Some personal thoughts on couples making friends (Part 2)

Let's chat casually. The meeting place, especially for the first time, is particularly important. Meeting directly in a hotel room is certainly possible, but some married women might feel awkward. Therefore, it's best to choose a place that is both open and somewhat private, such as a tea room, a dimly lit Western restaurant, or a Japanese restaurant's private room. Amidst the clinking of glasses, any doubts can naturally be dispelled, leading to a second round.
Then, should we have some drinks? It depends on the individual. Many women find a little alcohol a touch more alluring, their faces flushed and eyes sparkling, so a little is fine. However, for men, it's best to avoid it. If you can't get an erection, or your testicles are stuck, imagine how awkward it would be to get to the point of climaxing! A friend of mine, after a few ounces of baijiu (Chinese liquor), tried his best, almost masturbating until he was bald, but ultimately failed. He was teased by married women for a long time. Now,
let's talk about the meeting place. Personally, I think a hotel, especially a good hotel or resort, is the best. For four- or five-star hotels, suites are best, as they offer better bathroom facilities, larger rooms that comfortably accommodate three or four people, and ensure safety and hygiene. Higher floors generally minimize disturbance, preventing situations where the wife can't call out loudly or disturb the neighbors. Resorts offer superior environments, some even allowing guests to enjoy the hot springs together. Rooms are also less densely packed, and some offer entire buildings for private use, which is ideal. Some couples prefer to stay at their own homes, believing it's safe and hygienic. However, for them, the main concern is avoiding noise that might disturb the neighbors, as rumors can easily spread, and cleaning up afterwards is time-consuming and laborious. Of course, this doesn't apply to wealthy individuals with large villas or apartments. As for guesthouses and farm stays, I don't have much experience with them. Those with experience can share their insights.
Finally, let's discuss choosing places for couples to socialize. Every place, whether large or small, has its own social circle. There's a saying that everyone knows everyone in the world through just six intermediaries. Therefore, experienced couples generally don't look for partners or single men locally, especially single men. After all, it's still a society based on personal connections, and even the slightest disturbance can lead to social turmoil. Some small circles of a few couples and single men exist, but these are usually very stable, and they don't easily leave. They are also very cautious about introducing new members; without introductions from acquaintances, it's practically impossible to join. Local single men are mainly young, unmarried men who, after one or two experiences, like to boast. Especially after a few drinks, they become quite talkative. I hope this is helpful to couples who are considering
this. This is somewhat disorganized, just rambling thoughts. I've been based in the Yangtze River Delta region (Jiangsu, Zhejiang, Shanghai, Sichuan, Chongqing, and the Pearl River Delta) for a long time. I welcome all friends and experts to discuss and share life experiences.

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