[Repost] Partner Swapping Couples: Deeper Love, More Pleasurable Sex

[Repost] Partner Swapping Couples: Deeper Love, More Pleasurable Sex
First, by transcending taboos, the feelings can be deepened.

One of the biggest taboos between spouses is sexual infidelity. Sexual infidelity can deal a fatal blow to a traditional marital relationship. However, in the practice of cohabitation, both spouses challenge and transcend this biggest taboo together, breaking down the biggest obstacle affecting their relationship. The alliance built in the process of breaking the taboo together can further elevate their feelings for each other.

Dawei said that after practicing cohabitation, "I feel that the relationship between husband and wife is better. The feelings between husband and wife are more stable. The sense of family and responsibility is stronger. Because I don't have to worry about cheating anymore, I've gotten over that hurdle, so I've come to terms with it. Sex is just that."

After practicing partner swapping, Xiao Liu and his wife's relationship improved significantly. Xiao Liu said, "We used to argue frequently, but now we only argue once or twice a year." The trust between them also increased dramatically. Xiao Liu said, "If my wife doesn't tell me something, she must have her reasons." Even something like sexual infidelity, which is usually considered the biggest secret between couples, has become public, so there's really nothing to worry about anymore.

Wang, a respondent from Xi'an, had a similar experience: "After having multiple sexual partners, my relationship with my wife and our sex life improved. Emotionally, she became more dependent on me and wanted to be with me for everything, even taking evening walks together. She missed me a lot when I wasn't home. Sexually, the time we spent together was better than when we were just the two of us; there was more sexual fantasy involved. However, it wasn't as good as when we were in a three-person relationship."

When interviewed, Mr. Su and his wife were still discussing cohabitation, but the discussion itself had deepened their relationship: "I feel that discussing cohabitation, imagining cohabitation, and even putting it into practice in our lives is irreplaceable in maintaining our passion and managing negative emotions." This is not hard to understand, because the discussion itself is a process of jointly overcoming taboos, and it is usually a process of expressing love and emotional loyalty to each other.

When Bengzi first started dating, he was quite idle. He said, "Back then, my girlfriend and I had nothing to do every day, nothing to do outside of work. I used to have many hobbies, a very wide range of hobbies. But she didn't like any of them and just watched TV all day. So I could only stay at home and surf the internet every day. For a while, our lives were just so boring."

It's clear that although the two didn't argue at that time, their relationship was strained. After their shared experience, Bengzi said, "I gained some things and lost others." He gained more intimacy; he lost that other hobbies faded, and their shared experience became the main focus of their lives, which he regretted. But in any case, Bengzi no longer felt that boredom.

Bengzi also said that when they were dating, his girlfriend was very "reserved" and unwilling to express her thoughts directly, which was very different from his personality. After they started dating, "now, my wife has changed a lot. For example, she is no longer so reserved and will express her thoughts."

Bengzi said that for the spouse who is reluctant to share a partner, it's important to actively guide them. Shared marriage has many advantages, such as: a stable family, a higher level of security, and better physical safety; while seeking treatment from prostitutes increases the risk of contracting diseases, finding a partner in a shared marriage is much safer.

In co-op, witnessing others' infatuation with their partner can also enhance one's own passion for their partner.

Xing said, "Although I know she is very beautiful and cute, seeing how much others like her and are fascinated by her will further inspire my passion and appreciation for her." "Because when two people are together, they will gradually get used to each other, but through other people's enthusiasm for her, including comparing her with others, it will further activate a new experience of her beauty and charm."

Xing Ge also mentioned that the love his partner showed him during the group sex made him "more deeply aware of her love for me." He continued, "Her thoughtfulness and loving expressions made me love her even more after the activity ended, and my heart was filled with even stronger emotions when I thought of her. The day after the group sex, I lay in bed reminiscing, mostly thinking about all the ways she showed me her love. It was so warm and blissful that I couldn't bear to fall asleep, indulging in this blissful experience. As for whether I had sex with others or its significance, I didn't think about it at all. Finally, I fell asleep with a smile..."

Xing believes that the reason he and his girlfriend have a deep relationship is largely because she can "do many things I fantasize about together," including cohabitation.

To prove the depth of their relationship, Xing Ge also provided an email from his girlfriend:

You suffered so much in the past, and God sent me to comfort you. All the suffering you endured was for waiting for me.

I will love you for the rest of my life, forever. I feel so happy, how honored I am to have you love me. They didn't cherish me when they were with me before, but you cherish me so much, I will never leave you.

Xing said he was so happy that her appearance completely changed his life: "She brought me so many new experiences that no one else has ever given me. I truly believe that we will never be apart."

Xing introduced his girlfriend to his circle of friends, and he happily talked about her with them, even proudly telling them, "Our love is extraordinary and profound, and we will be together for life."

