云雨仙境

2013-08-10 22:09:04

First, let her know that you won't cause trouble if you tell her who it is. Second, you need to find out how far their ambiguous relationship has progressed and whether it still exists. Most importantly, tell her that you are very hurt and that you cannot tolerate it!

吉林福娃

2013-08-10 22:20:16

First, for the sake of your child, don't leave. Second, since you've come here, it's better to guide than to block. If you believe your woman is unfaithful, you can try to find out who the other man is and then sleep with his wife. You could also suggest wife swapping or a threesome.

阳光猛男

2013-08-10 22:36:40

It's best not to divorce, so that the child can have a complete family when they grow up and develop psychologically healthily.

aisen1

2013-09-02 21:40:40

Yeah, I guess I'll just have to let things take their course. I've moved to another place now, and I still visit sometimes. My son is the most pitiful one, so it makes me feel really bad. A colleague of mine just got divorced for the same reason, but they didn't have any children, so there wasn't much to divide.

野狼雄狮

2013-10-03 17:59:21

Why would you want a divorce? Look at these couples here, still holding grudges from four years ago? Besides, what's the big deal? Even if someone wants to be a cuckold, they might not actually succeed. (Just kidding) Just pay more attention to your wife. As long as you treat her the same as always, won't she notice? Women have the softest hearts!

jssanfeng

2013-10-03 18:41:03

I'm unmarried, so you can just laugh off my opinions. You're both here at 69 Paradise, what's there to hide from each other? I don't understand. Unless the man is someone you both know. If you're sure you still love her, then just live your life well and don't overthink it. So much time has passed; for the sake of the children and your future, don't divorce. I wish you both happiness. At the same time, you should also take action to dispel your wife's concerns; she'll naturally tell you then.

aisen1

2013-10-04 08:13:35

Sigh, forgiveness is easy, but rebuilding trust is hard, especially since she's keeping a secret. Oh well, the past is the past. Let nature take its course and accept whatever comes...

歡兒~

2013-10-04 10:13:25

You've come all the way to level 69, and look at all the couples there—aren't they all neglecting their marital bonds? Even the single men are here behind their wives' backs. Take these couples, for example; the husbands are even trying to persuade their wives to find other men. Look how broad-minded those husbands are! Almost every family these days is similar or different, and theirs is even worse than yours, you just don't know it. Once you've come to terms with it, everything will be fine!

歡兒~

2013-10-04 10:19:23

For couples who have been intimate countless times, what trust is left in the relationship? Loyalty is nonexistent; it's all about casual sex! Do they even care how many sexual partners their husbands or wives have outside the marriage?! Besides, what if the husband or wife only has one lover outside the marriage?!

歡兒~

2013-10-04 10:22:37

Don't overindulge, this medicine (69) probably has side effects too, haha.

歡兒~

2013-10-04 10:23:39

Everything has two sides, right? There are advantages and disadvantages too.

aisen1

2013-10-04 21:53:18

So I'll give it a try and see how far we can go. It's better than doing nothing and waiting to regret it. If I really can't get over my own conscience, then we'll have to break up. Staying together for a lifetime will only hurt everyone, so why not be more decisive and carefree?

星河1

2013-10-04 22:02:30

Go have sex with his wife

又粗又硬

2014-02-02 23:57:45

I'm from Yangjiang, which is very close to Zhaipo.

OKTJ

2014-02-23 14:59:46

Ambiguity! It's actually a coloring agent for a mundane life; it's obvious your life has become mundane, and that man is willing to give you more tenderness because she's currently experiencing passion. But believe me, if your wife is wise, just have some fun and don't take it too seriously. After the passion fades, can she still trust that man? You shouldn't get a divorce. Not for the children, but for her.

绿江畔兰

2014-05-15 16:01:55

I advise you, my friend, not to divorce. Nobody's perfect. We can both keep our own clean; it's just that she cheated first (though that's not necessarily true). If we had cheated first and still wanted to stay with her, wouldn't we hope for her forgiveness? Besides, coming here means we should have a more tolerant attitude towards this matter.

xingqingx

2015-02-24 18:31:42

Hello friend, I wonder how you two are doing now. I miss you a lot and hope you're still living together. I look forward to seeing your message.

lphaha1

2018-09-17 10:24:00

Start from the heart—I wonder how your relationship with your wife is now? If your wife's infidelity has transformed into a stimulus for a threesome, perhaps it will help you get through this difficult time. I've had a similar experience; although my wife cheated on me with my encouragement, it was still infidelity, and I felt very remorseful. Best wishes.