Will traditional marriage disappear?

About two years ago , I read an article by Li Yinhe.
Actually, it wasn't really an article, but rather Li Yinhe's answer to a question from an online user . One user asked : Will the traditional marriage model disappear? Professor Li answered as follows :
He said that traditional marriage patterns will not disappear, at least not in the short term, given their thousands of years of history. However, as people become more tolerant of sex, multiple marriage patterns will coexist. For example, same-sex marriage, marriages between two men and one woman, marriages between two women and one man, and marriages between two men and two women. These marriage patterns, which currently seem unethical, will gradually become the norm.
This morning I saw a video on Douyin. It said: Why don't young people get married? It's because of the exploitation of sexual resources due to the wealth gap in society . For example, a rich second-generation heir driving a supercar has had ten girlfriends. And these ten girls all have feelings for their ex-boyfriend, making it difficult for them to be interested in an ordinary young man earning 3000 yuan a month. Meanwhile, this girl's best friend feels she's no worse off. If she can find a rich boyfriend, so can she. Therefore , these girls set their standards for partners extremely high, far exceeding what the average man can afford. In reality, the rich second-generation heir has far more than ten girlfriends. Add to that the relationship gurus who prey on women with all sorts of toxic motivational platitudes, and the situation becomes one where men find it hard to marry and women find it hard to find husbands .
Some people have been on 69 for ten years, and many new members are constantly joining. I believe you'll be incredibly surprised when you first come to 69. As adults, we can understand a few unusual behaviors. But when you open the page and see millions of members, you'll definitely feel how ignorant you are. You'll be amazed to realize that there's another society behind the mainstream society .
The behavior of 69 is illegal, even criminal. At least in China, there is still a crime of group sexual misconduct, which carries a three-year sentence. Even with a lenient sentence, one will spend at least six months in a detention center.
When you look at millions of members , do you ever wonder if a man's inability to tolerate his wife's infidelity is just a facade? Why do so many men want to be cuckolded? In fact, many women also find other women for their men. These behaviors, which are illegal and morally unacceptable, will inevitably push for legal reform when the number of people involved reaches a certain level .
Li Yinhe once said that the crime most deserving of being abolished is the crime of group sexual misconduct . Because, as an adult activity, all parties involved consent. There is no rape, no fraud, and no harm done to others. In today's society, with increasing tolerance for sex, premarital cohabitation becoming commonplace, high divorce rates, and a general reluctance to marry, engaging in a passionate adult activity after consultation with the other spouse is not considered betrayal because there is no concealment. While such activities should not be widely promoted, they should at least not be viewed with fear or stigma .
In modern society, people face immense pressure from both life and work. Even the wealthy often face significant career crises. In this reality, passion is scarce between couples, and leisure time becomes the only source of enjoyment. Most couples share a bed but sleep back-to-back, each engrossed in their own phone. Many have even moved to separate beds and rooms. Counting money has become the only source of pleasure in their lives. However, if they were to occasionally switch partners a few times a year, adding a single man or woman to the mix, it would be like throwing a stone into a stagnant pond . While it might not create massive waves, it would at least ripple. Adding new energy to a lifeless marriage might not be so bad.
Currently, the infidelity rate among women is 48%, while the rate among men exceeds 60% . Society has become remarkably tolerant of infidelity, to the point that even the law doesn't intervene. It's not illegal for me to sleep with your wife; if you dare hit me, I'll send you to jail. This is the reality of society today.
Secret betrayal brings immense uncertainty to marriage, resulting in numerous children left without parents . Women, in particular, often wouldn't refuse an affair given the opportunity, but they find it very difficult to accept a threesome. Why are women willing to have an affair but not a threesome ? Because after having an affair, they can still maintain a ladylike image in front of their husbands. They even think that if they divorce, they will be the innocent party. If they allow another man into their bodies in front of their husbands, they fear their husbands will look down on them, and they won't have the confidence to discipline them at home. This is the real reason women reject threesomes; don't mistake it for female conservatism.
Adultery isn't illegal, so many people have made it semi-public . After all, morality has no binding force, and since everyone is having affairs, no one should ridicule anyone else for their moral failings. As long as there are no laws criminalizing adultery, it will continue to exist.
Group sex, including three or four groups, and even couples exchanging beds (four people sharing one bed), are all criminal acts . That's why no one dares to go public. It's not that they're afraid of being laughed at, but rather afraid of being handcuffed. If there were no crime of group sex, I guarantee many people would expose such acts in today's society. Because people are very pragmatic and willing to go to extremes; they don't care if you laugh or not, only they know who's having fun. As long as the crime of group sex isn't abolished, these acts will forever remain clandestine.
Returning to the beginning of the article, couples who have been friends for a long time, and single men who have been partners for a long time, have in fact formed unconventional marriages . For example, as Zhou Moli mentioned in the previous article, she already considered her husband and her beloved younger brother as her exclusive men. These numerous unconventional marriages will inevitably push for legal amendments over time, eventually allowing multiple marriage models to coexist. Let's wait and see.

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