Looking for friends

Sometimes, I just want to cry my heart out because I feel so stifled. Sometimes, I just want to go crazy because I'm feeling down. Sometimes, I just want to swear because I'm so annoyed. Sometimes, I just want some peace and quiet because I'm truly exhausted. I'm increasingly unsure of what I'm pursuing. Perhaps the monotony of life has numbed me. Am I actually yearning for new friends, new partners, friends I can speak freely with? What a luxurious wish! Who can let you confide in them without reservation when you're lonely and down? Have you ever tried, in the dead of night, suddenly feeling incredibly tired, exhausted, lonely, and wanting to talk to someone? Perhaps you're popular, you know many people, and you have many good relationships with them, but even with your family members you spend every day with, or even your closest lover, you can't necessarily talk to them whenever you want, say whatever you want, without worrying about being impolite, without feeling guilty, without fear of being ignored or scolded. In the vast sea of people, amidst the bustling world, our contact lists contain dozens, even hundreds, of names, and hundreds, even thousands, of familiar faces. Sometimes, as we open our phones and scroll through the names, how many people truly give us peace of mind, a sense of security to reach out to, a place where we can speak freely anytime, anywhere? We are becoming increasingly less authentic, increasingly unable to find authenticity, increasingly afraid to express it. Our hearts, our once transparent, crystal-clear, most authentic hearts—where can we find them now? Love should be about sharing everything, about depending on each other for survival; it should be about feeling solitude even in loneliness, about knowing the road ahead is long and arduous, yet still being grateful to walk it together… I don't know if it's because I've grown up, but I've started to follow the principle of "being low-key in life, but high-profile in work," doing everything quietly. Life is like a giant funnel before us. When we're young, we meet many people, have many things to say, and are uninhibited. Today we might talk endlessly with one friend, tomorrow we might chat with another until we forget the time, even if it's a story we made up, we can still talk about it with great interest. However, as we get older, we gradually find that fewer and fewer people are willing to listen to us or talk to us, and sometimes these things even become a luxury. At this point, we may only have one close friend who can listen to us when we are lonely, or we may have none at all.

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