2013-10-26 00:26:54
Well written, it covers almost everything. Communication between husband and wife should be a gradual process of getting to know each other and cultivating feelings. Contact, meeting, understanding, familiarity, attraction, anticipation, passion—it all happens naturally. It's a natural progression.156074

2013-10-26 00:29:28
It's very well written!156074

2013-10-26 01:36:44
I basically agree, it's just that we are from different regions, have different educational backgrounds, and are of different ages.156074

2013-10-26 04:47:09
It's well written, but have you ever considered how many people like that exist today?156074

2013-10-26 08:30:41
I've had a similar experience. This is a very well-written technical guide!156074

2013-10-26 08:56:22
I just finished reading your article; it's very detailed and basically matches my description. It's just a pity I'm married and my wife doesn't agree. Maybe we can connect and discuss it further?156074

2013-10-26 10:17:48
The writing is very good...very organized and well-structured.156074

2013-10-26 11:12:24
That's so well written!156074

2013-10-26 15:22:30
I'd like to give this a thumbs up, but unfortunately it doesn't meet the requirements.156074

2013-10-26 16:19:52
Looks like they're a professional dating couple.156074

2013-10-26 23:45:06
Some parts of the text may not have been clearly expressed, which may have caused misunderstandings for some readers. We are looking for friends with whom we can have a mutual connection, especially someone we can talk to easily, not someone who is rich.156074

2013-10-27 00:20:59
We live in the same city. I wish you both passion and happiness!156074

2013-10-27 00:45:19
Great! Very good! Excellent!156074

2013-10-27 00:51:52
This comprehensive dating declaration is like a decent academic paper, haha. Those who agree and meet the criteria are eligible to join.156074

2013-10-27 17:54:31
I agree with your feelings. I've read the above. If we have time, let's discuss it further and see how it develops.156074

2013-10-27 20:43:43
After reading this, I have a question: how do you confirm that the other person is a white-collar worker?156074

2013-10-27 20:58:51
That's a comprehensive and detailed explanation. If all single men could do all of the above, 69 Paradise would truly become Eden. However, while software should strive to achieve what's possible, hardware cannot be improved through effort alone.156074

2013-10-27 21:55:58
It's well written, but unfortunately it's not near Luoyang.156074

2013-10-27 22:45:46
I completely agree. Airplanes, high-speed trains, and highways offer convenient transportation; costs are borne by the individual, and distance is not an issue.156074

2013-10-27 23:21:25
Speaking from my own experience, I'd say it's very well written. "When people are well-fed and clothed, they think of lustful desires."156074

2013-10-28 20:20:11
I feel like I don't quite meet your requirements.156074

2013-10-29 21:39:02
Well written, thumbs up!156074

2013-10-30 23:26:14
I've seen this dating principle twice now. I think you can only truly determine if there's mutual attraction after a video chat or seeing the other person in person. Having too many requirements actually hinders the feasibility of dating. For single men, good looks, good physique, no bad habits, and politeness are probably enough. A college degree, a bachelor's degree, white-collar or gold-collar status—I don't think those are the key points, right? I meet all the criteria, I'm just a gray-collar worker (but I'm very proud and confident). It's quite sad to be rejected by white-collar workers like this. No offense intended, just speaking from my own perspective.156074

2013-11-05 18:02:37
I've written quite a bit, so it might be a little confusing for some readers. But it's understandable. I think the most crucial point is that everyone has a sense of fear deep down.156074

2013-11-07 12:47:42
Contact me, I'd love to connect with you all.156074

2013-11-09 08:19:59
I usually just browse, but this is my first reply. Indeed, your writing is very good. We meet your main requirements, except for the geographical location and lack of exchange experience. However, convenient transportation and an open mindset make our exchange possible. Feel free to contact me.156074

2013-11-15 12:16:09
This is very well written; it's mostly accurate. I hope we can exchange ideas sometime!156074

