The 12 men who slept with me over the years

The first boyfriend was someone I met through a friend around 2012. We knew each other for a few months, and I lost my virginity to him. But he broke up with me not long after we got together.

The second man I had sex with was someone I met on a hookup website in 2012. I had broken up with my boyfriend about six months prior and hadn't had sex in a long time. I met up with a guy who was probably in his 30s and in the military. Unfortunately, he wasn't as good as people think; his penis was very small, and he ejaculated before I even felt anything. He did help me with his hand, making me quite wet, but a hand can't compare to the pleasure of a penis. And then, that was it.

The third one, also in December 2012, was on a hookup website. After meeting the first guy, he wasn't satisfied, so the next night I met another guy. He wasn't very handsome, a bit chubby and effeminate. I regretted it; he wasn't my type. Then he asked if I had eaten, and I said I had. He suggested we go to a hotel, and I said okay. We went to a hotel, and then we had sex. It hurt a lot because, although I wasn't a virgin anymore, it had been a long time since I'd had sex. The guy's penis was a bit thick. He asked, "Are you a virgin?" I wouldn't dare go to a virgin, so I said, "No, go ahead." Then we had sex several times, I can't remember exactly how many, but we'd rest when we got tired and then continue. In the end, I only remember the guy saying, "You're too horny! We've used up a whole box of condoms, we can't do it anymore." It was embarrassing. In the morning, when it was time to leave, I grabbed him and asked him to have sex with me without a condom one more time. I guess the guy was devastated. Anyway, we never contacted each other again.

Fourthly, in 2013, because I was heartbroken and spent the Spring Festival in the city where my ex-boyfriend lived, I returned to my hometown's provincial capital to work. I hadn't had sex in a long time and really wanted to. I was bored and searched for people nearby, and chatted with someone for about half a month before arranging to meet. The guy wasn't handsome and was around 30 years old. After meeting, we went straight to a hotel. When we entered the room, he grabbed me and said I was very beautiful, saying he didn't expect me to be so beautiful. Then he kissed me and took off my clothes. I guess it had been a long time since I had sex, and his arousal got me excited. So we took a shower and had sex. The guy was very skilled and it felt very good. I think it lasted for more than half an hour before he ejaculated. Later, we met up three or four more times. The last two times, he didn't want to wear a condom and asked me to take a pill. I thought taking a pill was bad for girls, so I didn't contact him. Then he harassed me for half a year, constantly calling me. After about three months, because I missed him and wanted to have sex with him, I met him again and went to a hotel. He didn't buy a condom and wanted to have sex with me, but I didn't let him. After that, we didn't contact each other.

Fifth, in 2013, I met a client at work. We met twice, but my penis was small, so I didn't feel anything special.

Sixth, also in 2013, I met someone through WeChat's "People Nearby" feature. We lived in the same neighborhood, but the guy was quite handsome, around 25 or 26. We maintained a relationship for a few months, basically having sex once a month. He had a girlfriend and I felt guilty, so we stopped contacting each other. Later, I saw him having dinner with his girlfriend, but I just smiled and didn't say hello.

Seventh, we met in the spring of 2014. He had added me on WeChat a long time ago and sent me photos, but I didn't think he was handsome, and I was over 30, so I didn't ask him out. During a casual chat, I mentioned I had a cold, and he offered to buy me medicine. He delivered it to my apartment building in less than half an hour, which touched me. Then he suggested we go out for dinner, and I agreed. After dinner, he asked if I wanted to come to his place, which was upstairs. I went up. His company apartment was supposed to have other colleagues, but none of them were there, so he was alone. We chatted, and he said, "Don't leave tonight, stay here," and I agreed. That night, we had sex. I really liked this person, not in a romantic way, but more of a physical dependence. He seemed to understand women very well, so I felt very comfortable with him. He never forced me and was always considerate of my feelings. I lived a five-minute walk from his place, so I often stayed there overnight, maybe two or three times a week. By then, I had been with a few men, but I was still curious about everything. I told him I wanted adult toys, and he bought them for me the next day. He showed me many positions, like moving from one bedroom to another. He would say a lot of sweet nothings, even though I knew they were fake, but I enjoyed it very much. Often, just as I was getting ready for work, he would drag me into the living room and have sex with me—it was very exciting and pleasurable. We also had sex on the balcony without drawing the curtains (I don't know if anyone saw this). We even had video chat sex with other people. Later, his company moved, and his place was farther away, so we lost contact. Actually, I was afraid of developing feelings because it was impossible, so I deleted him on WeChat and blocked his contact information.

