Reprinted----An Ethical Analysis of Couple Swapping

Families capable of wife-swapping must be at a very high level! Firstly, the couple must have reached a consensus; otherwise, it wouldn't be called wife-swapping, it would be called theft. Secondly, they must genuinely care about each other's sexual well-being, finding their own happiness in the other's pleasure; otherwise, they wouldn't do it openly but secretly. Thirdly, they must want to maintain the family's existence to negotiate and resolve sexual issues; otherwise, they would be indifferent and unmoved by such matters. Considering these points, wife-swapping is a good thing, not a poison to family life.
The main difference between humans and animals is that humans are shy and hide what they consider undesirable. Thus, the body is often covered by clothing, especially the reproductive system. Consequently, the function of the reproductive system gradually transformed from a simple reproductive function into a private act, and later became associated with love and affection. Sexual activity became known as sexual intercourse, existing only between lovers. Because the consequence of sex can be "death," to control population, sex, marriage, and family were linked together, leading to the common belief that sexual intercourse is the exclusive domain of married couples.
The family is a cell of social life, essential for a stable existence. Maintaining harmony within a family involves multiple aspects: love, obligations, and responsibilities. Thus, the state has laws and regulations to protect marriage and uphold the family. But does sex truly exist only within the family?
Sex is a need! Like hunger and thirst, it's a physiological requirement. Eating and drinking tea don't seem to be the sole domain of the family, and it's impossible for sex to exist only within the family and marriage! Therefore, extramarital and premarital sex are rampant in today's society, often disguised as love, attempting to elicit sympathy and understanding.
In reality, physiologically speaking, sex is unrelated to love or family; it's something to do when you want, simple and clear. Emotionally speaking, sex and love are indeed inseparable. Humans are emotional beings, and having sex with someone you have no feelings for should be a terrible thing! However, love doesn't necessarily equate to sex, because sex is indeed a higher level than ordinary emotions. Families involved in wife-swapping must have love, which is why they consider each other's perspectives rather than simply seeking personal pleasure. Moreover, this love is of a very high level; they agree to accept sex swapping only if the other person's happiness is their own.
Imagine if the wife enjoys getting her hair done, and a male hairdresser skillfully strokes her hair—would the husband object? If the wife enjoys beauty treatments, and a male beautician massages and caresses her face and forehead with smooth fingers—would the husband object? If the husband enjoys drinking and playing drinking games with several women, would the wife object? If the husband is tired and wants a massage or foot reflexology, and a female masseuse does it for him—would the wife object? Most families would accept any of these options. So why not give the other person an opportunity when they enjoy sex but you are powerless to provide it? Why confine sex to family and marriage?
Some say sexual disharmony is the root of all crime, which may not be true, but the inability to fulfill desires is likely the root of all disharmony. There's a culture to eating, a variety of drinks, and different kinds of sex. Therefore, wife-swapping might indeed be a way to solve the bland, passionless lives of many families in reality.
It can be said that in wife-swapping families, the men are tolerant, and the women are mostly tolerant. Families that engage in wife-swapping are likely stable. I think they don't want to destroy anything but simply want to give each other a fresher, more exciting experience; love governs their lives! I see nothing dirty or shameful in these families. Perhaps I also have some indecent or vulgar thoughts?
I'm not advocating anything; I'm just scratching the surface, saying what came to mind without considering the reaction. Perhaps I've read too much pornography and become more open-minded; or perhaps I'm just a vulgar person pursuing lowbrow pleasures. But I feel that as understanding of sex deepens, more and more families will be able to accept wife-swapping.

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