For male massage therapists at reputable massage parlors, or husbands looking to hire a male massage therapist to "train" their wives, here's a super effective conversation starter.

In 2014, I met a traditional Chinese medicine massage therapist (hereinafter referred to as C, a very legitimate TCM massage therapist). I was 28 years old at the time, and he was 20 years older than me, married, and his son was only four years younger than me. Although he was not good-looking, he had dark skin, muscles, and a high body temperature. He exuded heat, had a deep and magnetic voice, and his scent (pheromones) was incredibly sexy. Moreover, on my first visit, he dared to put his hand inside my bra. At the time, I forcibly controlled myself from being attracted, but after returning home, I couldn't help but feel my heart pounding wildly. I felt like my head was about to explode, and there was a throbbing pain behind my left ear. That feeling of extreme excitement is still unprecedented to this day (╥_╥). For various reasons (mainly because I wasn't mentally prepared, I was afraid I'd fall too hard if I liked him too much, and I hadn't been in that city much in 2015 and 2016), I didn't go to see him again for two years. In the following two years, I went about ten times on and off. Each time, he would just touch me but wouldn't actually penetrate me. In early 2018, after we added each other on WeChat, I finally couldn't resist confessing first, and he finally had sex with me (unfortunately, this wasn't the kind of story where you're sexually assaulted while being touched (／_＼)). I was furious—damn it, he was the one who dared to sexually harass me on the first visit, but in the end, it's like I was the one who initiated it!! ＼(`δ')／ I wish he would just rape me! (? ? ??) So, for a while in 2019, I frequently went to other massage parlors (not many times, I guess I achieved my goal or maybe I gave up? After that, I lost the motivation to go again, more details later), just wanting to be fucked without being asked, as if only in this way could I prove my charm, prove that he was too cowardly, not that I wasn't charming enough??? With this goal in mind, I went to five or six parlors, about six or seven times in total. Sometimes I was assigned a female masseuse, and sometimes the male masseuses were really not my type, I didn't even want to be touched by them, but I was too embarrassed to say "get me a more handsome one", so I could only say "let's get a female masseuse instead" lol. The remaining four massage parlors that gave me massages... Three of the male masseuses had sex with me on the spot the first time, but they all asked me something like "Do you want it?" first (╯‵□′)╯︵┴─┴ Although I didn't achieve my goal of "being fucked without being asked," I did achieve my goal of "being fucked on the spot in the store by a male masseur I met for the first time," and I did it three times. The main thing is that after a few times, I realized that the reason I was excited by these young masseuses was only because of the situation/scene (being molested and raped by a male masseur in a massage parlor), not because of them. I never wanted to have sex with them a second time, and I immediately felt depressed and bored afterward (???) The other masseuses were nothing compared to the one I'd been dreaming about for years, so I didn't want to try again. Later, I chatted a lot with one of the technicians on WeChat. He said there had been cases where female customers had been raped and then tried to extort money from the police. He was afraid of being complained about or sued, so he didn't dare not ask first. Okay, there are ways to ask with higher emotional intelligence, without spoiling the mood, and even adding some fun! This is what I imagined C would say to me on my first visit (after a normal massage of about half an hour): "You have nodules in your breasts, let me massage them open for you?" After a while, seeing my face turn red… "You have pelvic congestion, let me massage it to improve blood circulation?" ----! Pay attention!!! Did everyone learn this? The reason girls don't want to admit they "want" something is twofold. First, they don't want to be seen as desperately wanting to be fucked on the first date. As a guy, you have to give her a way out and save face. Second, it's not just about being reserved or pretending to be serious; many guys are also afraid of liking the other person more than they like them—it's a form of self-protection. Although I'm obsessed with C, I still don't want to cross that psychological barrier (maybe it's precisely because I like it so much that I'm afraid). If I answer "yes" to the question "Do you want it?", it immediately becomes a friends-with-benefits relationship, and that qualitative change triggers an alarm in my brain. Report. But if you're asked, "You have pelvic congestion, let me massage it to improve the blood circulation?" and you answer "Mmm," then it's still a massage therapist and customer relationship, theoretically not crossing any boundaries, which feels much more relaxed. And this is more erotic than "Do you want it?", more like a line from a Japanese adult film, more exciting, isn't it? (??ω??) Husbands who want to "train" their wives can tell their wives to find a legitimate in-home massage, and then have the male masseur they find say these two sentences~ If your wife is particularly conservative, you should proceed slowly, have a completely legitimate massage the first few times, and after a few times, when the atmosphere is right, then say these two sentences. This way, your wife's psychological pressure will be much less :)

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