How should married couples view friendship?

What are your thoughts on couples forming friendships? Is it about physical desire or emotional release?
A villager said he strongly opposes couples forming friendships that directly involve sexual intercourse. His ideal is for four people to become true friends, sharing a little ambiguity, secrets, and joy, accepting and liking each other, and doing many things together, like traveling. He denied that he meant a romantic relationship between four people. Actually, I think it's just a matter of degree, the direction is the same.
I don't deny that a romantic relationship between four people would be the highest level, with both affection and sex. I'd like that too, but I'm also afraid. Some people say love can't withstand tests, so what if things don't go as planned? I think everyone has their own answer.
Between affection and sex, I think sex is easier to control, while affection can easily become a wild horse that's impossible to manage. Therefore, in matters of friendship between spouses, it's crucial to maintain moderation and know when to stop. A little attraction is certainly necessary, but it's essential to prevent it from developing unchecked. The key to maintaining a good relationship is for both spouses to advance and retreat together; the family is always an indispensable and reliable haven.
Friendships between spouses are difficult. Besides overcoming traditional societal constraints, finding someone with whom you share a mutual attraction and common interests is even harder. Even friendships between two people contribute to a large number of single women, let alone when four pairs of eyes and four minds are involved in the process. I also dislike straightforward sexual relationships. A little appreciation and liking during the process adds spice to the friendship. Without this spice, it would likely feel dull and empty afterward.
Yes, a little appreciation and liking is my ideal state for friendships between spouses. Does anyone agree with my thoughts?

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