Brother's wife

My friend is 32 years old this year. He's a driver for our company's leader and is from Sichuan. Our company is a construction company under a state-owned enterprise, and we're mostly stationed in Guangdong for construction work. Everyone knows that people in construction work tend to find wives relatively late. Two years ago, in March, my friend suddenly told me that his friend was visiting and invited a bunch of us guys to dinner. At the table, a pretty girl sat next to him, and we joked, "You two aren't just friends, are you his girlfriend?" He said, "No, really, just a regular friend. She's married." At the time, I was puzzled. Married girls usually don't easily travel from Chengdu to Guangzhou to see a guy, but out of politeness, I didn't ask further. In May, because my wife was getting a new car, I went back to Chengdu to pick up her old car and drive it to Guangzhou for my own use. My friend heard I was driving back from Chengdu, so he called me and asked if I could pick up his girlfriend from Chengdu. I thought driving alone would be tiring, and having someone to chat with wouldn't hurt, so I agreed. I contacted his girlfriend using the contact information he gave me. At the time, I didn't realize that the person I picked up was the "ordinary friend" he mentioned earlier. But when I picked her up, I was a little stunned. How could it be her? However, I thought young people are usually unpredictable, so I didn't think too much about it. The journey took a day and a half, with a one-night break in Guilin. Believe me, I didn't do anything inappropriate with his girlfriend; after all, she's my friend's girlfriend.
About a week after returning to Guangzhou, he contacted me again, saying he wanted to find a job for his girlfriend on-site. Coincidentally, I needed a clerk, and he asked if that was possible. I thought about it and said I should talk to my boss; I agreed to take her on, but it needed his approval. He said it was no problem; he had already spoken to his boss, and it was up to me. Of course, I had nothing to say.
During my time working in my department, I assigned a young man to mentor her professionally. (Note: At this point, I still thought my friend was joking when he said she was married, so I treated her like a girl.)
Because of the age gap between us, I only cared about her work performance and paid little attention to her personal life. Initially, she was quite attentive.
They got married last September. In October, I was transferred from a project in Guangzhou to a project in western Guangdong. After the transfer, she kept telling me that her current supervisor disapproved of her, saying she was too concerned with her appearance and didn't care about the company's image. She asked if I could transfer her to the new project. Considering they were newlyweds and her husband was my brother, I said I'd accept her when her husband transferred, but not now.
Later, her husband called me again, saying, "Mr./Ms. [Name], you should transfer [her name] to the new project." He kept nagging me about it. In this situation, I had no choice but to agree. I contacted HR, explained the situation, and since I'm in charge of this area, I had the authority to make that decision. She was quickly transferred under a labor dispatch arrangement. Because our project isn't in the city center, but in the countryside, and the nearest county town is a forty-minute drive away, she became familiar with many of the local young people in less than a week after being transferred here. Since she can't drive, she often hitches rides with other people to the county town. Because of the new project, the department often works overtime. I asked others, and they either heard her going to the county town to watch movies with certain people, or going out for barbecue or karaoke. But I thought, well, young people, it's normal for them to go out at night since we're not in the city. Until before the Lunar New Year, her husband called me one day, saying he couldn't reach her; her phone was switched off. As the person in charge, employee safety is my responsibility, so I called over the people she usually hangs out with to ask, but they all said they didn't know her; they hadn't hung out together in a long time. I even sent people to the dormitory to look for her, but still no one was there.
The next day, I called her into my office and went straight to the point: "Where were you last night? No one was in the dorm, and the others don't know what happened to you." She said she was watching a movie and kept her phone off to avoid disturbing others. But from her furtive glances, I could tell she was lying. I didn't confront her directly, just said, "Next time, please keep your phone on. If you're worried about disturbing others, you can put it on vibrate. We're in construction, unlike companies in the city. We're responsible for your safety after get off work." At that moment, I had a vague feeling that something was wrong. After the New Year, her husband was transferred here, but the girl didn't seem to be affected. She still went to the county town every night until last Wednesday night. Her husband came to my dorm and asked, "Boss, have you noticed any changes in my wife?" I immediately suspected something was going on between them. I pretended not to know and replied, "I haven't noticed. You know we're both busy." He took two cans of beer from my refrigerator and said, "Boss, there's something I might not have told you. So-and-so is married and has children." I said, "How could that be? Are you kidding me?" He said, "It's true, he and his ex-husband got divorced when the baby was three months old. The first time I came here was two years ago, right after the divorce, to clear my head." I said, "I really don't know, this is the first time you've told me (I didn't say he told me two years ago). But it's normal to divorce and remarry, and besides, Yu seems to be 7 years younger than you. She was immature back then, but she should be more mature now." He said, "What does she know? I could understand you going out to have fun before I came here, but now that I'm here, she's still going out every day. We had a fight today, and she got angry, saying she knows a girl at a certain entertainment venue downstairs, and that girl keeps asking her to come down and sing for free." Hearing this, I could only go along with it, saying that it's normal to hang out with women. Actually, I know the KTV he mentioned. Although I don't go there often, I have a general understanding of the situation there; it's a bit complicated. I guess the girl is just an excuse, or at least there's something else going on, I'm not sure."
Yesterday afternoon, near the end of the workday, his wife told me, "Boss, I want to go back to Guangzhou. It's a birthday party for some of the sisters in the finance department of the old project." I asked who it was, and she said "So-and-so Qi." I said, "It's Saturday, your day off. You can decide where you want to go, but be careful on the road."
She probably underestimated the information sources available to her superiors. My subordinates quickly relayed the news to me that evening: no one in finance had a birthday today; all three girls have birthdays in the latter half of the year. I don't understand why she would lie so blatantly. Actually, her husband could find out too.
Everyone, please help me analyze this. Should my friend still keep this wife? He was playing cards in the next room just now, but I could tell he wasn't really focused on it. Should we try to persuade him?

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