Answers to women's perplexing sex questions

Although we're together every day, there are always questions I want to ask but often swallow back. Maybe it's because I'm embarrassed, or maybe I'm afraid he'll think I'm ignorant... But these questions are constantly swirling in my mind. Understanding his true thoughts is essential for our relationship to become more transparent and sweeter!
I. Are "Big Boobs" Really Invincible to Men?
Answer:
1935 was a historic year. That year, Warner Bros. pioneered bra sizes from A to D, becoming the global standard for bra sizes. Since then, our enthusiasm for numbers has transformed into an obsession with English letters. A is no longer prestigious; C and D are better, aiming to lower the grade but increase the cup size.
The current breast augmentation craze is certainly nothing new. When women make the decision to augment their breasts, what are the underlying reasons? Is it because Freud said men are most attached to breasts, because of social pressure—"If others are big, I'll be big too"?
Or do women feel they can gain pleasure through enhancement?
If a woman considers breast augmentation, in her imagination, it's all about gaining male favor, as if men were born for breasts. But do men really love large breasts?
90% of women believe that men absolutely adore breasts, especially full ones. However, in a survey of 50 men, 40% said they disliked women with large breasts, 30% were neutral, and only 10% said they liked them. Many men even think that large breasts are ugly, too conspicuous, and out of fashion. Therefore, the idea that men definitely love large breasts seems inaccurate, and pursuing breast augmentation based on this misconception seems unwise.
Talking about this with male friends, we found that their opinions were largely similar: a well-proportioned figure is good for women. Being too full or flat-chested is certainly not visually appealing. But full breasts certainly look healthier and more feminine than flat breasts.
However, they believe that the most important thing for a girl is her appearance and how she presents herself. If a boy truly likes a girl, he won't care whether her breasts are big or small. He certainly wouldn't pursue a girl just because she has large breasts.
There's even a rumor that women with flat chests are better in bed. In terms of body shape, the most important thing is still a balanced figure. However, men also say that if a woman gets breast augmentation for her partner, as long as the surgery is safe and doesn't harm her health, they find such a woman very cute and touching. It's like men going to the gym—they want to attract women or make their girlfriends happier.
Nowadays, there are no taboos in male-female interactions, and with increasing social pressure and a fast-paced culture, there's a growing lack of emotional connection in relationships. Some women, after breaking up with their boyfriends, believe the man disliked their figure or wasn't pretty enough, and thus unilaterally try to improve their appearance. A good figure is certainly a basic element for attracting men, but if you're only getting breast augmentation to please your partner, I hope you'll think more carefully.
Ultimately, it's your own body. If a man likes you, he'll like you even if you have a flat chest. Happiness in life comes more from inner understanding and gratitude than from having a good figure.
II. Oh my god! He actually longs for "multiplayer games"?
Answer:
I often hear male friends say that they think multiplayer games, usually referring to 3P or 4P, must be very exciting, but because their girlfriends wouldn't allow it, they can only fantasize about it.
Women disagree with this, primarily because they believe he doesn't love them. Otherwise, why would he want others involved during their most intimate and intimate moments? Recently, some couples in South Korea were investigated by the police for running brothels. Because there were no relevant legal provisions, they didn't know how to handle the situation.
When questioned about the men's psychology, it was found that some men were completely uninterested in it, disliked it, and considered it dirty. Most were just curious and had no intention of putting it into practice. After all, people's fantasies are sometimes uncontrollable, running wild and unrestrained, and have nothing to do with feelings. It's unnecessary to get angry just because your loved one has such fantasies.
However, a small minority do enjoy it. As some online surveys have shown, some people like to organize 3P or 4P activities with a few people, or invite friends, girlfriends, or lovers. The most common reason is boredom with normal sexual activity and a desire for change, seeking sensory stimulation to release pent-up desires.
