Lessons learned: A less-than-successful attempt at couples' sexual development – still in progress

I met a guy on the 69 forum. He said he really wanted to see what his wife was like under another man. He always thought his wife was very horny, agreeing to anything during orgasms. He encouraged her to go out and find someone, and even helped her look, but without success. Several men he recommended were deleted. I thought I'd just chat with him and see what happens; since he was so honest, I figured I should give it a try. Turns out I underestimated the difficulty.

Here's a reminder for anyone wanting to "develop" their wife: how to introduce a single man is crucial. A good start is half the battle. In other words, a bad start basically determines the outcome.

Based on my own experience and many posts from experienced forum members, a very important factor in a wife's willingness to go out with her husband is: she trusts him, and she's curious!

So, the husband's role in this process is extremely important. And I happened to encounter a guy who completely ignored me.

He immediately gave me his WeChat ID and told me to add him myself, repeatedly instructing me not to say he gave it to me. That made things difficult; how could I explain where I got the WeChat ID? My brother insisted that the person his wife had deleted from his contacts had given me their WeChat. I said that wasn't a good idea; if someone deleted you, they must not like you. I suggested he arrange a meal for us first, saying we were old friends and hadn't seen each other in a while, and then I could casually add them on WeChat. My brother disagreed. Finally, I had no choice but to add them anyway. As expected, my sister-in-law immediately and sternly asked where I got the WeChat. I explained it according to my brother's reasoning. Of course, she wasn't happy; I'd been added on WeChat by a stranger out of the blue. Did she know me or not?

We chatted like this for two or three days, starting with casual conversations about daily life, kids, and work. One weekend, when people are usually more relaxed, we used drinking as an excuse to talk about some more explicit topics, like sharing my past sexual experiences with older women. This finally lowered her guard a bit. She started discussing things like duration and weapon length. But... Much of it is just talk. Because of the unclear status of our relationship, it's very difficult to progress to the next step of meeting in person.

It's been over ten days now. My husband keeps saying that my wife is greedy and that I can send her red envelopes (cash gifts). I've been sending them every day to try and make progress. I've also suggested having dinner together again. My wife still refuses. I feel like we've really hit a roadblock. Unless some special external event happens that can trigger her emotions, it's hard to take things any further using the current methods. I've also communicated with my husband repeatedly, but without any useful response. I truly feel the helplessness of being raised as if I were a single parent. I feel like a huge, resentful person.

So, I've summarized a few lessons learned:
1. If a husband wants his wife to accept going out with him, he must play his role in guiding her. At least be there for her, so she feels that her husband is doing it for her happiness, and she won't feel guilty. Otherwise, the wife will have a lot of psychological burden and won't make any progress.
2. Unless you want to cultivate your wife to have no interest in you at all, to the point of having an affair. But that's pointless. It's a complete family crisis. I don't recommend doing this for single men either; it will cause problems.
3. Under normal circumstances, most women have relatively sound values and are almost impossible to be easily molded into a submissive type. We're not going out to destroy someone's mental and emotional well-being. Therefore, when going out, cooperation between husband and wife is crucial. Single men are more of a supportive role and can enhance the experience. Regardless of the circumstances, a responsible and reliable man is always the most desirable.

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