中年夫妻A

2013-03-14 14:27:03

That's true.

blink

2013-03-14 15:03:00

That's right.

羊玉

2013-03-14 15:29:12

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gaojun1974

2013-03-14 15:50:50

Nowadays, most single men can't even do that; some don't even understand the most basic manners, let alone introduce themselves!

小脚丫

2013-03-14 20:25:13

That's so well said!

laopo111

2013-03-14 23:12:21

Brilliant insight

名士缘

2013-03-15 21:38:39

Well said. Single men should really read these articles carefully and think about what they should do. I hope more high-quality articles like this will be published in the future.

自由爱35

2013-03-15 23:29:48

As a newcomer, this post is excellent and has given me a basic understanding of this place. Thank you.

此情只可以成追忆

2013-03-16 00:44:01

I might go to work in Zhengzhou in a while. Both of us are 50 years old, which is a bit old, but even if nothing happens, we can still become friends first.

qsip

2013-03-28 23:31:32

Can the basic information be understood like this: male, height, weight, age, location—that's sufficient. After all, single men also have privacy. If it's based on mutual respect, more information should be obtained through information exchange. Many couples, or even one spouse in a couple, have things that single men find unacceptable. If it's purely for physical needs, there's no need to seek out couples. Only relationships based on equality and mutual understanding can provide the superior sexual experience of a 34P arrangement. If it's not based on equality and mutual respect, then you might as well try BDSM. I've only heard of couples kicking out single men after a failed relationship, never of single men treating couples badly. If you expect a single man to treat you like a first love, then please have the beauty and purity of a first love. I'm a single man; the word "complaint" doesn't exist in my dictionary. The author is clearly looking down on single men. Is it that the couples the author portrays lack the discernment to recognize single men, or are their demands unreasonable and selfish?

qsip

2013-03-28 23:33:57

It's about mutual satisfaction, okay? Not about hiring a male prostitute!

liziya555

2013-03-29 23:41:14

Height and appearance are satisfactory.

激情之夜2

2013-03-31 17:46:35

Haha, let's chat first; everything starts with a chat.

激情之夜2

2013-04-01 11:06:00

Haha, returning the visit

鹰格狼w69

2013-04-03 00:20:50

I know a single guy who participated in one, and he said it was pretty good. The couples were very enthusiastic, and it even made my two virgin classmates interested. But judging from the situation, I guess virgins have no future.

kongk123

2013-04-08 13:42:00

profound

changjun

2013-04-17 00:38:37

That's a really good explanation!

想小女孩交流

2013-04-18 08:28:14

This is our first time here, we have no experience. Can we chat?

上69,不为P

2013-05-15 19:32:12

I support the original author's viewpoint. Married couples need to give single men sufficient trust, and single men need to be genuinely sincere to married couples—not just paying lip service to sincerity.

ZMZQ

2013-05-24 22:35:15

I totally agree. Brother, we're a young couple, and we hope you can give us some guidance. Even if we can't be together in real life, we hope to become friends.

洛阳单男815

2013-08-15 23:22:06

I'm from Luoyang, I hope you'll consider it.

鱼水之欢

2013-09-03 13:01:21

Mutual respect and sincerity are essential! (Single man in Jinan)

平常心abc

2013-09-04 22:03:39

Everyone has their own reasons, haha. But I've been on 69 for a year now, and I started by adding single men, but all the single men I've met have been very disappointing. They all claim to be cultured men, but they don't even have basic manners. For example, when he asks me some questions and I answer truthfully, when I ask him the same questions, he either stammers or avoids answering. But he keeps asking me for photos and videos of my wife. We've only known each other for less than ten minutes, and he's so impatient. I said let's video chat first, get past me first, but he makes excuses again. When I ask him for photos, I have to send them first. It feels like we're the vegetables and he's buying vegetables at the supermarket. I really don't know how they understand manners.

chyd123

2013-09-07 19:42:52

Mutual respect and sincerity

时光美人1

2013-09-10 07:22:15

Haha, I guess you just didn't meet the right person at the right time. Giving a gift is fine. Sometimes people sense it. After all, you've just met, and asking for something right away gives a bad impression. If they sense it, no need to say anything. I think a single guy would give one. (The "A Calm Mind" ABC)

jiaohuan2013

2013-09-11 00:48:21

You misunderstood. Nobody wanted the gift; I was just reposting it. That's just the author's perspective.

时光美人1

2013-09-11 02:01:56

Thank you, I understand.

时光美人1

2013-09-11 02:02:35

After all, some single men aren't very classy. But similarly, some couples... well, never mind.