2013-11-18 19:55:31
I'm too low-level to send you messages, add me on QQ.156074

2013-11-18 19:57:11
Let's chat sometime. If you think it's a good fit, I'll try to visit you when I have some free time.156074

2013-11-18 19:58:43
My education, occupation, and income all meet your requirements, but I weigh 180 kg and am also 180 cm tall. Do you think that's suitable?156074

2013-11-21 09:40:07
To be honest, I don't meet the requirements, but I'm absolutely sincere. Give me a chance, and I'll give myself a chance too. Haha, 25/165/120, leaving a message without any hope.156074

2013-11-25 15:17:24
Well written, I agree with your point of view. Let's get to know each other sincerely. Feel free to add us and chat sometime.156074

2013-11-26 21:28:17
fraud.156074

2013-11-27 10:40:49
zj22356: 2013-11-26 21:28:17 When did we communicate? Where did this claim of being a scammer come from?156074

2013-11-29 11:50:43
This has a much longer history than matchmaking, and it's even harder than taking the civil service exam.156074

2013-12-03 18:02:18
A load of nonsense! If you can't handle the game, don't pretend to be something you're not.156074

2013-12-11 14:06:06
People from Luoyang can exchange ideas.156074

2013-12-12 10:12:11
This is written in such detail that it could be used as a textbook.156074

2013-12-13 08:18:23
I've learned something.156074

2013-12-13 09:23:16
OP, add me and let's chat. I'm from Luoyang.156074

2013-12-18 12:12:35
Add me156074

2013-12-24 00:43:31
You are very frank. I am from Luoyang and basically meet your requirements, but this is an interactive process, and it is best if both parties are compatible!156074

2013-12-24 13:18:36
Anhui lawyer couple156074

2013-12-24 16:17:30
That's brilliantly written! I support you all!156074

2013-12-26 20:52:22
I'm currently in Luoyang and have added you.156074

2013-12-29 22:30:08
It's well-written and resonates with you all.156074

2014-01-06 11:02:22
There's no point in making friends with people who write articles like this! It's blatant prejudice and arrogance! But I still hope you have a happy sex life.156074

2014-01-08 04:45:57
Very realistic and down-to-earth writing, thumbs up!156074

2014-01-16 16:25:03
Hello, I'm from Luoyang, may I contact you?156074

2014-01-25 11:14:13
Honest communication reduces hassles and allows for enjoyment. Clearly communicating before starting a relationship is a great process; it's just a pity I'm a single man from Luoyang and don't quite meet your requirements. Wishing you both a happy and fulfilling life.156074

2014-02-03 02:12:52
I agree with your rational viewpoints, especially the importance of communication between the two parties, and that both physical appearance and inner qualities are fundamental to success. I am a single man from Luoyang, and I hope to communicate with you.156074

2014-02-03 15:45:35
Can we get to know each other? I'm a single man from Chengdu coming to Zhengzhou for the Chinese New Year. I meet all the basic requirements. Let's be friends first. How do I get to know you?156074

2014-02-18 01:11:19
Can we get to know each other? I'm a medical professional with some expertise in physiology. Also, if we're just friends, we could have a great exchange on health and wellness.156074

2014-02-19 10:15:25
This is pure nonsense.156074

2014-02-19 18:50:46
Hello, I'm a single man with good qualities. How can I contact you?156074

2014-02-20 13:17:11
We live in the same city, can we be friends?156074

2014-02-21 10:21:16
Comprehensive. Thoughtful and experienced! Very good.156074

2014-02-28 17:29:14
I believe I'll meet that requirement after graduation, hahaha.156074

2014-03-05 19:05:59
Hello, I hope I haven't bothered you. I just registered online. I'm a single man from Zhengzhou, please don't misunderstand me as a male sadist. I just saw your profile and I quite admire you. I hope we can get to know each other. Life is an experience and a feeling, and I hope these positive feelings will always be with you. I wish you happiness. I look forward to your reply.156074

