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We live apart, so I'm finding a few long-term, stable single men for my wife (my original QQ account has been banned again). 

I recently changed my QQ contact information. Yesterday, I created a group chat with a guy I get along with and my wife. I think I posted two explicit pictures in the group, and shortly after, my account was restricted from logging in for 7 days.
This post is mainly to inform the brothers who added me in the past few days that I've suddenly lost contact, and I'm afraid you'll worry or think I'm unreliable. I've temporarily changed my QQ, so please add me again if you've added me in the past few days. I'm really sorry! Or you can add me as a friend on the forum to avoid similar situations in the future. I've been on
holiday these past few days and have been relatively free, so I've been chatting with most of the friends who added me. I've already discussed finding single men for my wife in detail in a previous post; if you haven't seen it, you can check it out. Here, I'm just adding some additional information.
First, there's a limit on the number. Because we're currently living apart in different cities, which might be for a long time, perhaps a year or more, I'm looking for single men for my wife who can be stable long-term. I'm not considering men from the same city; men from neighboring cities are preferred. There will be a limit on the number (3-5 people), and the deadline will be when the limit is reached. "Long-term and stable" means that if things go well, we can arrange to meet up with my wife whenever we have time. Since not everyone in our group of three to five people will have time every month, I hope my wife can have 2-3 opportunities to meet with single men each month. This will satisfy her needs and alleviate my own cuckoldry tendencies. It's a way to add variety to our long-distance relationship; it doesn't need to be too frequent. This is just a diversion, not the main purpose. After we get to know each other better, we can even meet up with two single men at the same time. Of course, there will be a selection process. For example, if she doesn't feel comfortable with a particular encounter, or if a friend's behavior makes her uncomfortable, we naturally won't meet up with them again.
Secondly, regarding my video participation: As mentioned in the previous post, this is the premise for my wife and me playing this game. My wife agreed to these single meetings because of my own desire. Therefore, when my time allows, I will participate via video throughout. Even if I can't participate in person, I will participate via video or voice recording. Some friends might worry about privacy. Put yourself in my shoes; wouldn't I be even more worried than you?! It's my own wife, my own house—why would I want others to know about it? Therefore, please think carefully before adding me. If you cannot accept this, please do not add me.
Third, regarding the time and content of the activity. Normally, my wife is more available during the day, and evenings are also possible, but overnight stays are not allowed, at least not now. As mentioned earlier, those who can meet in person are usually from other cities, and I certainly won't make you travel a long way and not have a satisfying experience. If time permits, two times is normal, and if you are in good health, three times is fine too, provided she is comfortable and her physical condition is not problematic. If she is comfortable, she will naturally want more, and I also hope that her physical needs can be fully satisfied when I am not home.
Fourth, boundaries. During this activity, because I will be choosing long-term single men, and I am in another city, I am not always available. Therefore, for future convenience, I may allow you to add my wife's contact information before the meeting or after things have gone well. However, I hope that your contact with her will be limited to normal communication. This game has rules: physical intimacy is allowed, but please do not intrude into personal life or emotions. If you cannot do this, or if you say or do anything that we cannot condone, you will be asked to leave immediately.
Fifth, I want to emphasize the financial requirements. It's not about my wife selling herself. To clarify the financial requirements, we want the meeting to be at our own apartment (not our usual place; we have another duplex). This is for safety and privacy, and also for my wife's peace of mind and home environment. I believe this is a good thing for everyone. We operate this apartment as a guesthouse. Yantai is a tourist city, and although the income is small, it brings us some daily income. No matter where we go, we have to pay for the hotel room, right? My wife is taking time to accompany you and giving up her own apartment for you. While we enjoy the experience, it's not about us paying for it ourselves. As for meals and small gifts, that's up to you. We don't have any requirements for those, but building mutual goodwill isn't just about words. So, we're only asking you to pay for the room, nothing more. Please refer to the pricing standards for mid-to-high-end hotels; this is one criterion for selection. I believe that economic foundation determines the superstructure. If you can't even afford a few hundred yuan for a room, it's better not to add anything and instead focus your time and energy on making money.
As for the rest, mutual respect, being able to chat, good physical condition and skills are all things I've already mentioned a lot. I hope to find great friends, to enjoy each other's company, to have fun together, and to cherish each other!

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