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Basic Etiquette for Couples Making Friends: While there are many forms and methods for couples to interact, some basic etiquette should be encouraged to ensure genuine enjoyment. First, don't fixate on the other person's woman during the initial meeting. Start with small talk and discuss other topics to ease tension. Some people give flowers to the other person's woman; this is acceptable if both parties do it, but inappropriate if only one party does it. The first meeting can be held in a public setting, such as for dinner, drinks, or tea. Alternatively, meeting in a hotel room is also possible, but try to avoid any backing out, as this will create awkwardness for everyone. Second, you have the right to choose whether to continue or end the initial contact. However, when ending the contact, try to be courteous and avoid being too direct; use a reasonable excuse. For example, you could say, "It's nice to meet you, but the schedule is too rushed, and I have other things to do. Let's find another time next time, okay?" or "To make everyone happier, since this is our first meeting, let's arrange another time to meet, okay?" This way, everyone can gracefully back down, and it's basic politeness. Of course, since this isn't a blind date, basic compatibility is fine; don't be too picky. Men are generally better at handling this and are more considerate of the bigger picture, while women are often more persistent. What might seem like a lack of effort might actually be a sign of skill, haha. Third, during couples' social interactions, don't emphasize how powerful, strong, or long-lasting you are—at least not verbally. This comes across as vulgar and detrimental to future interactions. However, things are different when you're alone together. Fourth, don't ask for the other woman's contact information alone. This can easily lead to misunderstandings and other problems. After all, couples' social interactions should be based on mutual respect. Don't try to arrange private dates; this breaks the rules and can negatively impact both of you and your families. The best approach is for both parties to agree on a schedule, with one partner (male) contacting the other (male) or vice versa. This is crucial; couples engaging in friendships should remain just that – couples. Never allow it to escalate into anything else. Fifth, respect your partner's choices during activities. Whatever method is used, it must be acceptable to the other person. Never impose your own methods or ideas on them. Remember this! How to find a suitable partner? Many people may feel that finding a suitable partner is difficult, especially online. I would like to share some of my experience with you. Actually, making friends is very simple: First, be honest and frank. Honesty is the most basic principle of being a person. The internet is a virtual space where everyone can present themselves in a certain way. This is also true in making friends. When you don't know the other person, everyone is careful to protect their own information and hopes to know as much as possible about the other person. This mentality is normal, but it is precisely this mentality that makes it relatively difficult to understand each other and gives people a feeling of dishonesty, making them feel untrustworthy. Therefore, you must overcome this mentality in your interactions and be honest with each other. When you want to know about the other person, you might as well take the initiative to introduce your own situation to them first. Some couples don't even dare to show their faces in video chat. If you want to have a casual relationship, you have to show some sincerity and courage. There is nothing wrong with two couples having a normal video chat, so that they can get to know each other as soon as possible and judge whether the other person is suitable. If they are suitable, they can continue to get to know each other better. Secondly, respect and tolerance are key. Personal interests determine the type of friends one makes. Everyone has different interests and therefore different types of friends. Don't belittle others because of differing interests. Treat every friend with an open mind, whether familiar or unfamiliar, whether they agree with you or disagree with you. Pay attention to your words and actions, and understand the simple principle that respecting others is respecting yourself. It's particularly important to emphasize that many people know to respect the woman in a couple's friendships, but often neglect the other person—the husband. The woman is the center, and the man is the leader. While respecting the woman, it's equally important to respect the husband. This is crucial. Thirdly, understanding and forgiveness are essential. Sometimes, things might happen where plans are made but the couple changes their minds and can't go as planned. Don't always blame the other person. Remember, plans can never keep up with changes. Everyone wants to avoid disrupting their original arrangements, but it's often out of necessity. True friendship isn't fleeting; it's about building long-term, stable, and trustworthy relationships. There will be more opportunities in the future. :) Fourth, abide by the rules. Without rules, there's no order. There are principles to friendship too. Understand and abide by these principles: don't interfere with the other person's family or work, keep secrets, don't exchange personal information online, and don't publicize it. Be a low-key, reliable, and trustworthy partner. Don't make the exchange process too long! Many "exchange friends" (I want to call them "exchange friends," not the "daydreamers" I mentioned in my previous article) may genuinely want to exchange, but they repeatedly video chat and ask questions beforehand. Over time, this becomes exhausting. Exchanging partners isn't about choosing a lover; it's about mutual attraction. After the exchange, go your separate ways, don't interfere with each other, and don't cause trouble. If things go well, a second exchange is possible, but prolonged contact is not advisable. Exchanging partners doesn't require detailed knowledge. Both parties must protect their privacy and not reveal everything. Exchanging partners is, after all, a risky game. Don't expect to get to know each other through lengthy chats. Because couples engaged in online dating are generally employed, have status, and are of good character. Everyone is busy with work and doesn't have much time to chat online like young people. Moreover, most couples in this field have children, further reducing their online time. Therefore, don't waste time chatting. Don't leave the exchange unresolved. Agree is agree, disagree is disagree. Don't wait and see, don't chat and then decide, don't select and then decide. This is disrespectful. And certainly not for casual flings. Online dating requires sincerity. This sincerity is respect, cultivation, taste, and understanding. Don't use foul language, don't be vulgar, don't talk nonsense, and don't attack the other person. Be prepared before contacting anyone for online dating. If you're not prepared, don't post dating ads or chat with people. Are you truly prepared for online dating? If not, please have some self-respect.

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