Xing Ge said, “I didn’t treat her as a lover, but as a life partner. In this era, ‘lover’ has become a stigmatized word, implying affection, but more importantly, sex, and also implying brevity. Some say that a lover relationship usually lasts a year, at best two years. In my experience, the best it lasts is a year, usually three months is a major hurdle, and six months is another. But this time, I believe that she and I can stay together for life. Therefore, I feel that describing our relationship as a lover is an insult to our feelings.”

This profound affection is directly related to his relationship with his girlfriend and Xing Ge.

Female interviewee Lingling also clearly felt that after having a threesome with her boyfriend, their relationship deepened:

This was my first time having a threesome. Although it felt a little awkward and the dominant wasn't very good, the overall feeling was good. During the process, I felt relaxed and happy. Through our prior communication and the tacit understanding between the dominant and dominant, our relationship deepened. The last barrier between us magically disappeared. Even afterwards, he would text me to ask about my romantic encounters and show concern for me. I felt incredibly touched and warm; I could truly feel his care for me.

Professor Ma from Nanjing repeatedly emphasized that this was a "game," a "fun," and that "people who don't have this level of thinking shouldn't exchange these things." He said, "This is for relaxation; it shouldn't break up families."

After discussing cohabitation, Mr. Miao and his wife began looking for a cohabiting partner: "Although the success rate is low, both of us have a more tolerant understanding of sexual behavior, so we are naturally more cautious in our sexual interactions. We will also promptly report our thoughts on sex to our partner. If we were to have sexual relations with single men or women, there would certainly be no conflict, because the other person has a mature view on sexual choices, which would lead to a higher starting point, higher quality, and greater safety. Since the couple is irreplaceable and their sexual views can be communicated, what else is incompatible? Harmony will naturally follow."

The Xingfu Village website once conducted an online survey of cohabiting couples, asking whether they preferred to sleep alone or cuddling together. The results showed that 60% of participants felt comfortable sleeping in each other's arms, 29% felt comfortable sleeping alone, and 11% felt comfortable sleeping either way.

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[Repost] Partner Swapping Couples: Deeper Love, More Pleasurable Sex
Second, promoting conjugal sex practices between couples does not, as many people imagine, destroy their sex life. On the contrary, our respondents generally reported that the quality of their sex life improved and they became more passionate after practicing conjugal sex. Cook said, "After we had a satisfying conjugal experience, the quality of our sex life improved significantly for a while afterward. It felt like we were back in the madness of our courtship days. Sometimes we would do it two or three times before we felt comfortable enough to rest. During the process, we would recall previous experiences, especially the scenes that excited us both. We would confide in each other breathlessly. This would increase our excitement. As this process repeated itself, the memories of old scenes gradually became less exciting. We started looking for partners again, but this time our direction was clearer." One of the greatest pleasures of couples participating in conjugal sex is the frank communication afterward. It is in this communication that the pleasure is highlighted and the "unity" of the couple is revealed. The recollection of each other's subtle emotional stirrings afterward, and the analysis of each other's psychology, are all major sources of enjoyment for those who practice conjugal sex. One interviewee, Bengzi, said that when he and his girlfriend (later his wife) shared a bed, they would still be incredibly excited after everyone else left, reliving the experience with lingering excitement. Xiao Liu said that his wife became much more open after their shared bed arrangement, which made him very happy. After the shared bed arrangement, there were also some changes during sex between Xiao Liu and his wife. Previously, his wife's moans were very soft, but now they are quite loud. Xiao Liu said that his wife is very different in and out of bed. Out of bed, she is quiet and traditional, making him hesitant to approach her. But in bed, Xiao Liu said, "She's a wanton woman who's open to everyone." His wife said to him, "Isn't this exactly what you wanted?" Xiao Liu's view is to enjoy life to the fullest when it's possible. Xiao Liu said, "Now this woman is a more real woman. She stands honestly before me, a woman who doesn't need to hide any desires or secrets." Xiao Liu said he hates insincere women. His evaluation of his wife is: She is a perfect wife. Sexual pleasure between couples can deepen their relationship. It's not something one person directly brings to the other, but rather the pleasure indirectly brought to the other through shared experiences. This can lead to stronger sexual pleasure and, consequently, a deeper emotional bond. Old Mu explained that after he and his wife had sex with another man, "they would both get carried away and have several passionate encounters with him, and the wife would also have several private dates with him." Xiao Bo, one of the interviewees, told me: "Every time we have sex, our relationship and our sex life become more exciting. I don't know what it will feel like if we continue doing this for a long time, but at least now, every time we have sex, we enjoy it very much. While we're doing it, we talk about how it felt before, and fantasize about having sex with someone else. I think we'll continue doing this unless we can't find a suitable partner. Now, I have a special number in my QQ friends list to add couples with similar interests." Here, Xiao Bo's "having sex" refers to his experiences with couples and other people. Bengzi also had sex with a single man, a college student. The student was nervous and not very satisfied. Even after he left, his wife was still very excited, and the couple made love very intensely. "That's right, that's exactly what I wanted," Bengzi said. "That's exactly what I wanted" refers to the stimulating effect of conjugal practices on marital sex.

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