大海柔情

2014-11-11 22:18:24

The later commentary on marriage is so insightful, I love it!

清城激情

2014-11-12 03:12:31

Thumbs up!

飞飞大哥

2014-11-12 05:08:32

Great Hero

69Gluo

2014-11-12 10:45:20

My boundary is that infidelity is acceptable, but divorce is not. Actually, your wife has already physically cheated on you, but she doesn't dare to tell you. If you tell her about my boundaries, she will have the courage to confess to you that she has already physically cheated on you.

南昌优秀夫妻

2014-11-25 14:43:59

That makes sense.

南昌优秀夫妻

2019-04-12 22:47:00

Many people are like us; this is marriage. If two people are always full of passion, they'll be exhausted. When two people are so familiar with each other, if they accidentally touch each other like they're touching themselves, how can there be any passion? So, our marriage isn't the problem; it's people's understanding of marriage that's flawed and immature. Now you meet this person, he gives you a sense of novelty, and you think he's good, and we're not. Wrong! If you marry him for a few years, you'll find that our present is your future, and it might even be worse. Because from the beginning, we had no barriers between us. We had a son, bought a house together, and built a home. Every penny you and I earned went to our son and our home. What about you and him? From the beginning, you were two separate families. He has a daughter, you have a son, and everyone wants more, it's never fair. When there's passion, you live in a daze; when the passion fades, the other person becomes an outsider, and then you'll regret it! So, if you think being with him is better, then go for it.”

南昌优秀夫妻

2019-04-12 22:48:13

Marriage should be mundane, a partnership based on responsibility and obligation. Don't expect too much romance; too much expectation makes people critical, and criticism is the root of a short-lived marriage. Approach marriage maturely and address problems! Too many people can't withstand the ordinariness of life, drifting off course and neglecting their responsibilities. I think this is a problem most people encounter in life. Let's learn to cherish the people around us.