2014-03-16 21:08:11
Hello, I am a graduate student currently interning in Luoyang. I hope we can get to know each other.156074

2014-03-17 00:22:10
Are you there156074

2014-03-17 12:10:04
It's very well written, but unfortunately we're a bit too young for each other, so we're not meant to be. But can we be friends?156074

2014-03-17 13:47:03
Well written!156074

2014-03-23 17:04:20
I completely agree, that's very well said.156074

2014-03-24 18:40:40
If you like it, give it a thumbs up!156074

2014-04-12 11:39:13
very good156074

2014-04-12 11:50:42
Thumbs up!156074

2014-04-30 14:46:15
Support and agree156074

2014-05-01 12:18:04
I can video call you in advance. I work in Zhengzhou.156074

2014-05-19 00:22:50
We can exchange ideas when we come to Xi'an.156074

2014-06-09 22:17:39
I don't know if this suits you, but I'm powerless against elegant women.156074

2014-06-12 13:41:00
Hello! I am a single man in Luoyang who has experience with threesomes with married couples!156074

2014-06-13 22:09:24
I'll find your sister when I get to Xi'an.156074

2014-06-20 15:40:07
Hello! I'm a single man in Luoyang who has experience with threesomes with couples! I also have connections within the Luoyang community!156074

2014-06-21 02:29:13
I hope to get to know you all!156074

2014-06-23 09:38:15
This is a high-level couple, you must be accomplished. Welcome to join our Luoyang couples' circle! You can add me!156074

2014-07-03 16:08:40
Well written156074

2014-07-08 13:51:56
Very sincere156074

2014-07-11 22:23:41
Have you had any successful experiences with this?156074

2014-07-17 13:48:16
Well written, I have no questions about it, you can add me!156074

2014-07-24 10:17:31
Add me and let's chat.156074

2014-09-01 16:48:27
Elegant and superior!156074

2014-09-09 14:44:37
Without rules, nothing can be accomplished; I'm a person who follows rules. I have a master's degree, have worked in a public institution since 1984, am 180cm tall, weigh 150kg, single, outgoing, and easygoing. Looking for someone I click with. Hope to contact me.156074

2014-09-15 20:27:22
Well written, better to have none than to have something of poor quality.156074

2014-09-26 13:30:41
It's a pity it's a bit far.156074

2014-10-16 14:30:02
Your writing is very thoughtful; an elegant touch shines through every line. You, or rather you and your husband, truly understand the essence of friendship. Wishing you a lifetime of love and companionship.156074

2014-10-20 11:50:30
We have carefully studied and read your requirements. We greatly appreciate and agree with your ideas. We are from Yichang, Hubei. May we add each other as friends?156074

2014-12-04 01:43:40
Thumbs up, great!156074

2015-01-07 13:45:39
My spouse and I meet all your requirements. I am a government employee, and my wife is a department manager at her company. If you are interested, we can discuss it further. We are from Bozhou, which is very close to us.156074

2015-01-07 20:53:15
Empathy156074

2015-02-18 08:26:24
It's very realistic, and I'd love to talk to you about it.156074

2015-02-21 00:05:18
You wrote a lot but it was very sincere. Can we be friends?156074

2015-03-09 10:52:52
I actually read it all word by word. I'm a 21-year-old senior in college, too old; I'm 186cm tall, too short; and I don't look like a nouveau riche at all. As for hotels and meals… well, I can pay. Would your husband mind a friendship with someone older than him? And his physique… well, a male model's physique, no explanation needed. Glad to reply to your post.156074

2015-03-18 13:48:16
Hi everyone, are you still playing?156074

2015-03-24 13:58:18
The article is indeed well-written and impeccable. However, I feel that it lacks any real-world evidence of success. If it included personal experiences and insights, it would undoubtedly be more vivid and compelling.156074

2015-04-02 12:04:21
Having a good cultural background and a respectable profession is very important and will contribute to safety! I support this idea!156074

