2015-03-23 16:51:55

This is the tragedy of being a single man; you'll get used to it.

禁忌的世界

2015-03-23 16:54:25

It's even more heartbreaking if someone asks for your photo and then disappears.

日后再说as

2015-03-23 17:01:08

Because I'm a single man! No explanation needed! That's just how it is here, what can you do about it?

0516徐州单男

2015-03-23 17:07:09

That's normal.

aliege12

2015-03-23 18:37:45

Adjust your mindset! Ignoring you is the best option! I've encountered situations where you were polite to her and she started swearing at you!

oldguy1234

2015-03-23 20:07:50

Try to adjust your mindset. There's really nothing you can do about it, after all, you're a single man.

威海小鱼

2015-03-23 20:20:46

I'm disappearing because I'm not satisfied with you. I'm disappearing without saying goodbye because I'm afraid of hurting your pride if I tell you directly that I'm not satisfied with you. That's all. You're so old, don't you understand this?

zzhang1986

2015-03-24 03:59:49

The reason some single men ignore you is because they sometimes resort to verbal abuse when they're not satisfied with their partners. I once encountered a man who clearly stated his requirements: 25-30 years old. He was 40 years old, and I said it wasn't suitable. Then he asked how old my wife was, and I said 30. He immediately replied that my wife wanted to date a younger man. So, the reason single men are perceived as vulnerable and looked down upon is because almost every couple looking for a single man has encountered various oddballs. So, try to put yourself in their shoes. If you were a couple, with so many people adding you every day, you never know when you'd encounter a few jerks. Would you still be in such a good mood and be so polite?

smsmoo2

2015-03-25 04:39:02

It's normal for them to ignore you because they're not happy with you! You must be a difficult person to get along with.

沙漠之魂

2015-03-25 09:19:56

Yes. Think carefully about whether directly telling you you're dissatisfied or ignoring you shows respect.

靓女帅男

2015-03-26 00:07:04

It's perfectly normal to be single; things are valued for their scarcity, and vice versa, because there are just too many single men.

深圳&冰雨

2015-03-26 13:54:17

Hello, I'm also a single man. Sometimes you don't need to be so calculating about things; just let things take their course. But as a single man, regardless of your circumstances, be proactive in paying for activities, be sincere, and don't brag about your glorious past with other couples. Protect their privacy, but if you think someone is reliable, you can give them a general introduction. During the relationship, be considerate and mindful of their husband's feelings. When introducing yourself, don't exaggerate; just state who you are. Best wishes!