怀念过去smh

2013-09-17 04:29:09

support

邂逅浪漫激情

2013-10-13 11:10:49

There are too many single men on 69 (a Chinese online forum), and many young people might think they can have a serendipitous encounter there, but that's not the case. As a single man, I've enjoyed several 3Ps and even 4Ps. The excitement is undeniable. What I want to say is that if a young single man wants to attract couples/lovers/partners, he should first assess how many single women he has already attracted. How easy is it for a single man without even a few sexual partners to expect to be accepted by a couple/lovers/partner? The probability of a couple/lovers choosing you is much lower than finding a woman willing to have sex with you! And for a single man in his early 40s, if he doesn't assess his attractiveness to women and tries to get a 3P experience through 69, it's practically impossible! Moreover, if you're over 40 and don't have a woman willing to enjoy sex with you, how can you possibly attract a couple/lovers/partner? Therefore, a charming man can enjoy both 3P and 4P because he has the ability to find women willing to enjoy 4P with another couple. Such men are the most likely to be accepted by couples/lovers/partners! An excellent single man will never limit himself to playing P&P, unless his charm hasn't reached the point where open-minded women get aroused just by seeing him.

霸占你的嘴唇

2013-10-13 11:48:20

After reading everyone's comments, I have mixed feelings. I've been on this forum for over a year, and it's really not easy to meet a suitable single man. Everyone says he's so great, but when I meet him, 9 out of 10 are disappointing. Many single men come here to hunt for women, and they themselves have no class or status, let alone any masculinity! They come here hoping for a lucky break. Imagine if you don't even have a few decent sexual partners in real life, and no woman wants to talk to you in real life, do you think the women here are stupid enough to be interested in you? To go to a hotel with you after just a few words? Sigh, so I think if you're a single man, you should assess yourself first before coming here. If you think you have no future, don't embarrass yourself!

出售本人

2013-10-13 13:57:32

I laughed when I read the comments above. I really laughed. I've only been on 69 for a few days, and I've noticed that single men aren't very popular here. In fact, it's quite disrespectful, and people look down on them (of course, I'm only referring to the majority of people who think this way). But these past few days, I've also looked at many people's profiles, and some of them say things like, "Couples looking for single men, anyone is welcome, preferably single men." These couples sometimes criticize single men, saying they're taking advantage or have no advantages. Don't you think that sounds a bit pretentious? Although I'm also a single man, I'm not looking for any romantic encounters or to solve my physical needs here. I have a wife, and she's not bad-looking; you could even call her beautiful. So why would I be a single man on 69? Have you ever thought about that? Do men these days lack sex? Even if they're not good-looking, at least they can find women, right? And if they can't, they can always go to prostitutes. What can't a prostitute satisfy you for money? Have you ever thought about these things? (I certainly don't think that way. Of course, I don't deny that some single men are like what you're saying, but I think it's wrong of you to comment on single men like that. At least don't assume all single men are like that; it's hurtful. I'm only saying this to help single men who don't have your mindset find partners. Don't take it too seriously; I don't mean to be offended. I'm just expressing my personal opinion. Don't misunderstand; my writing is poor, and typing on the phone isn't very good either, so some parts are a bit messy.)

出售本人

2013-10-13 14:09:37

Ugh, hearing you guys talk about single men like that makes me want to quit even though I'm single myself. It's so discouraging. Even though I'm not the kind of person you're describing, it still doesn't feel good. To add to my previous comment, I'm not handsome, but I'm presentable enough, haha. And I don't lack women, including in real life...

w023

2013-11-01 02:00:11

o(︶︿︶)o Hey LS, what are you trying to say? Are you saying you're not the type of person the OP is talking about? The OP didn't say all single men are like that, so why are you getting so worked up? Did they see through you? What the OP said makes perfect sense; honesty is essential in making friends.

heisiwaheisi

2014-02-18 18:56:15

Anything can be triggered as long as you have the feeling.

大卫彼得

2014-05-19 02:59:00

Single male, 40, 173cm, 150cm

ai12345

2014-05-21 06:26:16

Wishing you a long and happy sex life.

威海一夜快乐

2014-05-21 08:01:38

The discussion is quite detailed, and I support your viewpoint.

向往西藏1

2014-06-09 14:44:40

Can you add me? I'd love to get to know you. I'm new here and don't know much.

EddyHangZhou

2014-10-09 10:00:50

Thumbs up!

ok林

2014-12-06 15:47:29

Anything can be sparked if there's a connection; if neither party is sincere, it's pointless. Try to put yourself in their shoes.

胖大海

2015-01-24 16:48:41

Haha, you definitely have to give a gift when you first meet!

期待永远

2015-01-24 17:31:01

Great post! Thumbs up!

yang9932

2015-01-24 18:11:29

I'm from Xiamen, and I'm willing.

滨河谷

2016-05-30 22:14:03

That's absolutely right. Couples who accept single men aren't after anything from them. If they were after money, they'd just become prostitutes; that would be faster. It's about the feeling they want.

瞎啷哉

2017-12-19 01:28:29

How can you get to know someone without communicating? Whether you're a single man or a couple, do you want to be friends or seek excitement? I think the first thing to do is to have the right mindset.

瞎啷哉

2017-12-19 01:31:44

Disclaimer! I am a single male. I'm here for two reasons: first, I want to try a threesome or multiple partners; second, I want to make friends. I'll say whatever comes to mind; sincerity is invaluable.

老婆被人爱

2020-04-30 20:40:29

Well said