2015-04-04 18:47:44
It's well written, let's discuss it.156074

2015-04-09 13:33:45
Standard textbooks ~~ Learning156074

2015-04-09 14:14:07
Well written156074

2015-04-09 14:24:53
right156074

2015-04-09 14:25:14
I'd like to add you as a friend... to learn from you...156074

2015-04-09 15:55:29
Yes. Well said. That's exactly how it should be. We should be sincere, courteous, and generous.156074

2015-05-02 12:03:31
This is so well written! This is what a real couple who want a threesome should look like. It shows sincerity, kindness, and beauty. I wish you and your spouse good health and longevity!156074

2015-05-02 14:27:21
This is beautifully written, and it aligns with my principles for making friends... I think I can repost it now, but I'll need to make some modifications! However, I will definitely credit the source.156074

2015-05-05 02:15:39
Sincere single man from Jiaozuo, 176cm/65kg, please consider.156074

2015-05-10 15:00:30
Learn, learn156074

2015-05-20 03:25:44
Thumbs up!156074

2015-05-22 14:44:32
Some details are missing, such as oral sex, swallowing semen, anal sex, and sandwiching. Is it okay to immediately insert these techniques after penetration? The writing is very detailed; may I use your copyright in the future? Thumbs up!156074

2015-05-26 11:56:29
Quality couples, please add us on QQ to learn more and exchange ideas.156074

2015-05-27 15:20:17
The fact that you sent so much shows your sincerity. We fully meet the requirements, but unfortunately, the distance is a bit far. Best of luck.156074

2015-06-01 10:00:50
I have countless friends, but we're not meant to be.156074

2015-06-17 11:30:03
Sincerity is key; one should be cautious first, then act with integrity. I look forward to communicating with you both. Your character and conduct are certainly beyond reproach. If we can communicate well, distance will not be an issue.156074

2015-06-19 17:27:39
Well said156074

2015-06-29 10:51:59
Well written, I agree it's the best way. It's a pity we're not old enough to meet your expectations. Wishing you a happy and fulfilling sex life.156074

2015-06-30 15:50:00
Everything is up to you. Single men aren't slaves; they just don't have a cuckold fetish. If you think too highly of yourselves, you'll only ever be single. Feel free to speak your mind here. Don't say things like "better to have none than a bad one." There are plenty of couples who aren't prepared. I've seen people ask for a five-star hotel suite, only to be told they weren't ready. I'm not targeting you; we should all respect each other.156074

2015-07-01 21:19:22
How many truly dare to take the imperial examinations in the capital? To merely engage in theoretical discussions is nothing but a laughable exercise!156074

2015-08-05 11:00:15
Every single one of these statements is true, but unfortunately, they're too old for me.156074

2015-09-03 12:32:16
Well written156074

2015-09-06 12:58:49
Well written, I support you!156074

2015-09-06 14:05:36
I look forward to getting to know you and becoming friends.156074

2015-09-06 21:38:02
After reading it carefully, I felt a deep resonance. Only with belief can there be hope, and only with trust can we communicate.156074

2015-09-07 13:19:08
I completely agree with your views. Your explanations are comprehensive, insightful, and incisive, especially your clear explanation of how couples should make friends. You truly are a genuine and sincere couple, worthy of friendship and exchange. It's just a pity we live far apart, which is a bit of a shame. However, we can still communicate often, and I'd like to add you as a friend!156074

2015-09-24 17:20:57
Seeking a qualified male college graduate working in a white-collar environment.156074

2015-09-28 01:50:05
This is quite long. It took me a long time to read. I'm a single, high-quality international student; I hope we can consider getting to know each other.156074

2015-09-28 02:03:54
The writing is good, but it feels like something is missing.156074

2015-11-03 10:02:02
He met all the requirements except for education and energy, which is a pity.156074

