What kind of person are you searching for, deep down?

Everyone comes here with one purpose or another. As my friend DD said, no matter what, please face your own needs.

I didn't actually know this at first, so I created a group, even though I always get criticized by some single men. The threshold is a bit high, so I understand the criticism; I just laugh it off.

The group was originally named "All Living Beings," which originated from my QQ signature. Later, it was renamed "Utopia." As a pseudo-intellectual and slightly obsessive-compulsive group owner, I've adhered to the initial rules for the past month: couples must have experience, and single men must have at least a bachelor's degree. Utopia is, after all, a dreamland, but since it's a "universe," there are naturally many kinds. In other words, there are many styles. I try my best to be inclusive and accommodate various styles, but things have their limits, so this group ultimately reflects my strong personal style.

I've kicked out group members, but so far only single men. I hope my friends can be open-minded, positive, optimistic, and proactive. The single man who was kicked out remained silent for 20 days. First, this wasn't what I wanted. Second, and more importantly, I don't think this is what anyone else wanted. So, that's how it ended.

I even bid farewell to a couple who left simply because their needs didn't match. The husband was around 55, while the average age in the group was around 30-45. The 55-year age gap seemed too large to them, so we all waved goodbye amicably. I secretly grumbled at a couple who had asked me twice if I had any recommendations. I answered yes each time, but I wouldn't recommend them. My only principle for recommendations is that I've met them in person and feel they're compatible. This couple, who hadn't met me, were disappointed. They probably thought I was too stubborn and stormed off the group.

I also openly grumbled at another couple, the "Falling Flowers and Flowing Water" couple. Although I still don't understand why, I can only laugh at myself—maybe it was a personality clash. They thought I was harsh. I thought they were too eccentric. Anyway, it's all recorded in the group; right and wrong are judged, and people will know.

However, I later summarized my general style—the style that can be expressed. Having been immersed in a thousand years of culture, I might be a bit flamboyant, but also relatively reserved. Therefore, organizing uninhibited group activities right from the start is beyond my capabilities. However, if it's just about reciting poetry, what's the point of creating this group? So, to those who have been lurking in the group, if you're hoping for uninhibited activities or simply poetry, I'm sorry, this isn't for you. In my experience, other people's activities are certainly physically exciting and stimulating, but something always feels missing psychologically. My ultimate goal is for both physical and mental relaxation and satisfaction after the activity. Some straightforward people can achieve this by starting right away. But unfortunately, I can't do that. That's why I organize activities in special villas, providing KTV, billiards, mahjong, and other party equipment, hoping to ease everyone's tension and build rapport. When designing games, I sometimes deliberately slow down the pace, allowing everyone to gradually warm up and enjoy the process.

The 27th is a significant day. Firstly, it commemorates the failure of my first group event planning; secondly, it marks the first time I've found the style I wanted. Regarding privacy, I won't go into details, but I thank 69 and the friends in the group, as evidenced by the photos in my album.

I am friendly, tolerant, and open-minded, and I hope to accept friends with similar styles. Perhaps one day, when there are many friends with the same style here, I will update the group name again to Eden. I'm about to embark on a long journey, and perhaps I won't be able to see everyone I get along with in the group, but Eden will remain in my heart, and I will often come back to visit everyone, and I will still frequently visit 69.

If any couples or single men would like to participate in the event, please contact me. The requirements remain the same: couples must be experienced, and single men must have at least a bachelor's degree. Actually, there's another implicit condition: if you find my writing sentimental or uncomfortable, then please don't contact me. If we're not on the same wavelength, there's no point in being together. Wishing everyone happiness and fulfillment.

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