Psychologically, it's about wanting different experiences through sexual stimulation to satisfy sexual fantasies. Some people even enjoy a promiscuous atmosphere, finding it stimulating and exciting. For example, someone who aspires to have two queens says, "I like experiencing different stimuli simultaneously. Experiencing the pleasure of sex between two different styles is like adding ice to red wine—different liquids, but when combined, they create endless pleasure." Of course
, such activities, besides stimulation, lack emotional exchange, causing desire to degenerate into mere physiological needs, leading to a loss of faith, the disappearance of ideals, and a lowering of the level of needs. The result of seeking stimulation is only a slight sensory stimulation. Furthermore, the exchange of various bodily fluids can lead to autonomic nervous system disorders. Even with condoms, continued behavior will numb the senses; after all, sexual activity is merely the release of desire. Humans still need rich and multi-layered spiritual entertainment and a fulfilling life.
III. Does his fondness for watching porn indicate a psychological problem?
Answer:
Not every man enjoys watching porn, but many men certainly do. What drives these men to stay up late every night, frantically downloading large amounts of pornographic images and videos? What are they hoping to gain?
Among my friends, some don't buy or download porn.
There are generally two reasons: one, they find porn lacking in plot and extremely boring; two, they don't enjoy watching such things to stimulate themselves when alone at home. But for those who download in large quantities, some feel that watching it stimulates their imagination, especially since there are now various types of films, the content of which is difficult to achieve in daily life; some believe that men enjoy watching porn because every man has a subconscious tendency towards sadomasochism, and watching porn is an extension of this tendency, satisfying it to some extent.
Others say that men desire to have sex with different women, the more the better, but reality doesn't allow it, so they fantasize about being the male protagonist in a movie.
Still others like to watch it while having sex with their girlfriends, adding excitement and spice to their otherwise mundane sex life. Men enjoy watching porn. Some prefer Japanese porn because the physiques of Japanese people are similar to those of Chinese people, creating a sense of familiarity and connection to real-life experiences, making it easier to become aroused. Many others prefer Western porn because it emphasizes atmosphere and ambiance, including the actors, resulting in a more aesthetically pleasing film. In fact, both men and women enjoy this type of
porn. Some believe that Western porn makes sex seem beautiful and desirable, inspiring men to desire similar experiences. Another reason is curiosity about others' sexuality, leading people to seek out different techniques to enrich their own experience.
China has historically lagged behind in sex education, and sexuality remains relatively repressed. Porn, as a non-realistic visual medium, offers numerous uses, whether for releasing desires or enriching one's experience. Therefore, enjoying porn is actually a very common and normal thing.
IV. How much does he care about my orgasms?
Answer:
Many men, after sex, like to ask their girlfriends, "Did you orgasm? How many times did you orgasm?" Some men even try to prolong their time, only releasing themselves after their girlfriends are satisfied or have reached orgasm. They believe that only by bringing satisfaction to women can they truly feel fulfilled. It's a case of "your happiness is my happiness."
Ask your friends for their opinions. Some say, "Men feel that bringing a woman to orgasm is the ultimate conquest." Others say, "Every man wants a woman to remember him, especially in bed; he wants to be her god." Still others say they hope to bring their girlfriends to orgasm
because they love her and want to make her happy. They are willing to give her all the happiness they can, especially in the moment of sexual union, where body and soul are united. They naturally care about whether they are truly suitable, whether they can make her feel satisfied and happy; sometimes, this also includes a sense of conquest and accomplishment. And whatever it is, as long as you bring happiness to others, you will naturally feel happy too.
As men, most of them want to appear as an active, masculine conqueror in bed. Seeing their loved ones reveling in the pleasure they bring, they will naturally feel satisfied and content. This is also a display of male power. As a man, whether in life, career, or sex, he desires to feel powerful. Sex is a crucial aspect of showcasing male ability and charm. Excellent sexual performance can fill him with confidence and self-affirmation. Therefore, he naturally cares about the happiness of his loved ones, which is also a way for him to care about and prove his own abilities.
Of course, many men don't care. When they are with their lovers, the familiar environment, familiar people, familiar actions and words turn them into "quick shooters." Coupled with the fatigue and worries of daily work, it's more about venting than enjoying themselves.

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