69 Paradise June Talk

Half a year has passed since I joined 69 Paradise. Initially, I set a rule for myself not to leave a single comment on 69. But today, after organizing my thoughts, I felt it necessary to record this, as a way to commemorate those wonderful moments.
I approached chatting with a casual attitude, hoping for a natural outcome.
I believe that most people on 69, aside from a very few curious onlookers, genuinely want to participate. Whether they ultimately succeed largely depends on finding the right partner. Many complain that they haven't met a suitable match after a long time on 69. I understand that couples might be overly cautious or have high standards, which is normal. Single men, on the other hand, usually fail because they are too eager for quick results. Perhaps a particularly lucky single man can find a thirsty couple with just a close-up or video, like winning the lottery, but I believe that's extremely rare. However, for the vast majority of couples on 69, communication is a necessary prerequisite. After all, very few women can have physical intimacy with a strange man without much communication, and very few husbands would hand their wives over to a strange man without much interaction.
Knowing what kind of person you like is essential to investing enough enthusiasm.
Whether you're a couple or a single man, you'll likely have a standard, whether vague or clear, in mind when participating in this game, hoping to find a relatively ideal partner. Some men like sexy and alluring women, while others prefer quiet and elegant ones; some like mature women, while others prefer young women; some women like dashing and debonair men, while others prefer mature and refined ones; some like young and handsome men, while others prefer masculine and courageous ones. In short, whatever your preference, there's bound to be someone suitable for you on 69. But whether you can get someone to accept you back while you like them depends on your own abilities. Everyone needs to use their own skills, otherwise, it will all be in vain. Of course, if you're only looking for quantity and not quality, just to find someone to sleep with, that's a different story. For me, the youth and vitality of young married women are incredibly attractive, so my goal is to date couples under 35. I'm grateful to the couples I've dated over the past six months; you've given me countless wonderful memories.
Respect and consideration for women are essential for achieving the desired outcome.
There's no fixed rule for what constitutes respect and consideration, but as a single man, I must understand that details matter. I believe a few points are crucial. If a couple agrees to participate in activities with a single man, preparing a thoughtful gift is a given, as the woman is someone he'll soon be intimate with. This demonstrates good manners and basic respect for women. Additionally, finding a suitable venue is important. I think four-star hotels offer good environments and value, five-star hotels are ideal, and three-star hotels are the bare minimum. (Even in smaller cities, finding a three-star hotel isn't difficult.) I cannot accept budget hotels or even those that advertise hourly rates. Of course, this doesn't apply to those whose sole purpose is sex, aiming to achieve their goal with minimal expense. As a single man, you must understand that most women are emotional. Your thoughtfulness and respect will be felt by her, and she will express her affection through her body, giving you a blissful date.
Whether you're looking for a one-night stand or a long-term relationship, it's best to communicate beforehand.
In casual conversations, I've noticed some women have lingering negative memories of past relationships, generally lamenting how hypocritical men are. They shower you with sweet words before sex, but disappear afterward, or remain on your friend list without a word, as if you've never met. While some couples do want no further contact after sex, most couples don't. Expressing gratitude and praise to a woman afterward won't have any negative impact; it will only improve your image in the eyes of the couple. Why not? If the couple doesn't want further contact, the single man can at least feel at ease and won't be seen as impolite, unless, of course, he's persistent and clingy afterwards. When so many single men on 69 complain about being discriminated against by married couples, shouldn't we reflect on whether it's a significant number of single men who are ruining their image among married couples? Even one bad apple can spoil the whole bunch, let alone a considerable number of such single men on 69. They're digging their own graves and dragging other single men down with them—this is the massive project many single men on 69 have been undertaking.
They should learn to politely decline unsuitable partners to avoid unpleasant experiences for both sides.
Undeniably, single men are in a relatively subordinate position in this game, but that doesn't mean they should be inferior to married couples. They can politely decline unsuitable partners, preserving their dignity. I remember reading a single man's blog on 69 who, after an event, spoke extremely negatively about the other person's wife, criticizing her figure, appearance, and sexual performance—basically saying nothing good about her. Unsurprisingly, his blog post attracted a barrage of condemnation in the comments; such a single man certainly deserves to be criticized. Imagine if you found the couple so unappealing. A simple meal or chat during a date, followed by a polite breakup, would likely leave a good impression. Even if you dislike them, they can't possibly rape you. To insist on sleeping with someone you find particularly objectionable only shows a "why not take advantage of someone else's wife?" mentality, followed by subsequent denigration. This won't damage the couple's image, but it demonstrates a lack of moral principles and a tendency to criticize without remorse.
It's sometimes wise to offer constructive objections, rather than simply persuading couples to participate.
Those familiar with the "69" activity know that initially, the husband is usually the initiator, with the wife passively participating. This activity is a niche activity, not accepted by mainstream society or the majority. Due to psychological, personality, background, education, and environmental factors, some women can be persuaded, while others cannot. Some couples participate purely out of curiosity without considering the risks and consequences. This activity is irreversible; once it happens, there's no going back. After chatting with some couples, I've told them more than once that they're not suited for this kind of game under the current circumstances. However, some people in the group, driven by selfish motives or lusting after the other person's wife in photos, exaggerate the benefits of couples engaging in casual sex or threesomes, trying to drag others into it. Doing so could at least damage the relationship between couples, and at worst, destroy their marriages. Even thieves have their code of conduct. Everyone playing this game must have basic moral boundaries. (Reposted, just to express an attitude)

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