My Views on Marital Sexual Relationships, Part 2

I'm not cuckolded or a cuckold; it's simply because of my age and declining sexual function. Seeing my wife's unsatisfied desires, I've come to understand and want to give her the freedom to pursue and experience sex. Men's bodies begin to decline after 30, and if they indulge in promiscuity, it only exacerbates the problem. Conversely, women's libido enters its peak until around 50. In this skewed situation, if men don't show understanding, the sexually active woman might cheat, causing significant harm to the family.
Here are some examples from my own experience:
A couple in their forties run a jewelry wholesale store. The husband suffers from kidney disease and walks with a hunched back, spending his days at the tea table making tea for customers and haggling over prices. The woman is tall, has a good figure, and is attractive; she's busy every day introducing finished products to customers, and after a sale, she treats them to drinks. Jewelry merchants from all over the country are generally well-off, with good looks and physiques. Women often choose to meet with merchants they find attractive, compatible, and mutually attracted, and they go to hotels together. You could say she's using her looks for business, but the husband tacitly approves. The business is done, money is made, the wife's sexual desires are satisfied, and the family is stable; only the husband's life lacks a significant source of pleasure, but what can he do?
There's another couple, also around forty years old. The husband runs a woodworking factory, and the wife is unemployed. The husband suffers from heart disease, doesn't smoke or drink, and spends his days working at the factory. The wife is often seen with young men at nightclubs and karaoke bars. Everyone knows what's going on, but no one cares or tells her husband what they've seen, trying to sow discord within their family. This is also the husband's fault. You can't control your wife, deny her sex, and forbid her from seeking new sexual partners, can you? If you did, she would definitely cheat, and might even divorce and destroy the family.
There was a female teacher in her early thirties whose husband worked in another city. They had a son, but lived apart, seeing each other only once every few months. The woman had a regular sexual partner, a single fitness instructor. She was very attractive and had a generous demeanor. Upon our first meeting, perhaps to avoid awkwardness, she directly told me: "At my age, I want to have sex every day. My husband isn't around, so I let him be a temporary one." I asked, "How often do you and your wife have sex?" This made me feel awkward. I reminded her that her husband would find out when he returned, to which she replied: "He has sex too, even when he's out of town. We can't just sit there for months." This situation stemmed from the husband's inability to satisfy the woman's sexual needs. The difference was that both husband and wife accepted and tacitly agreed, solely for the sake of the family and children.

Therefore, I want to say: when a husband cannot satisfy his wife, allowing her to seek sexual fulfillment can actually stabilize the family and maintain a harmonious relationship. However, this is contingent on the wife informing her husband before seeking sexual opportunities. Of course, husbands can also proactively help their wives by introducing sexual partners. It's better if the wife is willing to report on the sexual experience at home, but don't force her to. However, constantly remind your wife to be careful, and if there's anything she can't accept, leave immediately.

As for cuckoldry and wife-cuckolding, that's a different mindset for husbands; the real obstacle is often the women.

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