星河1

2013-10-03 16:00:02

Stage 1: Knows his wife is having an affair, but pretends not to. Measuring standard: Fantasizes about his wife cheating during sex. His wife calls home lying about working late, but is actually having an affair and checking into a hotel with her lover. He knows it's a lie but doesn't expose her. Nature: Not public. Level: Stage 2: Lets his wife know he knows about her affair and semi-allows her to continue the relationship. Measuring standard: While his wife is having an affair, he fantasizes about masturbating at home. After his wife returns from her affair, his sexual urges are stronger, and he secretly masturbates using his wife's underwear. Nature: Semi-public. Level: Stage 3: Explicitly supports his wife's relationship with her lover and says he understands it's just a physical game; as long as his wife is happy, he won't file for divorce. Measuring standard: Demands his wife find a high-quality lover and inquires about the lover's background. (Assuming he is also satisfied with the lover.) Encourages his wife to dress up beautifully, go topless, or wear revealing clothing on dates. While sex is permitted, ejaculation inside the wife is not. Condoms must be used as men generally dislike wearing them, and the lover occasionally ejaculates inside. Although this violates the rules, it's expected and inevitable. The wife is allowed to bring her lover home for illicit affairs, and they have sex in the master bedroom, facilitating the affair. The wife uses her home as the primary location for these affairs, while the husband goes out to work or stroll around. Nature: Two-person affair, public level: Stage 4: The wife tells the lover that the husband knows about their affair and allows them to continue seeing each other. Evaluation criteria: The wife conveys what she wants to say to the other man; the three meet; for drinks, dinner, or a brief introduction; the three reach some kind of gentleman's agreement; the husband doesn't hide when the lover comes to the house to meet the wife; the wife and lover have sex in the room while the husband listens outside and masturbates; he either ejaculates or waits for the wife to finish before having sex in another room. Nature: Three-person affair, public level: Stage 5: The lover "moves into" your home. Evaluation criteria: The lover frequently comes to your home to have sex with your wife, for example, 4 days a week. One day, after a night of pleasure, your wife stays overnight at your house. You and your lover each have a room, while your wife shuttles between the two rooms, ultimately spending the night in your lover's room. Gradually, an unspoken rule forms: when your lover stays overnight, your wife first spends time with him, then returns to have sex with you, perhaps sleeping with you, but more often than not, spending the night with your lover. Nature: Three-person room; Public level: Six stages: Integrating into the sexual game between your wife and lover; Measurement standard: Perhaps you are watching or participating, but in any case, you have moved from being an outsider into the inner circle; your relationship with your lover has undergone a qualitative change. Finally, one day, simultaneous sex (3P) occurs, either simultaneously or after him; the relationship between the three of you is becoming increasingly harmonious.