2015-11-25 11:09:53
I feel the same way. I'm afraid very few people can meet the requirements. That's why I dare not write.156074

2015-11-26 20:34:34
This is one of the best online novels I've ever read. I've read it with great interest.156074

2016-02-26 17:12:01
If this is how it works, then it's like looking for a wife, so there's no point in playing.156074

2016-02-26 17:13:21
You can only trade with successful people, like provincial and ministerial-level leaders; they are all elites.156074

2016-03-07 12:37:30
Your writing is very sincere. If it weren't for my age, I would really like to have a chat with you two.156074

2016-03-13 03:00:09
A couple from Jiaozuo, add me if you're interested.156074

2016-03-31 12:20:22
Hello, Luoyang couple!156074

2016-03-31 22:17:55
Luoyang white-collar couple156074

2016-06-06 13:46:34
We rural folks are out of luck. I read the gist of it; everything else was well-written, except for the part about migrant workers... What does "three types of couples" mean? Are you people from a privileged background? Maybe you've been hurt by them, but that doesn't excuse everything. Okay, I'll stop here. I just happened to see this and wanted to say something, haha... Still, I wish you happiness.156074

2016-06-16 14:35:58
I'm from Zhengzhou and I think I meet the requirements; I prefer people with good manners and upbringing.156074

2016-07-06 08:14:59
Beautiful ideas, harsh reality156074

2016-08-11 02:34:51
Looking forward to getting to know you156074

2016-09-02 11:44:34
That's so sincere!156074

2016-09-05 05:53:13
I agree with your points. Women should treat themselves well and have a sense of self-protection. Don't let just anyone get close to you. Safety comes first, then a good rapport; only then can the sex experience be truly wonderful. Wishing everyone happiness and joy.156074

2016-11-02 12:34:49
That's very detailed, but making it clear beforehand saves everyone trouble. It's actually quite good. The guys in Zhengzhou are looking forward to getting to know you. Maybe I can even leave you with some good photos. If you're worried, just bring your own memory cards; you can take them after you're done.156074

2017-08-07 17:47:36
Honesty and respect are the foundation of friendship. I work in Zhengzhou and frequently travel to Luoyang for business. Looking forward to getting to know you!156074

2018-02-11 07:56:55
I understand, I support you, and I give you a thumbs up!156074

2018-06-24 09:10:32
I fully meet your 12 requirements. My wife and I have discussed it, and we concluded that I am too arrogant, which makes me less agreeable and somewhat ridiculous.156074

2018-07-13 12:34:18
Great, I've switched to using it!156074

2019-05-30 13:17:31
There is a set156074

2019-06-15 16:40:28
These are my thoughts, and I hope to exchange ideas.156074

2019-07-10 06:56:25
Well written and very insightful. Indeed, the forest at No. 69 is quite large, and the birds are rather diverse and complex. I fit your requirements perfectly, but the distance is a bit far. If you'd like, could we talk first? I can apply for a business trip with my company.156074

2019-09-25 09:16:22
This is what couples should look like when they're having fun together.156074

2019-09-25 09:16:29
This is what couples should look like when they're having fun together.156074

2019-09-25 09:16:57
This is how couples should interact.156074

2020-02-18 19:14:07
Even thieves have their code of honor; sex is a serious matter.156074

2020-04-12 16:18:14
This can serve as a model for making friends.156074

2022-05-15 08:20:42
Looking forward to connecting with friends from nearby cities via QQ.156074

2022-05-27 13:30:20
The person in this case lacked professional ethics, corrupting and trampling on innocent people like us.156074

2022-07-24 22:28:02
Well written. Thumbs up.156074

2022-08-24 11:34:55
It's been nine years since the last update.156074

2022-09-11 00:06:11
Very sincere! Thumbs up!156074

2023-03-03 06:59:35
Well said, but women seem to care more about first impressions.156074

2023-03-03 16:53:14
Brilliant! I haven't seen such a insightful article in a long time.156074
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