New Couple Swap (Episode 1, Process)

Yesterday , a netizen left a message hoping I would talk about couple swapping. Today, I'll discuss this issue from several perspectives.
First level : Communication .
First, communication between you and your spouse . Whether it's partner swapping or a threesome , it requires a series of discussions between you and your wife , ultimately leading to her agreement to begin. However, this internal communication process alone eliminates over 70% of potential partners. It's fair to say that the vast majority of people with ideas fail at this very first stage. Only less than 30% successfully progress to the second step.
Second, communication with others after your wife's consent . If you're going to have a threesome, you'll need to find a suitable single man. Get to know each other and communicate. When you feel the other person is acceptable, you still need to obtain your wife's consent. Next, you'll need to present yourself and see if the single man is interested in your marriage. However, I must say, a single man who has the opportunity to sleep with someone else's wife is most likely desperate. In other words, communicating with a single man is very easy.
However, if the other party is also a couple, things become much more complicated . You'll likely need to communicate with the other party's husband first. You'll need to discuss things based on your age, location, and even interests. If both of you feel it's a good fit, I believe you'll immediately show your wife a photo of the other person. At the same time, photos of you and your spouse will also appear before the other couple. This is a process of mutual evaluation by all four of you .
You should look at the other person's wife; at least she shouldn't be too unpleasant.
You also need to consider whether the other woman's husband likes your wife.
You also need to see if you have a good chemistry with the other person's wife.
It's important to understand that even for two people to be attracted to each other, it takes probability. Imagine the difficulty of four people being attracted to each other ! And even if things go well at the time, disagreements or differing opinions can lead to unpleasant endings later on.
This explains why, even on a professional website like 69 , truly successful swaps are extremely rare. Conversely, engaging in threesomes is relatively much easier. Couple swapping is far more difficult than threesomes . Therefore, at this stage of external communication, another 30% of those who manage to slip through the net are eliminated. If you're lucky enough to pass through hurdle after hurdle, and all four people are mutually attracted, you and I would probably be laughing in your sleep right now. You'd be filled with the exciting scene of the four of you together. Only 15% of the total can enter the second level.
The second level: planning for specific implementation .
First, the time and place . This is relatively simple; for example, both parties discuss it. Is it our city, your city, or a third-party city, etc.? Generally, as long as both parties agree on the location, they are quite considerate of each other when discussing these matters.
Second, the various expenses in the second phase . The reason why it's said that second marriages are rarely happy is because both partners in a second marriage want to maximize their own children's benefits , let alone a temporary group of four like yours. I can say with certainty that women in today's society don't care who they sleep with for one night ; they care more about who pays for them that day.
If it's a threesome , the first time is paid for by the single man. Couples don't need to pay. If the accommodations are good, that's great; if they're not, it's not a big problem. After all, I provide my body, you provide the money. But couple swapping is not so simple. Since neither owes the other anything physically , disputes naturally arise over money.
Dear readers , some might be thinking, "Why be so calculating? I'll just spend the money, it doesn't matter." Sorry , but I believe no one cares about 100 or 200. However , imagine you and your spouse are taking a two-hour high-speed train ride or driving for six hours. Whether it's the tickets , tolls , fuel, or spending 500 on a meal , 600 on karaoke , and 800 on a hotel , you're expected to pay for it all. Don't believe me? Ask your wife if she'd be willing. She'd definitely think , "Damn it, people say women who go astray get rich. And here I am , having to pay out of my own pocket, and spending several thousand! What the hell is the point?"
