A Brief Discussion on How Single Men Can Build Friendly Relationships with Couples

First, let's talk about the taboos for single men.

1. Good manners. Good manners don't necessarily mean having a high level of education. Education absolutely does not represent or equal good manners (everyone knows what kind of so-called college students produced under today's exam-oriented education system are). Rather, it means basic politeness. Have you observed basic etiquette in interpersonal interactions? First, you should know that many couples who engage in this kind of behavior are not lacking in any aspect of their real lives, and they may even love each other more than ordinary couples. They have simply separated sex and love, or added a little spice to their mundane lives.
2. Learn to be considerate of others. Before speaking or acting, think about what the other person (remember, it's a whole group) likes and dislikes, and what might embarrass or annoy them. For example, a swear word like "I'll fuck you to death" might be an aphrodisiac for all three people involved when the woman is experiencing arousal. However, it should be said to her or him at the very beginning of a conversation... If others don't know, my approach is to immediately block them.
3. Being cheerful and talkative doesn't mean being a chatterbox, but rather being able to get to know and become familiar with others more quickly during conversations, and being able to liven up the atmosphere when you meet them. Remember, everyone likes a cheerful and sunny personality. If you always think that your photos or image are worth hundreds of thousands, you should stay at home and not go out. Isn't it better to let strangers make money off you?
The above three points are just the bare minimum and what you should do. If you can't even do these or can't understand them... I advise you to stop daydreaming and wasting other people's and your own time. Only by doing the above three points, plus your "hardware" and "software" combined, can you enter this game. What is "hardware" and "software"? Hardware refers to your appearance, temperament, and physical fitness.
Let's talk about how single men can pass the couples' screening.

First, you need to understand the couples' needs. Sincerity is paramount. Looks don't need to be exceptional, but they should be at least passable. If you think you're not good-looking enough, or send photos with your face blurred, wearing a mask, or making strange expressions, you've already given up on the opportunity the moment you send those photos. Sending photos to the couples is about making a good first impression. Send a few photos you think are suitable for the interview, but close-ups of the genitals are unnecessary unless the couple specifically requests them; many couples don't care about genital size. The more photos, the better, showing your sincerity.
Those who value their privacy and are unwilling to send photos showing their face can be ignored. Couples don't consider single men without photos. If you can't immediately highlight your strengths, being passed over is natural.
Secondly, how to introduce yourself. The couples have interviewed far too many single men and are tired of every single man asking the same questions. Therefore, to pique the couples' interest, a single man must clearly introduce himself. For those who only use short greetings like "Want to hook up?" or "I'm so amazing," you can skip them. Couples expect single men to include at least: age, height, weight, occupation, city, type of work, marital status, experience, and any special skills. This should at least give them the desire to learn more and create an opportunity for further interaction.
Third, single men who seem to have a desire for further communication after chatting with their partners will naturally consider meeting up. Meetings usually involve coffee or tea, or perhaps a meal. Single men should be mindful and gentlemanly in this regard. Frankly, how can a single man who lacks the emotional intelligence to even offer to buy coffee possibly win the favor of a couple?

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