2014-07-21 00:25:29

A woman of noble soul, he is not worthy of you.

2014-07-21 00:25:43

Ten years ago, I had an affair for almost four years. My wife found out and forgave me, but the affair remained a deep wound in her heart, just as my mother said: "A woman will take this to her grave." Over the years, I've tried to make amends and warm her heart. Two years ago, by chance, I gradually came into contact with Buddhism, and my heart became more at peace. At the end of last year, I met a female Buddhist who had already converted, and I went with her to a religious gathering and listened to her mother preach about karma. I told my wife about this, but she couldn't overcome my past, which directly led to her affair. When I found out, I didn't argue; I felt this was my retribution. She resolutely demanded a divorce, and I tried my best to stay, but ultimately failed. On the 16th, we went to complete the divorce proceedings. My guilt towards my wife remains like a nail in my heart. The night before I left, I didn't sleep a wink. I left her a letter, ending with, "I owe you a lifetime of happiness. If there is an afterlife, I wish to spend a pure and innocent life with you at 18."

gzrzbj

2014-07-21 01:47:21

Many people were originally noble, but due to various reasons, they became disheartened and gave up, destroying their original beautiful values and becoming tragedies... This world always learns to cherish things only when it loses them, just like how we protect endangered species, but is that ultimately useful?

Mariah

2014-07-22 19:53:03

Mature love requires loyalty to oneself, maintaining one's integrity and independence while uniting with another person, preserving one's individuality. If a husband's infidelity prevents you from taking care of yourself (due to sadness, crying, illness, etc.), it may mean you haven't learned how to love. Don't expect to control him or her through marriage. Everyone is independent; whatever he/she does, including infidelity, is simply following their inner desires—desires stemming from their deepest subconscious. A marriage contract is not, and cannot, deprive or control a man's or woman's pursuit and desire for sex. If you don't understand this, you will still be hurt when faced with similar situations in the future, still not understanding love or how to love yourself. If you can't forgive, let him go and let yourself go too.

liyangaiai

2014-07-23 14:19:53

You mustn't get a divorce! From what you've written, your husband seems like a responsible man. After all, you have feelings for each other, and a divorce would affect your entire life! The wounds will heal with time!

huangyang

2014-08-04 03:57:56

After reading your story, I've lost all interest in having fun!

zuiai69w

2018-11-19 11:55:48

It was surprisingly heartbreaking to watch. I personally think that life has many stages, a continuous process of growth. Perhaps years later, when the female protagonist looks back on this experience, she will have a different perspective. Love is a bit like sand; you can hold it in your hand, but you can't squeeze it too hard. The tighter you grip, the faster it slips away. Love, especially between spouses, shouldn't be too narrow-minded. My wife and I have each other's fingerprints on our phones, and we keep them together when we get home. I can look at my wife's phone, and she can look at mine, but to be honest, for all these years, I've never once looked through my wife's phone. Until a few years ago, we both agreed to try couples-based dating services. My wife often lies in my arms chatting with handsome men. You could say that my wife and I are very happy and relaxed in our love. Life is short; let your heart fly free.