing to skillfully manage sex life have the following consequences:
First, they always have a superficial view of issues.
Secondly, life is a complete mess.
Sex is the foundation of all life . There's a joke online that goes: Men think about making money every day. After making money, they find women. After finding women, they go back to making money. After making money, they still find women, and it even becomes a hot topic. Such a simple truth!
Most people work hard to earn money every day, yet complain about their unsatisfactory lives.
Can someone who doesn't understand the true meaning of life make money?
How can someone who can't make money find a good woman?
Can a man who can't find a good woman live a comfortable life?
How can you make money if you don't have a comfortable life?
If you don't get a divorce in the end, where can you run to ?
Earlier I mentioned many couples who know nothing and live their lives aimlessly. Under your parenting style, your child's future life will most likely be similar to yours. I believe you don't want your child to replicate your current life.
Today I asked a female netizen , "If your son secretly penetrated you from behind, would you pretend to be asleep or wake up and scold him?" She said she would probably pretend to be asleep. This is the right choice, but it's only the first step. After pretending to be asleep a few times, you need to choose to deal with it directly.
Let's not talk about whether you're willing or not; the fact is, it's already happened . Since you were pretending not to know before, you need to test the waters. Otherwise, the child might think they've committed a terrible crime. There are essentially two possible directions:
The first direction is to ensure he doesn't do it again . If you make that choice, the child will definitely say, "I'll never do it again." But right now, his mind is already wandering. Last night he was trembling with pleasure. Today he says he won't do it again. We also believe that for a considerable time, he absolutely won't dare to make the same mistake again. But how do you bring his mind back? Are you expecting a 15-year-old to get a female classmate pregnant?
The second direction is to guide them in the future . A family's space is only so big; you can't hide from it. In the internet age, you can't stop them from watching porn. Today, the three of us are speaking freely. You're not a child anymore; let your parents tell you more secrets. It's also important to let children know that sex is a wonderful thing. You can even ask them if they feel comfortable.
Recently, I had a conversation with a middle-aged mother . She said that her son often spied on her, hugging her from behind while she slept . Although he would verbally say things like , "You're a big kid, why are you touching me like this?", he never truly refused her actions, and she could clearly feel something hard pressing against her. She often found marks left from masturbation on the blanket. Later, in a half-awake , half-asleep state, she completely yielded to his advances.
What she was worried about was whether this would affect her son's studies and future normal life, and she also worried about what would happen if her husband found out one day ...
The evolution process can be explained as follows :
A physically mature son sees his mother merely as a woman he desires. He then tests her tolerance and acceptance. For example, he leaves his clean clothes in the room while she showers, then enters and exits the bathroom naked ... pressing tightly against her body, his erect penis rubbing against her... When bathing and scrubbing her back, he touches her genitals... At this moment, the mother experiences complex and contradictory emotions: on one hand, moral pressure frightens her; but on the other hand, she fears that being too harsh on him will damage her confidence as a man.
During this period, the mother has tacitly accepted or tolerated her son's behavior, only "strictly guarding" the final barrier, not allowing him to have actual sexual intercourse. However, in reality, this step sometimes happens naturally, triggered by factors such as the mother falling asleep naked after a shower. The son might quietly approach to admire , caress, and even penetrate her. Once the first time has occurred , they can only protect themselves through secrecy and absolute confidentiality. In many cases of incest , very few hope to escape incest by seeking help. Their purpose is often simply to confide in someone and gain a semblance of psychological balance.
The following is a quote from Li Yinhe :
Since it's impossible to completely prevent boys from watching pornography and witnessing their parents having sex, it's feasible to guide their sexual desires in a harmless and normal way, allowing them to truly mature. Encouraging boys to have limited sexual relations with their mothers for cognitive and educational purposes is a practical approach. Through appropriate sexual activity with their mothers, boys can gain a deeper understanding of sexuality. This is something boys cannot achieve through sex with their girlfriends. Because in this world, only a mother truly loves her child. She will teach her child what is right. Girlfriends, on the other hand, often have ulterior motives, such as wanting to marry you or to please you.
I urge middle-aged mothers to dispel their concerns and bravely guide their children towards themselves, teaching them to recognize and understand women, and how to be more empathetic as women. Once they learn, understand, and act upon this knowledge, they will gain confidence in facing any woman, which will greatly contribute to marital harmony.
This episode begins with the child peeping at their parents having sex. If this behavior has occurred, the child will suffer from insomnia and be unable to sleep. Without guidance, it could lead to future promiscuous behavior and even serious consequences. If this behavior hasn't occurred (and cannot be proven), then in this open society, your child is practically a blank slate, at least five years more immature than other children.
So in the last episode I said I neither support, encourage, nor oppose sex; let nature take its course. If it happens, accept it gladly and guide it accordingly. If it doesn't happen, don't dwell on it, but necessary sex education must still be provided. Remember, sex is like the hook in a hanging basket . If your child matures ten years earlier than other children, then their future life will definitely surpass that of you and your spouse.
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