Sex is a language, and also a psychological resonance.

On websites, many people focus on describing the stimulation and psychological climax of sex. The stimulation of sex certainly attracts us. However, the key to this game must be psychological; it's achieved through the psychological resonance between both men and women.

Beyond the initial stimulation, all subsequent sexual actions serve the psychological purpose. For many couples, if psychological resonance cannot be achieved, all your attempts will fail, and your relationship will ultimately break down. Therefore, both men and women need to pay attention to their own and their partner's psychology and proactively engage in psychological communication.

Letting your partner know what you're thinking is more important than forcing them to follow your lead. All sexual techniques are secondary and will naturally follow after effective communication.

For example: men enjoy women being promiscuous in bed, but women are generally reserved. This requires men to guide them gradually. So, how would you do that? If your partner doesn't like you calling her "bitch" or other humiliating terms, what would you do? Begging is a foolish approach because it only changes her behavior temporarily. You need to help her understand your feelings. For example, like this:

Husband: Honey, you're such a bitch, so cheap, it feels so good to fuck you.
Wife: I like that word, it feels so humiliating. Husband
: Actually, "bitch" is the highest compliment a woman can receive in bed.
Wife...
Husband: You women rarely take the initiative in bed, you're always guided by men, right?
Wife: Yes.
Husband: Okay, then, men easily enter a "courtship" state. For example, you often say men are perverts, perverts represent that we've entered a "courtship" state. But you women can't do that, women often have to be guided by men to enter this state. Right? (Women rarely directly show their lust)
Wife: Yes, that's why I don't like the term "bitch," it feels so shameful.
Husband: Yes, but you have to understand. The word "bitch" inherently represents a shift in a woman's identity. When you admit you're a "bitch," it means you've entered a "sexual" state. In bed, men don't need to prove they're perverts, because that's generally accepted. But women need to prove they're bitches. When you acknowledge this, it means we're on the same wavelength and have entered a state of sexual intimacy. In other words, you're ready to accept my advances.
Husband: You women think men are perverts, but you're unwilling to admit you're bitches. Perverts and bitches are a pair. I want you to be slutty and wanton in bed because I am too. Your slutty and wanton behavior means we're on the same wavelength. So, all this language is to guide your psychology, to get you into a "sexual" state like me. After all, you can't directly enter that state yourself, right?

The basis of guidance is bringing both of you to the same level, achieving behavioral guidance through psychological interaction. Don't say things like, "Honey, I like you to be a little slutty, so please satisfy me this once." It's supposed to be a mutual enjoyment, but saying that makes it seem like your wife is sacrificing herself just to satisfy you. It makes her subconsciously think that what she's doing is wrong, and that she's only willing to suffer for you. This will inevitably lead to problems sooner or later. It won't last.

After playing around a lot, you need to understand each other's psychology. Find your common interests, and then guide her little by little. Of course, many times the other person won't know what they need or what aligns with their interests and goals. This requires you to gradually develop the relationship.

I'm not just talking about men, but also women. Sexual activity initially depends on the man, but ultimately on the woman. This is a very interesting concept. The man needs to establish empathy and provide the woman with a sense of security to guide the relationship and get her to follow. During this process, it's even more important to cultivate the woman's sexual empathy. Psychologically speaking, once the woman has a certain level of sexual empathy, your relationship enters a new phase.

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