The eighth one was when I was lonely for a while and wanted to hook up, but I felt that people nearby weren't sincere. After chatting for a long time, I was afraid I was a scammer and didn't dare to ask. I don't know why, but out of curiosity, I thought about being a "prostitute" once. I originally wanted to go to a nearby bar or KTV... I've never been to bars or karaoke much, so I was a bit scared. I met a guy in a QQ group, and we chatted for several days. He seemed polite and not a bad person. He asked me how much I wanted, but I didn't know. I suggested we meet up first. On the day we agreed, he booked a room near my office and picked me up for dinner. It was quite awkward. The room wasn't in a hotel, but in a residential building. He said it would avoid room checks. I was quite disappointed. His penis was small, really small, or maybe mine was too big. I didn't feel much during penetration, but he still had sex with me a few times. He gave me 1000 yuan before leaving in the morning. A month later, he asked me out again, and the process was the same; he gave me another 1000 yuan. I then blocked him because I was afraid I'd become addicted. Money is too easy to earn, and I was afraid I'd develop a habit of spending money recklessly, which isn't what I want. I usually only earn a little over 2000 yuan a month, and that guy's salary was supposedly only around 3000 yuan. After that, I blocked him and never contacted him again.

The ninth one (I won't describe him) is my current boyfriend.

The tenth one is a friend of my boyfriend. My boyfriend took me on a business trip to another city... I won't go into details, in case my boyfriend sees this, it wouldn't be good. But the experience was pretty good, very exciting. Later, that guy even came to my city to text me, saying he wasn't satisfied that day and wanted to meet up again. I didn't agree, because I felt it wasn't appropriate since I have a boyfriend, and he's a friend of a friend of my boyfriend's, and he also has a family. We haven't been in contact since. Now, I occasionally like this post (

the 11th one). For a while, I was arguing with my boyfriend and always felt he was cheating. I didn't touch him for over a month, so I met a guy online. He was in his 30s and married. We had sex, but his penis wasn't big. I don't know why, but after a while, I didn't want it anymore. Usually... I've never had this with my boyfriend. Every time he teases me, I want it. But I don't know why, that time we had sex and I suddenly didn't want it anymore. We had sex once, and after he ejaculated, I got dressed and went home.

My 12th boyfriend cheated on me, and I've always been bothered by it. I took advantage of a company holiday and thought I'd go out to clear my head. I originally wanted to find a guy to have some fun with for a few days, but nowadays everyone is afraid I'm a scammer or a honey trap. I went out alone, and one night I used WeChat's "People Nearby" feature to meet several people, but they were all afraid I was a scammer. Later, a guy agreed to come out. He was from Sichuan, and he was not only ugly but also dishonest. As soon as he entered the house... I wanted to have sex, but I didn't flirt. He thought I was alright, but during sex he didn't want to use a condom. I told him to put it on halfway, and he secretly took it off. Luckily, I didn't get pregnant. We had sex once, and then he left.

(Laughs) That's all. Finally finished writing. Actually, I felt the seventh guy was the most compatible when we hooked up. I liked him in every way. Don't ask why we haven't been in contact. I think hookups are just hookups; they won't be long-term relationships. The worst was the last one; his character was terrible. I'm not a writer; these are all my honest feelings. I wrote this because I'm afraid I'll forget them over time. Thank you to those who helped me go from a girl to a woman.

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