Inside and outside the circle

Since Li Yinhe, Chinese sexual culture has undergone many changes. Don't be fooled by the lively discussions on forums; the situation is equally vibrant outside of sexual circles.
A few years ago, Huanhuan, an associate professor in Nanjing, was arrested, ruining his reputation. This professor was a typical outsider and a free spirit. Because of the risks involved, many circles are closed, usually consisting of a few fixed couples. Even to add new members, extremely rigorous assessments are required before anyone can participate. Because safety is the most fundamental principle.
The term "circle" might be misunderstood by many, who might think that using apps like Momo or Shake can lead to finding a casual sex partner. In reality, "circle" specifically refers to partner swapping or threesomes, not casual sex in the general sense.
Regarding circles, we will not make judgments, but only provide an explanation. I will briefly share my thoughts with you.
The first type, changing the lap:
From a lifestyle perspective, this circle isn't just comprised of people with comfortable lives indulging in sensual desires; it also includes those who have failed in their entrepreneurial ventures and are seeking intellectual stimulation, as well as those with stable but unfulfilling jobs.
In terms of age, those who start dating in their early twenties often represent an indifferent attitude, not caring about divorce, and almost without exception, they will eventually divorce. This circle primarily consists of middle-aged people (under sixty), most of whom are beginners taking this first step.
Regionally, the highest concentrations are in first- and second-tier cities and developed areas. People in less developed areas may have secret extramarital affairs, but they find it difficult to accept a change of spouse.
The second category is the BDSM community:
I often see people on forums claiming to be masters of BDSM. This is utterly ignorant and laughable. The BDSM community, frankly, is just a lifestyle of extreme wealth and power, a way of living extravagantly. I've had the "absolute privilege" of attending two such events. Ten years ago in a major city, my classmate came from a wealthy and powerful family; they had guards at their gate. It was my first time riding in a Ferrari supercar, and traffic rules were practically meaningless to him. We sped all the way to a riverside villa at the foot of the mountain. Calling it a villa was an understatement; it was more like an estate. There were four security guards at the gate, each a towering giant, over six feet tall. They didn't recognize people by their cards, not even my classmate. She told me then that the annual fee for that card was 400,000 yuan. When I heard that, I thought, "My God, how are we ordinary people supposed to compete like this?"
After showing us our gold cards, the security guard handed us two masks and coldly, almost commandingly, told us never to remove them. We put on the masks and drove the car in. Upon entering the lobby, a thin man approached and guided us to change clothes. It felt like a bathhouse. After changing, we put on our wristbands, walked through the lobby, and entered the back hall. The decor here was more luxurious than a five-star hotel. It was somewhat like a quiet bar. Each booth featured Chinese-style partitions and bamboo groves. It was extremely difficult to see what was inside the bamboo grove. There were seven or eight tall men sitting in the lobby.
We found an empty seat, and the waiter brought two cups of tea, casually pressing a switch on the partition. A beam of yellow light instantly illuminated the room, indicating a new customer had arrived. My classmate whispered to me, "Here, you can invite any lady you like, including the long-legged woman at the door, or any lady a customer brings. If they agree, they'll come upstairs with you. Upstairs, you can freely watch any couple or group playing games. Of course, they're all people you can't mess with; you're basically not qualified to participate. Besides, you're a newbie; even if you were allowed to participate, you wouldn't understand, and it would be embarrassing. So, just watch and enjoy, and give a thumbs up." Oh my, that made my heart pound! My classmate said, "Come on, let's go upstairs and take a look, so you don't end up clueless." She then led me up to the second floor.
The second floor wasn't a corridor, but a square hall surrounded by rooms. None of the rooms had doors. The hall was dimly lit; except for the rooms without guests which were dark, each room was illuminated by multiple spotlights. Standing in the hall and looking around, it was like watching live pornographic scenes unfold. It was impossible not to feel a surge of excitement.
I entered a combat room where three men and one woman were engaging in a game of "training." To be honest, I don't like this kind of SM game, even though it looked quite exciting. My classmate kept giving me thumbs up in admiration. I stupidly gave him a thumbs up too.
Amidst the sounds of "ah ah ah" and "pa pa pa," we entered another room. It was bustling here; four men and two women were engaged in passionate lovemaking. The two women were screaming and groaning, while the four men, busy with their own activities, paid no attention to us two onlookers.
After walking around, I had a general idea of what to expect. Downstairs was a place for drinking tea and chatting; if you felt comfortable, you could go upstairs together. Upstairs, everyone could enjoy themselves to the fullest, without any sense of shame or restraint. I heard there were also private rooms on the third floor and in the backyard, but I didn't go and don't know what they were like.
This circle is exclusively for the wealthy and powerful. The long-legged women at the entrance are for public use. They are typical lower-class women addicted to luxury, becoming staff members of the club. People think they are cheap, even worse than escorts, but in reality, one of them earns more than ten escorts. They don't want to leave.
Think about it, how can an ordinary person afford to go to a place like this? Therefore, the best approach for ordinary people is to establish a closed circle with a limited number of participants, and to plan each activity in advance.
Now there's a problem: illegal and criminal activity. Some forum members frequently post information offering paid services by their wives. Be careful. First, the person posting this information might not be reliable; it's highly likely a phishing scam. Second, if caught providing paid services, detention and fines are inevitable. Making money isn't difficult, but never use sex for profit. As a side note, how about a matchmaker fee? At least give everyone a substantial sum.
Also, engaging in group sex, whether it's one-on-one or in groups of three, is a criminal offense. You'll need to do your homework on arranging the time, place, and acquaintances.

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