Regarding couples seeking single men for development

This rambling post is mainly a record of how many couples I've encountered over the years seeking single men to "develop" their wives...
I entered this online community in 2017, and spent 17-18 lurking. In 2019, a couple from Dezhou in Hangzhou introduced me to it. During 20-2021, strict hotel regulations due to the pandemic prevented me from meeting anyone. Then, in 2022-2023, I successfully arranged meetings with three couples from Hangzhou. I added many very nice couples and their husbands, as well as many couples claiming to be seeking single men and demanding money, gifts, and having their shopping carts cleared. Some even asked me to pay for hotel expenses. Because of my two years of lurking, I knew these "tricks" of seeking single men from couples. I wasn't scammed out of large sums of money, but I did send out quite a few small red envelopes of 50, 88, or 100 yuan. Basically, they would ask for a second time after the first, no matter how beautiful or outstanding the woman was. I deleted them all before we met. The four couples I successfully met so far were all very straightforward; they never mentioned money before meeting. They only discussed the details of the meeting, the activities, and how to make the "activity" more successful.
There are also times when I get scolded by my husband. Some of the husbands in these couples are quite nice, though there are differences in personality and communication, which I can understand.
Today, I want to talk about some husbands who advertise for single men. After adding me on QQ, they asked me to introduce myself, send photos, etc. After all that, they said they'd been trying for seven or eight years, even over ten, without success. Their wives just wouldn't agree, etc. What I want to say here is: have these husbands really tried to communicate seriously and take any concrete steps? For example, reading 3P novels, watching 3P movies, deliberately showing their wives the links on the site, or taking their wives to spas to gradually get massages from male masseurs. The fundamental reason for not succeeding after seven or eight years is that the husbands haven't overcome their psychological barrier; they can't get past that hurdle. Expecting to find a single man on the site to "develop" that barrier is practically impossible. And then there are those who are just fantasizing, and they'll satisfy those fantasies. Even the closest husband can't overcome his wife's anxieties (fear of infidelity, being discovered by her husband with a stranger, being abandoned, and losing her family). Only by constantly alleviating her concerns, encouraging her to love her more, and letting her let go of her worries will the husband be able to fulfill his cuckoldry dream. I'm referring to the husband's cuckoldry dream because women are generally passive in sexual matters and don't fully express themselves.
Expecting a single, unfamiliar man to seduce and "develop" your wife has a very low success rate. The barriers will inevitably crumble from the inside; the single man is the facilitator. The husband accounts for 60-70%, while the single man only accounts for 30-40%, I think at most 30%.
So, I want to say something to some husbands with cuckoldry dreams: taking the first step bravely is the key. Staying only in the realm of fantasy is just wishful thinking. Don't wait until you're over 60 to say: "My wife doesn't agree, I can't 'develop' her, I need to find a single man to 'develop' her..."
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