So please don't try to be generous when you're already poor . You might say , " We agreed I'd pay this time, you pay next time." No, sorry. There's no guarantee there will be a next time , so let's settle this once and for all. So, who should actually bear this cost?
第一种感觉占便宜的一方来负担。比如你们夫妻。都是48岁。而另一对儿夫妻只有28岁。很显然无论是你睡了28岁的小娘们儿，还是你老婆睡了，28岁的小鲜肉。你们夫妻都是占便宜的一方。当哥哥嫂子的就大方一点儿吧。
第二种就是无论什么费用全部aa制。这个只要大多数费用做到aa。一般来说四个人都不会有太多意见。
第三种就是谁张罗谁花钱。比如你们夫妻最近闲暇无事。两口子商量着要不要再找一对夫妻打打牙祭。双方一拍即合。老公负责物色人选。老婆也积极的梳洗打扮。比如买个比如网购两件儿情趣内衣之类的。经过物色之后，你们夫妻表现的比较大方。是为了更好的愉悦生活。你想啊。你们夫妻一通张罗。然后跟人家说费用由你们来出。你这办的什么事儿啊？
第四种就是各种费用抢着花钱。比如吃饭没抢过你。有你出钱了。那住宿的时候我就抢着花钱呗。
在这个第二个层面儿当中，有很多细节的不统一，说话方式让人难受，性格差异太大等等原因，又有一部分人被淘汰出局。这个时候总人数已经不到10%了。只有这不到10%的人能进入到第三层面儿。
第三层面。见面之后。
一，多年前网上就有见光死之说。就是相互聊的挺好看，照片儿也不错。甚至在网上视频也没挑出太多毛病。但见面之后才发现比如对方是个酒鬼。比如喝酒的时候对方大呼小叫。比如刚一见面儿就直接摸大腿。比如刚一见面儿就把他老婆往你怀里推。因为人和人是有差异的。每个人的行事方式不同，思想观念不同。这些假如的行为可能让对方极不舒服。两口子相互悄悄的发个信息，咱们走吧。对面儿夫妻素质实在太差。临门一脚的时候，没想到流产了。
二，本来我是说见面之后要注意你的言行举止也就行了。但我额外补充一点。那就是，明明四个人就是奔着滚床单儿去的。但因为这种主流社会所不耻的行为，在夫妻双方沟通的阶段，往往当老公的会给老婆很多浪漫的许诺。他会把这场滚床单儿的活动描述成一场无比浪漫的邂逅。因为当今社会对出轨的宽容度已经达到了空前的程度，以至于出轨率非常的高。所以，很多女人对于出轨的理解已经是见惯不惯的。如果，你的闺蜜知道你出轨，我估计大概率并不会笑话你或者指责你。可我不相信你敢对外说你们玩夫妻交换。正因为主流社会的不耻，哪怕是一个平时经常出轨的女人，在这件事情上也必须要装成无比纯真的样子。
所以，你看六九平台上经常有人发布什么素质夫妻，什么寻求素质夫妻，什么寻找素质单男之类的信息。其实并不代表他们本人有什么素质。也不代表他们所寻找的是一个什么高不可及的素质人物。所谓的素质其实就是为了更好的能够实现目标。说白了吧，就是她老公言外之意告诉你，为了避免临门一脚突然流产，你明明就是个混蛋，但今天你一定要装成有素质，很文明的样子。沿着对方老公给他老婆设计的邂逅圈套，一步一步的牵着女人，让两个女人没有退后的余地或者借口，只是为了把这件事儿做成仅此而已。如果你们没有在这一关被淘汰，那么恭喜你。你们夫妻是那仅存的不到5%的人当中的一份儿。顺利进入第四层面。
第四层面：进入酒店。
一，都不是处男处女。只要双方夫妻能见面儿，双方都清楚。都已经同意了。既然能进入到房间傻子都知道接下来会发生什么。所以已经过了装纯的阶段。所以进入酒店后的第一点就是不要出现空档的尴尬。有人说在这儿打打牌。谁输了谁脱衣服。我说说这句话的人他一定脑子有问题。因为虽然知道会发生什么，但是仍然还是会有紧张害羞尴尬等等这样的情况。请牢记，在特殊场合，特殊时间，特殊的事情上，女人的脑子是蒙蒙的。你不要给女人冷静的时间。
打开房门进入房间，第一句话就说女士优先，你们两个女的先去冲冲澡儿。我们两个爷们儿坐这儿抽根烟。行了，行了，别看了，快去，快去吧，快去洗澡。女人被你的牵引他会大脑空白的直接去洗澡。倘若你们进入房间又是请坐。又是渴不渴呀？喝不喝水呀？又是热不热呀？要不要脱下衣服啊？要不要再买点儿啤酒，咱们再喝点儿啊。你说这些废话干什么？难道你让女人回归理性吗？
二，两个女人一个人围着一个浴巾。洗完澡围着浴巾出来这是大概率的。当他们走出来的瞬间，两个男人立刻起身走，兄弟，咱们两个也冲一冲。两个女人围着浴巾自然而然就会钻进被窝里。而你们两个大男人在卫生间里。嘻嘻哈哈的聊着天儿，表现无比轻松的样子。包括你们两个人相互在吹捧对方老婆的漂亮。。流水声，谈话声，笑声，吹捧赞美之声都会让被窝里的两个女人开始分泌荷尔蒙。因为一般的酒店房间只有两个浴巾，你们出来的时候是赤身裸体的状态。一个关键就是出来之后要躺在自己老婆身边。千万不要直扑对方老婆。以免你们的唐突吓到对方引发尖叫，甚至引起投诉。
Third, after getting into bed, climb on top of your wife . The two women are close together. Both men's thighs can touch each other's wives. Climbing on top of your wife isn't for sex, but to establish skin-to-skin contact with the other woman. Reach out and touch the other woman while your husband is on top of you. Because her husband is on top of her, no matter how nervous she is, she won't resist. Just touch her. Then have both women bend over. The two men kneel behind them and start touching each other's wives, then switch places. Don't speak, not a single word. Any words are useless .
Fourth, when switching locations, don't do any foreplay before going straight to penetration . Remember when you and your wife first slept together, you were also hesitant . Do the same now. Don't give the woman time to change her mind. After penetration, even if you only move around a few times and then do some foreplay, it's fine. In short, the first time isn't about achieving a spectacular orgasm or something wonderful; the goal is simply to break the ice . Once you've achieved the exchange, there's no need for further discussion.
The fifth level. Foreplay may be unnecessary, but afterplay is essential .
First, afterplay is for the future . As I just mentioned, the purpose of the first time is to break the ice. So, you can go straight to penetration without foreplay. After the activity, whether you've done it once or twice, don't forget: when you're soft, hold the woman, let her feel the warmth of this unfamiliar man. During sex, a woman's mind is blank. But afterwards, she might regret it immensely, so afterplay is to comfort her. Even if you're faking it, act like you're tender and protective. Use your actions to fulfill the promise her husband once made to her.
Second, farewells should not be frivolous . Men, once they've slept with a woman , often feel she's theirs. Since she's theirs, they think they can touch her however they want. When the four of you are dressed and ready to say goodbye , if a man can't resist reaching out to touch her a couple more times , this is a very wrong move. At this point, everyone should be back to their senses , smiling politely as you suggest whether to go home , have dinner downstairs , or go to a karaoke bar. In short , at this moment , you should link arms with your wife to let each other know that you are husband and wife .
The above is my description of the process of couples swapping . In the next article, I will analyze it from the perspective of psychological changes. Please feel free to comment, and I look forward to it.

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