Newlyweds (Episode 5: A friend communicates with the wife)

Newlyweds ( Episode 5 : A friend communicates with the wife )
Swapping spouses with acquaintances is more exciting and convenient .In the last episode, we talked about reaching an agreement with our good buddies. Now, let's work on our two wives. To convince the wives, we must understand what they really want:
Work foundation .
When you first suggest to your wife that you two could have some fun together, believe me. She's not thinking about unwavering fidelity, nor is she concerned about physical needs. In reality, almost all women worry about only two things : first, their husbands' disapproval afterward; and second, the shame they'll suffer if things get out . Therefore, these two points form the basis of your approach.
First, let your wife know that this kind of thing is very common . If this is your first time working with your wife, use readily available articles and pictures from 69.com to let her know that tens of millions of people across the country regularly play this kind of game. If your wife doesn't realize the sheer number of people involved, she'll think you're very perverted and will resist. So, don't rush to ask your wife if she wants to play; instead, keep emphasizing how many people do this.
Second, use multiple approaches simultaneously . Many articles on 69.org suggest communicating with your wife and letting her experience the pleasure of different men. Most of these articles are fantasies written by single men . The correct approach is to let your wife know about couple swapping, non-swapping during intercourse, group swapping involving multiple couples, and other similar activities. Multiple approaches will give your wife a better understanding of this. If you directly tell her to find him men, she'll think, "Do you even count as a man? Other men worry about their wives finding other men. Look at you, you coward, go away!" Always remember, when a woman looks down on men, everything that man says is nonsense. But when you say, "Look at the Nanjing University professor doing couple swapping. Look at this picture, there are three couples, wow, so exciting! Look at the woman's expression during orgasm, my god, amazing, incredible!" your wife will be attracted. She'll then see it as normal. So, gradually making something abnormal seem normal to her is the beginning of your success.
Third, show your wife articles written from a woman's perspective . Articles written by women are generally more subtle and easier to understand. The underlying logic is that married women often feel insecure about their changing bodies. When they read articles written from a woman's perspective, they are more likely to empathize. For example, a woman might write, "I had such an incredible orgasm! My mind went blank. The muscles in my vagina were twitching." Your wife will empathize and imagine herself experiencing that. Is an orgasm really that amazing? Can it really be so intense and unforgettable? Then, if you talk to her about how women only truly understand the joys of being a woman when they experience orgasm, this empathy will start her daydreaming. No matter how tough she sounds, her feelings will gradually change.
Fourth, try asking questions . In this situation, you can try asking your wife. For example, you could say, "Hey, if you were to come and play, would you choose a threesome or partner swapping ?" Or you could ask, " If you were to find a man, what age would be most suitable ?" These questions are very easy to answer. You've subtly revealed your inner desires. If your wife tells you she doesn't like threesomes but is willing to swap partners, then your future direction should be finding partners . If your wife says she thinks it would be fun to have sex without swapping, then you can look for partners who don't swap . As for whether or not to swap while in bed, that's a different matter. Once you're naked and it's the first time, nothing else matters.
Fifth, subtly reveal information . For example, you could say to your wife, "Remember when we went drinking with Xiao Li and his wife last time? Xiao Li told me he wanted to find a couple to play the swapping game ." Your wife might turn around in surprise and ask, "You told him?" You can tell your wife, "No, no, no. I just liked it and said, 'Great, great.'" At this point, you can tell your wife, "Actually, I can tell that Xiao Li has feelings for you." Your wife might ask, "Why?" You can tell her, "Why? Isn't it simple? We drank together, we played together. Anyone who's an adult can see that." At this point, your wife will ask you, "Tch, you want to sleep with someone else's wife, right?" Once she says this, you can immediately tell her. You can say, "Actually, to be honest, I just want to find you a man, but you said you can't accept swapping, you can accept couples. So last time I talked to Xiao Li, he actually said a lot of his inner thoughts." You have to understand that women are very contradictory creatures . If she agrees to swapping, she'll say, "Oh, it's because you want excitement." Even if you find him three men, he might find it acceptable. But he can't stand you entering another woman's body in front of him. And if another man penetrates his body, he'll say it's because you want stimulation. So you need to learn to go along with what he says .
Sixth, if your wife says, "Oh, Xiao Li isn't good enough ," it means she has someone else she likes. If she says, "Forget it, it'll be inconvenient to see Xiao Li every day," it means she's concerned about safety and prefers a stranger. If she says, "I don't even know him, it's uncomfortable just looking at him, I don't know his background, oh my god, I can't stand it," it means she wants someone she knows. Again, partner swapping with someone you know is more exciting and convenient . Of course, the risks are also higher.
7. If your wife immediately starts yelling when you bring up these topics, it means your life together is very unsatisfactory. Your career is struggling, your income is low, and your wife is anxious. Earning more money is more important to her than achieving highs . So, if you know you'll get yelled at if you bring these topics up, my personal advice is to just focus on working hard and earning money. Remember this: if a woman isn't anxious, she won't yell at you. If you are very successful in life, your wife won't just not yell at you; she might even cry because she's afraid of being abandoned.
I've been quite busy lately and haven't updated much. This was written in a bit of a rush. The next installment will be even more exciting.

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